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As the old saying goes: "The product is present in the matter, and the heart is hidden in the body." ”
In life, a person's true character and pattern will be hidden in the reaction and handling of encounters.
The following 3 top attitudes are shared with you, and I hope you can be able to deal with things without being surprised and go steadily.
Big things have to be quiet. There is a cloud in "University": "After being quiet, you can be safe, and then you can worry, and then you can get after thinking." ”
When encountering physical and mental tranquility, you can be thoughtful.
When a person encounters a major event, the more impetuous his heart is, and the more he is reckless, the more he will be swayed by emotions, and he will pay the price for his impulsiveness and immaturity.
There is calm in every major event, and I don't believe that there are no ancient sages today. ”
Life events are often to think long-term and plan the overall situation, we need to calm down in time, stabilize emotions, control temperament, and control our mentality.
In this way, we can truly put our thoughts, energy, wisdom and strategy into dealing with things themselves.
How quiet the heart is, how wide the road is.
At the moment of major events, only by not being impatient and stabilizing our minds can we see the whole picture of things, see the moves, and deal with them calmly.
The road of life is lonely and long, rugged and wild, only by being calm and calm in the face of things, and maintaining a calm thinking ability, can you make every step under your feet steady and steady.
Calm down, withstand the pressure, and finally encounter big things, solve big things, and achieve big things.
Hurry up. The still water is deep, the tension is moderate, the urgency is slow, and the slow is round. ”
Urgent matters always give people pressure and confuse people's minds.
If a person encounters an urgent matter and is impetuous, he will definitely not be able to think deeply about the problem and make the right decision.
Often, if you are in a hurry and choose shortcuts, the more likely you will be to get into more problems and troubles, and in the end, the gains outweigh the losses.
The ancients said: "If you want to hurry, you can't reach it." ”
Instead of seeking speed and half the effort, it is better to seek stability and not be in a hurry or chaos in order to achieve remarkable results.
Slowing down is not to stand still, but to be ready to tackle the problem.
Don't be in a hurry, don't be in a hurry to deal with emergencies and emergencies immediately, only by calming down and calming down can you analyze the problem step by step and find a solution to the problem.
Think twice before you act in an emergency, don't act in a hurry or impulsively, and you will achieve a bright future.
The past is downplayed. There is a saying in the Four Teachings of the Mortal: "In the past, all kinds of things were like yesterday's death;From the latter, such as today, to be born. ”
Don't let your mind dwell on what has already passed, and don't let yesterday's shortcomings replace the happiness of the present. If you are Xi to looking back at the past, you will inevitably hesitate. No matter how big the grievances are, no matter how much nostalgia you have, in the end it will only become an obsession and burden that tortures you.
Su Zi said: "Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian. ”
Only by knowing how to close the door behind you can you travel lightly and stride forward. People who really know how to deal with things don't bother with the past, just laugh for the rest of their lives.
I once read a story with a profound meaning. The Zen master pointed to the heavy rain outside and said to the two **s: "The rain is your teacher, you should work hard to learn from it Xi The two ** were puzzled and asked, "I don't know what to learn from the rain?"The Zen master pointed to the water tank and said, "When the water is in a container of different shapes, the water becomes the shape of the container, and the water can be collected and released freely." The Zen master pointed to the water on the ground and said, "Learn Xi the openness of the rain, and in the face of different times and different situations, the water can be at peace with the encounter, because it will not indulge in the past and will not sink itself." ”
Look down on the past, accept the passage of time, tolerate the vicissitudes of life, and you will reap the abundance of your heart.
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Editor |Wang Sinan, Chen Huisheng (Xi) People's Forum new ** production.
Materials** Cave reading, there are books, Lao Tzu Tao Te Ching;**From the web.