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Lao Ding's evaluation of Dehua is that in addition to her lack of education, she is indeed a pretty outstanding woman.
This reveals the selfishness of Jiang Defu and An Jie, if it weren't for Dehua's infatuation with Lao Ding, Dehua would definitely have lived with her brother and sister-in-law all the time. My brother and sister-in-law also like Dehua, because Dehua is beautiful and gentle. Jiang Defu never supported the relationship between Dehua and Lao Ding, let alone prepare in advance and let her learn Xi culture to please Lao Ding. My brother and sister-in-law don't like Dehua either, all she likes is her brother and sister. Although Dehua is uneducated, there is no communication barrier between her brother and sister-in-law, and because her brother is a commander, her sister's performance is not very good. After she has culture, her brother and sister-in-law will take the initiative to ask her for help, let her learn culture and knowledge, let her brother and sister-in-law help her do farm work, let her brother and sister-in-law do housework, and let her brother and sister-in-law help her brother and sister-in-law work. When she became more intelligent, people always looked up to her, and her sister-in-law's family members also showed deep respect for her.
If the screenwriter decided to let her learn Xi culture, what would be the impact?
Although she is very good, her appearance and temperament are slightly inferior compared to An Jie. The down-to-earth, sincere, and bitter image of a rural old girl she created before is now much worse than before. Compared with Dehua, which has cultural heritage, the copy-paste version of Anjie is even better. Dehua is Dehua, and Anjie is Anjie. Dehua has similarities with Anjie, and that's enough. For example: likes to pout, has a sharp gaze, is thoughtful, has a likable personality, and has a quick mind. She lacks cultural accomplishments, but this happens to retain a simple and authentic character for her. Deokhua would treat her like a friend. While admiring An Jie, Lao Ding also expressed kindness to Dehua.
Dehua and Lao Ding's marriage is actually a combination of love, so she was able to survive, and the final ending was happier than Wang Xiu'e and Zhang Guiying. However, this does not mean that love can last forever, and once love is gone, everything will end. Although Lao Ding didn't have the courage to admit that this was true love, what he did had already betrayed him. Once, Dehua sat in front of the door and cried bitterly because he was drunk, and when Lao Ding saw this, he very considerately handed her a towel, hoping that she could help him wipe his face. Looking back, his attitude towards Wang Xiu'e has never been so gentle. Wang Xiu'e just said "Let's get a good night's sleep", and began to worry that Lao Ding might have bad thoughts about An Jie. She has a reason for being jealous, because she and Lao Ding have been married for ten years, but she has never heard Lao Ding say to her, "Sleep well".
An Xin once pointed out: "Lack of culture does not mean lack of scheming, because culture and scheming are two completely different concepts."
By observing these fragments, we can judge how wise Dehua is!
The purpose of suing his brother was not to satisfy his appetite, but out of consideration for his brother.
Dehua learned at home that her mother called her sister-in-law Miss instead of comrade, and her sister-in-law also called her back, but did not call her eldest sister. Worried that their call might have a bad impact on her brother's future, she went out to buy ingredients and waited outside for his arrival, hoping to give him a revelation.
Compared to last time, I learned from Wang Xiu'e that sister-in-law An Jie hindered her brother's promotion, which led to a heated argument between Dehua and her sister-in-law, and made her sister-in-law angry and returned to her parents' house. This time, my sister's mood changed a lot. This time, Dehua made significant progress, neither using her power to bully others, nor making it clear at home. Sister Dehua's temper became gentle. Dehua is the real brother protector, and she chooses to remain silent about things that are not good for him. Since then, she has not mentioned her sister-in-law's birth background again, and similarly, she has remained tight-lipped when her brother was hurt. Her brother was killed, and she didn't care, just told her that he was a good person. Dehua, like her sister-in-law, knows how to exercise moderation and cheer for Jiang Defu. She is a principled person and never puts on a stand in front of others. For example, every time An Jie rides the rickshaw, he rushes out of the bus before arriving at the gate of the artillery school, and he knows the consequences of doing so, and even during pregnancy, he sticks to this Xi.
Over time, she developed a deep affection for her sister-in-law's image and knew how to maintain her image.
Wang Xiu'e expressed dissatisfaction with An Jie's willfulness, she said that if she didn't go to join the army, she wouldn't go, and if she wanted to let her go, she would definitely not be able to do it. "I'm not your sister! Dehua compared Wang Xiu'e to her sister-in-law, saying, "You came from the countryside and went to the island, isn't that a way of life?" My sister-in-law is different, and as a young lady in the city, she is naturally different." "I'm talking about rural people! Wang Xiu'e said to Dehua: "Aren't you from the countryside?" Why don't you go"? "I'm here to see you, why don't you go? Deokhua responded: "I came here to visit the child, not to see the adult, and if that child doesn't go, what will I do".
From this, it can be seen that Dehua's way of life is clear, her words are very reasonable, and besides, she is a little scared of her sister-in-law, and if her sister-in-law does not go, she does not dare to say it. So she treats herself as an aunt and her sister as an older sister. In An Jie's most difficult moment, with Dehua's company, how could such a sister-in-law relationship be bad.
However, Ge Meixia said that An Jie was scared of Dehua. Dehua suddenly wanted to drink coffee, but unfortunately the coffee was missing, so An Jie obediently walked into the room and took out an empty bucket to show her. Dehua found that Ge Meixia's understanding was wrong, so she patiently explained: "How can I not believe it, she is not that kind of person, she is willing to give me anything valuable." Ge Meixia is a teacher, but she is not fluent in speech. An Jie regards her as a close friend, but Ge Meixia tries to stir up a relationship between them in a tactful way; Dehua didn't care about the relationship she had with Lao Ding, but she chose Dehua as a laughing stock.
Ge Meixia should show more sincerity and add more personality traits.
Comparing it or not, Deokhua is always the most likable character in the show, so she has no regrets whether she is educated or not. Liu Lin successfully created the role of Dehua. Although Wang Xiu'e is illiterate, she is good at protecting marriage, Dehua is more capable than her, she will not listen to the wind or rain, she firmly believes that what she sees with her own eyes is true. Her husband works in the field and has only two children, two elderly people and a son. Wang Xiu'e mentioned that Lao Ding had been missing An Jie, and Jiang Defu became interested in him at home, and she also mentioned that Jiang Defu entrusted An Jie to Lao Ding, which made Jiang Defu feel very naïve.
Although Dehua listened very carefully, she always believed in the quality of her sister-in-law and didn't think there was anything wrong with them, and she had her own judgment, so she wasn't angry at all. On the contrary, he told Wang Xiu'e very calmly: "It is your man who misses my sister-in-law, and my sister-in-law may have a good impression of your man"? At the same time, she firmly opposes any negative comments made by Wang Xiu'e about her sister-in-law, even remarks like "lonely men and widows, three watches in the middle of the night" are not accepted. She wanted her to say, I know, he's not going to do that. Wang Xiu'e further said that she did not think that just playing the hanging bottle would last all night, while Dehua solemnly pointed out that it was not overnight, but late at night.
It was only when Dehua witnessed Lao Ding and his sister-in-law laughing and laughing on the playground that she felt deep fear. As Wang Xiu'e said: "A slap can't be beaten, but a slap, if you want to slap another, it's really a difficult thing"!
Observe how folk masters show their desire to survive.
Dehua came directly to Qingdao without prior notice. At this time, Sun Ma lived at home, and she coquetted to her brother, saying that Sun Ma occupied all her bunks, in fact, because she was afraid that Sun Ma would replace her, and if she could not help in this family, she would not be able to continue to stay here. Dehua learned from Wang Xiu'e that her sister-in-law treated her grandmother as politely as she treated Dehua, and that her mother had worked as a nanny at her sister-in-law's house for more than ten years, and Dehua was worried that if her sister-in-law and her mother had the same heart, her life might be affected. Although Dehua regards her sister-in-law as a relative, her affection and status for her brother have not been surpassed.
Dehua's attitude towards Sun Ma is quite cold, she not only wants to win the favor of her sister-in-law, but also thinks that Sun Ma is a troublemaker in this family. After all, Grandma is a capitalist nanny, and if she is there, the sister-in-law may indulge herself, fearing that it will have a bad impact on her brother's future.
Dehua was so witty that she actually made a "complaint" in front of Secretary Yang, and her words were flawless. Dehua is afraid that after she returns to her hometown, her grandmother will appear again, so her sister-in-law may not follow the army. She thought, how can this child not make her mother angry? Dehua was delivering the news to Secretary Yang, and Secretary Yang quickly frightened An Jie at his work unit. "What are you doing here? An Jie knows the importance of his grandmother, because he knows that his grandmother is something he doesn't dare to mention easily. If Sun Ma becomes the center of the topic, it will be a big threat to Jiang Defu, and An Jie knows this very well.
Once, An Jie revealed to Dehua that Zhang Guiying had died, and Dehua may have just taken a nap, so she seemed a little confused. She felt as if she was dreaming. She mistakenly thought that her former sister-in-law had died, so when she heard the names of Yafei and Deputy Political Commissar Wang, who had nothing to do with her, she seemed very confused, and it was not until the end that she realized that it was her neighbor's sister-in-law who had died. Guilan on that ** seemed to be alive, and whenever Dehua thought of her, she would feel angry. But she assured her brother that the scandal of the Jiang family could not be revealed to her sister-in-law. Therefore, she followed her sister-in-law's advice and comforted her by saying, "Who is my sister-in-law, you are my real sister-in-law, I am a sister-in-law like you." "Who is my sister-in-law? "Indeed, my sister-in-law is so beautiful, and Lao Ding also has deep feelings for her, and she can abide by her duties. And it is a shame that the ex-sister-in-law, a woman from the countryside, has the audacity to associate with her husband's brother.
In an emergency, Dehua wittily verified Jiang Changyi's actual identity.
Dehua couldn't understand why the third brother ended his marriage with Zhang Guilan in less than two days after returning home? How did she know? The two did not have an argument, and Zhang Guilan obediently returned to her parents' home? Neither she nor her husband liked her husband. Wang Xiu'e speculated that Zhang Guilan might have done something immoral.
This time, Jiang Changyi came suddenly, and what Wang Xiu'e said appeared in Dehua's mind. Dehua pretended to admit that Jiang Changyi was the third brother's child, and provided the third brother with a ** opportunity. Unexpectedly, Jiang Defu has been depressed, this situation has become very abnormal, his biological son came to look for him, is there really anything that makes him angry!
Dehua didn't dare to add fuel to the fire, she invited Jiang Changyi to her home, first asked about his birthday, based on the experience of "seven lives and eight don't live", she speculated that Jiang Changyi did not come home that year for the third brother. In order to further confirm that Jiang Changyi was an impostor, she acted as an intermediary, arranged for two nephews to accompany her, and invited Jiang Changyi to dinner and drinks in an attempt to obtain information from him.
Jiang Changyi was fully prepared, but he was never fooled, and everyone was intoxicated by his solitary awakening, which made Dehua fully understand his defense. She said the same was true for her brother. Her second brother is such a person, no matter how he drinks, his face will not turn red, but will become whiter and whiter the more he drinks. Jiang Changyi is the child of Zhang Guilan and her second brother, no wonder the third brother is so aggrieved and angry.
Dehua was very witty and quickly deduced that Deputy Political Commissar Wang intended to marry Teacher Ge.
Before Dehua was unmarried, she already had an in-depth understanding of relationships, especially when it came to her personal happy life. She knew she had a younger sister. Yaning told her aunt: "Teacher Ge has visited Uncle Ding's house, and Uncle Ding stood in front of the door to greet him warmly and continuously said, 'Please come in, please come in', which is very polite." "That's my uncle, and he greeted me very warmly!Dehua's reaction was even sharper than that of her sister-in-law, because she recalled what Wang Xiu'e once said, "Get a good night's sleep." "Okay!"Okay!"Dehua has visited Lao Ding's house many times, but once she was greeted at the doorIt was once in a small courtyard. That time, he said to her, "Please come in."
Dehua did not ask her brother and sister-in-law to stop Lao Ding, but chose to cut off their relationship from the source of the matter. She approached Zhang Guiying for help and asked Wang Zhenbiao (the director of the political department) to intervene to prevent Lao Ding from marrying Ge Meixia.
Why is Dehua not interested in Wang Zhenbiao's merits?
Initially, Zhang Guiying called Wang Zhenbiao, but Wang Zhenbiao did not make a decision on this matter, but has been communicating officially with his wife. Eventually, their marriage was broken, if not for the sake of Dehua, then for their own benefit. I don't want that much to happen," he said. The first time I showed a smile to my wife, it was unexpectedly because of the matter about Ge Meixia in **. She is a very assertive woman and does not like to be talked about. In daily life, Zhang Guiying is always left out in the cold, for example, when she and Dehua return from the beach, Zhang Guiying loses a shoe, which makes Wang Zhenbiao feel very embarrassed and reprimands her in front of Jiang Defu.
An Jie said to Dehua: "If Mr. Ge marries Lao Ding, are you still willing to marry him?" "That's not right!In addition to the fact that she had witnessed Wang Zhenbiao's dissatisfaction with Zhang Guiying, Lao Ding should have also commented on Wang Zhenbiao in front of Dehua. Dehua expressed this point of view: "Preventing Lao Ding from marrying Teacher Ge involved both social class and position, why don't these issues be discussed anymore."
This is not what Dehua has personally understood, but more like someone told her.
Even An Jie can't ** who Wang Zhenbiao's real wife is. It is unlikely that Jiang Defu will reveal the past of Lao Ding and Ge Meixia to Dehua. Therefore, the only possible explanation is that Lao Ding had mentioned to her that Wang Zhenbiao had oppressed her brother at work in the past.
Dehua performed her big move and cleverly arranged for her sister-in-law's whole family to come to pick up the painting.
Whether it is living with her brother and sister-in-law, or marrying and living with Lao Ding, Dehua's spiritual cultivation is steadily rising. Considering her personal life wisdom and the accumulation of time, her way of handling affairs is very comprehensive, which makes Lao Ding feel a little ashamed.
When Jiang Defu evaluated An Jie's portrait, he couldn't find a suitable word after a lot of effort. Lao Ding used the word "expressive" to describe him, and he himself was very happy and couldn't help laughing. But he was worried that Jiang Defu would find out, so he quickly withdrew his expression.
In addition to this, Lao Ding has more places to be smug. Jiang Defu selected a large number of paintings, and Lao Ding picked up one of the most outstanding oil paintings, which shocked even An Jie.
Therefore, Lao Ding invited Mr. Xia to drink wine together, and specially asked him to give him this work of art, and also arranged for Mr. Xia to hang this painting in his bedroom. It was really drunk and told the truth, and I guess Dehua probably put up with him for a whole night. When Lao Ding lies in bed, he pretends to be innocent, but Dehua immediately exposes his hypocrisy and humiliates Lao Ding with Wang Xiu'e's words. Indeed, she was very fond of the beautiful woman who was as illiterate as her sister-in-law;With a bad heart, while tasting the food in the bowl, he looked at the food in the pot.
Quarrels don't solve the problem, and Dehua hangs the paintings in such rooms when he goes to work. He kept the painting in a small drawer. The smell of the little boy's feet and the smell of the girl is very strong, and the brother is so fond of his sister-in-law, how can he bear to let her portrait be stained by the unpleasant smell every day?The only way to take off the portrait is to either hang it in the living room or take it home. As we all know, Lao Ding's mind is so complicated, he will never give that painting to Lao Ding, his brother and sister-in-law took this painting back to their home, this is their only decision. Dehua's behavior not only protects the portrait rights of her sister-in-law, but also protects Lao Ding's dignity domineeringly.
In fact, Lao Ding especially likes women who can be both wise and brave with him and can effectively control him, otherwise whenever An Jie hurts him, he will feel that his sweet and sour ratio is just right.
Finally, I would like to add some specific information about Moutai.
When Wang Xiu'e delivered An Jie, she asked Dehua to find a bottle of spicy wine for her. Dehua gets a bottle of Moutai with the highest value and asks "Is this bottle of wine okay?".During her visit to her brother's house, she did not see him taste Moutai, so it can be assumed that the quality of this wine is good. It can be seen from this that her concern for her sister-in-law is deep, and she is very concerned about every detail at the critical moment when An Jie is about to give birth. Her actions also reflect her love for her wife and husband, but at the same time, there are many loopholes. For example, in strict accordance with the requirements of her sister-in-law, she continuously monitored whether Wang Xiu'e washed her hands.
Not only does Dehua like to put on a show and compete for favor, but her actual behavior is also very reliable and heartwarming.
After Ouyang Yi was rehabilitated, she celebrated at Jiang Defu's home, while Dehua hid in the bellows of the kitchen to vent her emotions, blaming her brother and sister-in-law for favoring her. When Antai arrived, he did not choose to drink Moutai, but invited Lao Ding to accompany the guests, but now that Ouyang Yi has arrived, he chose to drink Moutai instead of inviting Lao Ding. "I asked your brother to come and drink with me, so don't invite him!She didn't expect her brother to do this to protect Ouyang Yi's dignity, but when he faced Ouyang Yi, he didn't show any resentment. "Who is your brother?".Ouyang Yi asked Dehua, "What do you call me?"Dehua replied very seriously: "I call you brother-in-law." Ouyang Yi lost his temper due to drunkenness, and An Xin hurriedly explained to Dehua: "I'm sorry, he drank too much." Dehua responded sensibly: "Don't worry, everything is fine."
Here's a summary:
Although Tokuka is innocent, her intelligence and cuteness are irresistible.
Mutter in a low voice over small things, but never sloppy in big things.
Lack of culture is more important than having culture.