Teacher Zhang, a family education teacher who has gone from grassroots to high-quality self-editing, shared her daughter's growth story in a lecture. In the story, her daughter encountered a school bullying incident in her second year of junior high school: a male classmate played the shoulder strap of his daughter's underwear during evening Xi. Enraged by the boy's disrespectful behavior, the daughter responded with a slap in the face, while the boy slammed the book on her head. The conflict between the two quickly escalated and eventually turned into a chair-to-chair scuffle. The incident was discovered by the class leaders and quickly reported to the school's moral education director.
As the mother of her daughter, Ms. Zhang arrived at the school as soon as possible and was summoned to the office by the director of moral education. In front of the director of moral education, Ms. Zhang stood firmly on her daughter's side, accepted and understood her emotions, and gave her a warm hug. This hug is not only a mother's expression of love for her daughter, but also an important role for parents in their children's development. No matter where and whenever a child feels, they feel supported and understood by their parents, and this emotional acceptance is essential for children to boost their self-confidence and self-esteem.
When the head of pastoral education and the boy's father tried to demand an apology from his daughter, Mr. Zhang firmly stated that he would not let his daughter apologize. She posed a question to the director of pastoral education and the boy's father: If it were your own daughter who was strapped, would you agree with her apology?Teacher Zhang's resolute attitude embarrassed the director of moral education and the boy's father. She said that she did not report the matter to the Education Bureau, nor did she define it as harassment or character issues, but instead gave it full leniency. She offered to let the Pastoral Director and the boy's father negotiate a solution on their own, and if they could resolve it reasonably and apologize, she would accept;Otherwise, she will go to the Education Bureau to find a solution. Teacher Zhang told them that her daughter was her responsibility and that she would stand up for her daughter when she was bullied.
On the way home, my daughter said with emotion: "Mom, I thought you would reproach me and make me a little more tolerant." I didn't expect you to be my strong backing, you support me, and you are my confidence. Her daughter's words made Ms. Zhang feel extremely gratified, she knew that she had succeeded in passing on the faith and will to her daughter, and she always supported and encouraged her daughter emotionally, so that she could feel the warmth and support of maternal love. For parents, when their children face difficulties and challenges, no matter what happens, we should be their strongest backing and protect their growth and dignity. At the same time, we also need to educate our children how to protect themselves and build a confident, brave and strong character and attitude. Through teaching, guidance and accompaniment, they have the confidence not to be bullied.
In sharing her daughter's story, Ms. Zhang, a family education teacher, mentioned some ways to cultivate children's anti-bullying awareness. These methods can help children protect themselves and strengthen their confidence in the face of bullying.
First of all, it is necessary to teach children to walk with aura, hold their chest high, and walk firmly. A person with a strong aura has a temperament that is not easy to mess with. Let the child realize his own worth and self-confidence, which is shown in the posture of walking.
Second, don't please others and dare to say "no". Be a person who is neither humble nor arrogant, firmly defend his rights and interests, and not be a soft lamb. When you encounter something you don't like or an unreasonable request, be brave enough to say no. Refusal is everyone's right, and only by learning to say no can you protect yourself.
In addition, parents are the backbone of their children. No matter what difficulties and challenges your child is facing, you can confide in your parents. Parents are their most solid backing and confidence, so that children always feel the support and love of their parents.
Finally, parents need to be emotionally strong supporters for their children. No matter what mistakes their children make, parents should give them understanding and support, rather than rushing to blame and punish. In this way, children can feel the warmth and security of the family, so that they have the courage to face bullying and challenges from the outside world.
In short, it is very important to educate children about anti-bullying, and parents should cultivate their self-confidence and courage from an early age, so that they can learn to protect themselves. At the same time, parents should also be emotionally strong supporters for their children, giving them understanding and support. In this way, our children can grow up healthily without fear of bullying on the road of growth.