On the road to explore the mysteries of life, we will always encounter some incredible metaphysical truths. Among them, there is a thought-provoking point that people must go through love before they can go through good luck. So, what is a pass?
Passing the love barrier, in short, is to let go of ego. This does not mean that we should be pure and have few desires and stop pursuing anything. Because in real life, none of us can get rid of the shackles of emotions and pursue emotional satisfaction such as love and marriage. However, this is not really a pass, but an escape. Some people have resolutely avoided contact with feelings after being hurt, only to have a long-term emotional desire that cannot be released, and once they re-engage in the relationship, they will pursue it frantically and eventually get hurt again.
So, how can you really get over the relationship?I think the key is to accept everything and understand the importance of living for yourself. This means that we must learn to look inward and calmly face the various behaviors that come with feelings.
Looking at the people around us, we find that those who have not been able to get through the relationship often have a struggle in some aspects. They are always entangled in the effect, but in the cause they are dependent on the cause. For example, when it comes to choosing a partner, they are informal, believing that a few flaws are harmless. However, once together, they frantically pursue each other, demanding that the other person must do certain things for themselves in order to prove their love. This pattern of behavior causes them to constantly hurt in their relationships.
In fact, we should work on the cause and follow the effect. Choose a like-minded partner, respect each other, run in, and grow together. As for whether we can come together in the end, we must learn to accept it calmly. We must understand that it is not right for others to hurt us, but the deeper reason is that we give the other person the opportunity to hurt us. Because we are not complete enough and pin part of our desires on the other person, the other party has the opportunity to hurt us.
In the journey of life, we must learn to be independent, enrich ourselves, and become a complete person. In this way, we can navigate the world of emotions without being hurt. Let us face our emotions bravely, let go of our ego, and pursue inner peace and growth. In this journey, we will surely reap the benefits of a bright future.
Emotional psychology