The complexity of interpersonal relationships is a well-known fact. And for adults, feelings are not as simple as we think. What I want to tell you is that the strongest feelings in the world are based on the exchange of interests. When people get along with each other for a long time, they will inevitably find each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. It's hard for us to accept these shortcomings. So why can two people still love each other?The reason is simple, because we cannot achieve economic success without each other. The crow has a mouth, of course, it must first open its eyes to catch insects. We can't make money without each other, so we are forced to be patient and tolerant out of the need for profit. You may ask, isn't this all forced helplessness?But there is no way, this is the reality. Which thing do you want to ask if you are voluntary?Take an example, Peng Yuyan can work so hard to become oneMusclesStrong people, is it voluntary?No, he was also forced by profit. If you don't, you won't be paid. The relationship between husband and wife, ten years of love, really exists?This question is difficult to answer.
HumanityJust four words, like the new and hate the old. How is it possible to love the same person for ten years?Is this true?Suppose a man claims that he has been in love with his wife for ten years, do you follow him every day?If not, he may be lying. Or rather, he didn't have a better choice. He is not single-minded, but forced to be single-minded. There is only one kind of affection that is real and strong, and that is based on the exchange of interests. Don't tell me there is no exchange of interest between you and your parents. Me with mineParental relationshipVery good. Are you always there for them?Didn't you also leave your hometown and leave them?Now you're hundreds of miles, thousands of miles away from your parents, struggling outside, right?You tell me that you didn't fight to provide your parents with a good old age?But isn't that also for yourself?Isn't this to gain a reputation for filial piety?Or isn't this to give your conscience a kind of self-comfort?Isn't it all true?
If your parents, if you stay by their side, they give you an inheritance of 20 million, 30 million, will you still come out and fight?You're going to struggle for a yarn!Thus, affection, friendship, and love are all manifestations of the poor who believe in these ethereal things. In the eyes of people at a higher level, they believe only in relationships built with money and benefits. Socializing with others with money and benefits is true love. I don't want to make friends with my mouth and slogans, you know?I don't think that the relationship with the mother-in-law and the father-in-law is built with the mouth. In other words, I'll accompany them today and tomorrow. I think such behavior is very hypocritical. Anything that can be expressed in words, to put it bluntly, is hypocritical. I believe that actions speak louder than words.
When you look at a person later, look at their behavior and don't listen to what they say. Half of what they say is true and half false. Keep that in mind that the better the person speaks, the more hypocritical he is. The more directly a person speaks, the more it represents his authenticity. At the very least, there is some point in associating with a real person. The better the person who speaks, the more perfectly packaged it is. Do you understand all this?So in my mouth, I never say anything called true love, kindness and filial piety. These words are nothing more than a package. Just use your behavior to let the other person know you. It's 2022 now, and if you still think what I'm saying is cruel, and you still stick to your theory about feelings, have you lived in vain all these years?"Baby, I love you, I love you so much", and then took out a red envelope of 1000 yuan, don't you think it's ridiculous?Follow me and give you practical dry goods every day!