I don't want to leave the child either, but there's no way!Do you hear this sentence a lot?In the past, this sentence may have become an "excuse" for many parents of left-behind children, but recently I have heard the opposite of these words:I also want to take care of my children at home, but I can't help it!
I don't want to leave my children in my hometown, but I can't help it!
It's time for the child to rebel, and it's time to go back to spend time with the child (the child is in the sixth grade at home).Whether it is the first three sentences or the last three sentences, in fact, they are just excuses, the former is an excuse for not wanting to take children, and the latter is more of an excuse for not wanting to work hard, why do you say that?The child's grandparents can't teach at home, so they still have to go back to teach (the child's first year of junior high school).
I don't want my children to go my way!
There is indeed a lot of helplessness for the child to stay in his hometown, but does it really have to leave the child alone in his hometown, and then the husband and wife come out to fight?This may not be the case. No matter how difficult it is, as long as you want to take care of your children and want to accompany your children, you will always find a way, even if one of them goes out to work, you can still leave one person at home to take care of your children, so there is no way to do it?
And the latter, the child has to go home to accompany the child during the rebellious period, why does this become "certain" and "must"?When the child is in the fifth or sixth grade, or even in junior high school, has actually completely passed the time when he needs your company day and night, is it possible to "look at each other and hate each other" for a long time?
In fact, no matter which of the above situations, it directly refers to the "accompaniment" of the child, one is helpless not to accompany, and the other is to try his best to go home to "accompany". But parents think about it, is it true that children lack companionship?In fact, children do not need companionship, but effective companionship!
If you go home, just change the environment and play with your phone.In that case, why would you go home?If you go home and don't know how to communicate with your child, if you don't know how to guide and encourage your child, then you might as well not go back, maybe your child will live better, because no one wants to put themselves in an ineffective companionship environment, what do you think?If you go home, it's just to talk about the kids.
If you go home, just tell the child that you are poor.
If you go home and just don't want to work hard anymore.