The regret of moving from rural hukou to the city, the practical predicament and the different feelings of rural life!
The ups and downs of childhood.
I was born in a rural area and my family was not wealthy. His father was a worker, and his mother was a hard-working farmer. Due to the different family expenses of my parents, according to the regulations, I could only settle in the countryside with my mother and live a typical peasant life. Since I was a child, I have witnessed the hardships of rural life, not having enough to eat, living in a simple house, and accompanying my mother to do farm work. I remember that during the summer double rush season, I almost fainted from the heat when I harvested early rice and planted rice, and I often imagined that if I could become a city person, I would no longer have to do all this farm work. I studied hard and hoped to change my fate. However, I failed the college entrance examination by three points, which may be fate!I'm still a farmer.
Expectations were disappointed. In order to change my fate, I decided to go abroad to work. In the process of working abroad, I met my lover, who is a city family. However, since I am still from a rural family, my mother-in-law is not optimistic about me, thinking that I am not worthy of the favor of my lover, and I am more worried that my son is also from a rural family. Despite these difficulties, we were able to come together at the insistence of our lover. However, due to various reasons after marriage, I still could not change my hukou, and I could only continue to keep my rural hukou. After the birth of our son, we had to go back to the countryside to go through a series of procedures such as prenatal checkups, which caused a lot of inconvenience. When a child reaches school age, he can only go to school in the countryside according to the restrictions of his hukou. This has caused us great inconvenience, the quality of education cannot be guaranteed, and it is very inconvenient to pick up and drop off children every day.
Spring changes in the countryside.
Contrary to my disappointment and regret about the city, my hometown has changed dramatically. In the second year after I left my hukou, the village's land was expropriated, which meant that all the elderly who reached retirement age were covered by land loss insurance. As a retired elderly, my mother received a retirement salary beyond her imagination, with more than 2,000 yuan a month. For a farmer, having such a benefit as a pension is simply incredible. For villagers who have not reached retirement age, as long as they have paid social security contributions for 15 years every year, the village will give them a corresponding subsidy, and the specific amount depends on the number of years each person has paid social security.
This means that even people like me who have just started paying social insurance contributions can enjoy 25 years of retirement as long as they stick to paying for 10 years, which is really enviable. At the same time, families are living in high-rise buildings. The whole village is planned in a unified manner, and the village provides interest-free loans, so that every family can realize their housing dreams. There are roads, parking lots, parks and other facilities near the village, and the convenience of life is beyond imagination. In addition, villagers who have not reached retirement age can also receive a subsidy of one pound of rice every day, all domestic services are free, and the village also pays dividends according to the shareholding system every year.
Conclusion. Looking back on my own life experiences, I am deeply aware that every choice has a profound impact on the future. Although I changed my hukou for the sake of my children's education, I did not take into account the huge potential for rural development. Living in the city did not bring me the luck I expected, on the contrary, I missed the opportunity for great development in the countryside. In villages where certain achievements have been made, peasants enjoy social benefits equal to or even better than those of urban dwellers. Through this, I deeply realized that a person's status not only depends on household registration, but also requires diligence and hard work. Even if a person has a rural hukou, as long as he has the opportunity, he can change his fate through his own efforts.
At the same time, it has also taught me to think more before making a choice and to think more about the changes that may occur in the future. Every decision has a significant impact on a person's future, and we should consider the problem from a holistic and long-term perspective, rather than being limited to immediate interests and limitations.
Most importantly, I learned not to regret my past choices, the key is to face reality and actively look for solutions. Although I can't go back to the countryside to enjoy such preferential treatment, I can strive for a better life through my own efforts. I want to believe that as long as I face difficulties bravely, keep working hard, and move forward bravely, I will definitely be able to achieve my dreams and live the life I want.