"Give birth to a broken granddaughter, whoever gives birth will raise it. This sentence, like a sharp blade, is deeply embedded in my heart. My name is Xiaoxue and I am an ordinary girl, and like many others, I also want to be able to have a complete family and not be sneered at by my relatives.
When I was a child, there were not many conflicts in my family, my parents were harmonious, and my brother loved me. However, everything changed when I was 12 years old.
Look at you, you look like a giant baby. My sister-in-law scoffed.
At that time, because I was growing and gaining weight, I became the object of her teasing. And my daughter-in-law actually stood on her side and said, "Indeed, Xiaoxue, you have to pay attention to your diet and exercise, otherwise you will become a joke of others." ”
I felt a blow to my heart, and it felt as if the whole world was laughing at me. I couldn't let go of the pain in my heart, I began to feel less and less inferior, I didn't dare to go to any meetings, and I began to gradually distance myself from my family.
Xiaoxue, what's wrong with you?How did you become so afraid of swarms?My best friend Mei asked.
Nothing, you leave me alone. "I pushed her away, reluctant to let her see my vulnerability, and I chose to face it alone.
At school, I had heard and witnessed many similar ridicules, and the chattering of my classmates pierced my heart like a sharp blade. Especially my sister-in-law, she always shows off herself in front of me, with a smug smile in her eyes. Her words were like a needle that pierced my heart and made my whole body wooden.
At that time, I didn't know why, I didn't know what to do, only that my status in the family seemed to be getting lower and lower. My daughter-in-law often gets angry at me at home, and even if I sometimes do nothing wrong, she will still be angry with me, "You are crying and crying again, there is no end, what a giant baby." "After listening to my daughter-in-law kicking my sister-in-law out of the door, I seemed to see a glimmer of hope, whether this is a little redemption for me, I don't know.
Time passed, and I slowly understood many things. The sister-in-law who often teased me just wanted to cover up her inferiority complex by insulting others. I can't help but think of that lively and cheerful sister-in-law when I was a child, and now, she has become a person with a mouth full of negative energy. And me?I should cherish myself, strengthen my heart, and no longer let other people's words control me.
That night, I finally picked myself up and walked to my sister-in-law's room.
Sister, I'll talk to you, okay?I knocked softly on her door.
Come on in. The sister-in-law's voice was a little low.
I walked in and saw her sitting alone on the bed in a daze.
Sister, you know what?You don't need to hurt others to alleviate your own pain. You've always been a lively and cheerful person, why did you become the way you are?”
The sister-in-law listened silently, with a complicated expression in her eyes.
Xiaoxue, you're right, I know I'm not good now, but I'm also sad. I know I've always been the darling of my family, but now I feel upset when I see someone else taking my place away from me. ”
Sister, in fact, each of us will go through such a stage, but we can't give up on ourselves and run away from life because of this. ”
The sister-in-law nodded silently, and a glimmer of light began to appear in her eyes.
I know that I can't just think from my own point of view, I should understand and help others. Instead of closing myself off to the surface of laughter, I started to pay attention to and help those in need.
The atmosphere at home has gradually improved, my parents have become more tolerant of me, and my sister-in-law has begun to become the same as before, although her temper is still not good, but at least she is no longer angry with me. When my daughter-in-law saw me, she patted me on the shoulder with a gentle expression.
By chance, I met a group of people in need, and I started to take the initiative to chat with them and help them solve their problems, and I found that while paying attention to others, I also gained a lot of growth. The people around me also saw the change in me, and they began to slowly open up to me.
"Give birth to a broken granddaughter, whoever gives birth will raise it. This sentence no longer affects my heart, because I know how to understand others in my own way and help others. Every time I think about that adversity, I can suddenly see that I am no longer stuck in the past, but moving towards a better future.
Xiaoxue, I have something to say to you. My sister-in-law patted me lightly on the shoulder, and there was a hint of gratitude and apology in her eyes.
Sister, what's the matter with you?I looked at her and asked with a smile.
Some time ago, I said to you that it was really too much, and I regret it. The sister-in-law's voice began to tremble a little.
Sister, don't be like this, let the past pass. I'm relieved that we're back in harmony and I'm very satisfied. I squeezed her hand and smiled.
The sister-in-law's eyes were filled with tears, and she suddenly took me in her arms, hugged me hard, and said incoherently, "I'm sorry, I'm really sorry." ”
I also responded to her hug vigorously, and my heart was full of warmth. I understand that this hug is not only an apology for her, but also a symbol of the renewed bond between us. At this moment, the pain in my heart seemed to become insignificant in an instant.
Soon after, my parents noticed that the atmosphere in the house had noticeably improved, and they began to be more tolerant of me and stopped nagging me about everything. My daughter-in-law also began to become gentle and no longer critical of me. I feel blessed by my family's love and understanding, and I have learned to be more tolerant of life.
Xiaoxue, you have really changed a lot and now you look more confident and strong. Xiaomei took my hand and said with a smile.
Yes, actually, I have also experienced a lot of things before I slowly learned how to face life. I slowly talked about what I had been through.
After listening to my experience, Xiaomei also hugged me silently. At this moment, I suddenly felt that the inferiority complex and pain I used to have become so insignificant, because I faced life with a more mature and open-minded attitude.
This experience taught me tolerance and understanding, and also made me understand that only by growing up can I have true strength. Every setback and difficulty in life is on the way to sharpening yourself. I am no longer afraid of challenges because of my inner growth, which makes me stronger.
Today, I live a full and happy life. I'm not perfect, but I know I'm moving in a better direction. Whenever I see those who need help, I cherish everything I have even more, because all of them are precious resources for my growth. And that period of sadness has become an invaluable part of my life, because it has made me more mature and rich.