Xi Murong said in "Monologue": "Not all people can know the meaning of time, and not all people know how to cherish it. There is no fate of separation and aging in this world, only the heart that is willing to love and unwilling to love. ”It is true that true love does not have to be vigorous, it is precious to implement it into daily trivialities and still love you as before, plain as water hides deep affection, and Xi hides endless attachment to you.
The care of the day and night, the temperature of a vegetable and a meal, all hide love in the bits and pieces.
A man really cares about a woman, and he can't hide these 3 manifestations.
One, willing to listen to your nonsense.
Have you ever seen such a bridge?When the husband came home from work, the wife happily took the coat and hung it up, and took out the slippers for the husband to change.
Then he took her husband's arm and said, "What did you do at home today?"Who did you meet when you went out to buy groceries?The child is making a fuss at home again.
Before the wife could finish speaking, the husband said impatiently, "I'm tired, I talk about these all day long, are you annoying?"The wife immediately stopped talking, and her expression was lonely.
If the wife complains a few words, the husband will immediately say: "You are content, I have treated you badly, I don't have to worry about food and clothing, and I don't lack your money to spend." I'm tired from work, so let me be quiet for a while. ”
A man who doesn't love you will be annoyed when he hears you talk, on the contrary, a man who really loves you will come home early from work and like to listen to you tell him a bunch of nonsense.
Best friend's husband is like this, not only is he not annoyed in the face of his best friend's chatter, but he has been smiling and listening, he said, a woman sharing nonsense with you proves that she has you in her heart.
How can there be so many serious words between husband and wife, if there is no nonsense, only polite and respectful guests, then the marriage will not be far from separation.
Time has passed, prosperity has fallen, if you can still talk nonsense with him at any time, he is still willing to take the trouble to listen, this is the best look of love.
Second, no matter how busy you are, you are free.
Netizen Guoguo shared her story. She and her boyfriend have been in love for 6 years and have been unpopular, but when her boyfriend proposed to get married, she was confused.
Thinking of 6 years of love, her boyfriend has been very busy, sometimes on weekends, she wants to ask her boyfriend out to play, and her boyfriend says that the boss asked him to work overtime, or his colleague has already asked him out, and he can't be untrustworthy.
Once, her boyfriend finally offered to take her to see an ancient street, and she was very happy, but when that day, her boyfriend temporarily said that he couldn't go.
In order not to let her boyfriend say that she was unreasonable, she swallowed her anger, but occasionally saw him on her boyfriend's mobile phone that he had ** chat software.
Ask him, "Aren't you very busy?"How do you sometimes talk to people?"My boyfriend said that we are not married yet, and I have the right to choose.
Obviously, it's not that he's busy, it's that you don't matter at all, and you're just a spare tire at best.
There is a quote that is more touching than "I love you", and that is "I'm busy, but I'm always available to you." ”
The people who love you want to be with you all the time, put you first, and are available to you no matter how busy they are.
Third, take the initiative to back down.
When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, so it depends on whether they can tolerate each other.
I quarreled with my husband, and I couldn't quarrel at all, although we had our own opinions, and he also said his reasoning, but if I insisted on my opinion, he would be silent and adopt me.
When the conflict is intense, he doesn't fight with me, he turns around and leaves, who do I want to quarrel with?
When he came back, he had a smiling face, pretending that nothing had happened just now, and I am not a person who admits death, and I will not hold on to one thing, and this contradiction will pass.
As the saying goes, the upper and lower teeth can bite the tongue if you are not careful, not to mention the two people who get along day and night, the man who knows how to run the family and cares about his wife, he will make concessions, because home is not a place to talk about "reason", but a place to talk about "love".
Just think that Yang Jiang once asked Qian Zhongshu: "Why do you let me every time you quarrel?."Qian Zhongshu replied: "Because you are mine, even if you win the quarrel, what can you do?"If I win the reason, lose the feelings, and lose you, I will lose the whole of my life. ”This is the wisest man, take the initiative to back down, what if you lose, and win the relationship is the ultimate winner.
All sincerity and care can be followed, take the initiative to retreat, appease your heart, listen to your nonsense, and be full of love. No matter how busy you are, you have time.
If you meet such a man, cherish it.