Love is the most elusive emotion in life.
Some people's love is picturesque, while others taste bitterness in it.
When we fall in love, we think we can go to the ends of the earth hand in hand;But when love passed, we suddenly realized that we had drifted apart from each other.
When a man changes his mind, how should a woman respond?
1. Selfish men no longer think about you.The essence of love is giving and loving, but when a man begins to change his heart, his selfish nature is exposed.
He may hurt you for his own benefit and no longer look out of you as much as he used to.
His words and actions will make you feel cold and unforgiving.
At this time, a woman should understand that such a man is no longer worth cherishing.
There was once a girl named Xiaoyu who was deeply in love with her boyfriend.
However, as time goes on, she discovers that her boyfriend is becoming more and more selfish.
He always puts his own needs first and doesn't care about Xiaoyu's feelings.
He begins to sneer at her and even embarrass her in front of his friends.
Finally, one day, Xiaoyu realizes that this man no longer loves her, and his selfishness has surpassed their love.
2. Don't humble yourself.Humility in love is a misunderstanding that many women tend to fall into.
When a man no longer loves you, you tend to make many humble moves in order to salvage the relationship.
You lower your bottom line and do everything for him, just to get his heart back.
But in doing so, it will only make you look more humble.
There was once a girl named Xiaofang who did whatever it took to save her boyfriend's heart.
She did the laundry and cooked for him, and even gave up her own career.
However, all this did not make the boyfriend change his mind.
He felt that Xiaofang's dedication was taken for granted, and he never really cherished her.
It wasn't until the end that Xiaofang understood that love is not maintained by humility.
3. Stop deceiving yourself.Faced with men's change of heart, many women choose to deceive themselves.
They don't want to face the facts, preferring to live in their own fantasies.
They make all kinds of excuses for the man's betrayal, trying to prove that their love is still there.
However, doing so will only make yourself more miserable.
Xiaoli is a gentle and kind girl, and when she finds out that her boyfriend is splitting her legs, she doesn't want to believe that this is the truth.
She began to find all kinds of reasons for her love, thinking that her boyfriend was just confused.
But as time went on, the facts became more and more apparent.
The boyfriend not only did not change, but intensified.
In the end, Xiaoli had to face reality and end this painful relationship.
Love needs equality and respect, and love is based on equality and respect.
When a man changes his mind and he no longer cherishes you, your love is already out of balance.
At this time, a woman should be brave enough to face reality and not allow herself to be plunged into endless pain.
Remember, there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone.
When love is gone, letting go is the best option.
May every woman find her own happiness in love.
Don't be hurt by a man's change of heart, come out bravely and meet a better tomorrow!