Cai Shaofen and Zhang Jin's marriage process can be called a rare example of true love in the entertainment industry. Since the first acquaintance, the two have experienced the estrangement of the run-in period, the criticism of the outside world, and the opposition of their families, and finally they still came together. They use their own stories to explain to the world what true love is.
In 2005, Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen met in the TV series "Legend of the Spirit Mirror". At that time, Zhang Jin had just entered the industry and could not take charge on his own;And Cai Shaofen is already a popular actress in Hong Kong. Although the two do not have many scenes, they meet frequently because of the relationship between the characters in the play. As a result, Zhang Jin was gradually attracted by Cai Shaofen's talent and beauty.
She is the most beautiful girl I have ever met, not only outstanding on the outside, but also kind on the inside. Zhang Jin recalled many years later, "I made up my mind at that time to catch her!."So, Zhang Jin, who was in his early 20s, began to pursue Cai Shaofen.
At first, Zhang Jin confessed to Cai Shaofen through text messages because he was nervous, but was politely rejected. But Zhang Jin was not discouraged and continued to keep in touch with Cai Shaofen. Once, there was a small misunderstanding between the two, and Zhang Jin was emotional and lost his temper with Cai Shaofen. After explaining clearly, Zhang Jin seized the opportunity to confess to Cai Shaofen again.
That time, I finally mustered up all the courage to speak my mind. Zhang Jin recalled the nervous and excited mood at that moment. In the end, Cai Shaofen nodded and accepted the pursuit. The two began to date in a low-key manner.
The day before the play was finished, Zhang Jin asked the question that made Cai Shaofen unforgettable: "There is a man, he has no fame, no profit, only a body of martial arts and an unchanging heart that loves you, such a man, will you accept it?"Cai Shaofen agreed with a smile. Two young people who have never known each other have embarked on a long road of love.
In 2007, Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen decided to make their relationship public and announced their marriage. As soon as this news came out, it immediately caused an uproar inside and outside the circle. When a popular actress marries a small character, many people talk about it, thinking that this is "female superiority and male inferiority".
I was far less well-known than Cai Shaofen at that time, and many people thought that I was trying to make a name for myself, or I relied on women to get on top. Zhang Jin said. Indeed, in the eyes of the outside world, it is really difficult for a successful actress to find an unknown little fresh meat to marry.
What made the two even more troublesome was that Cai Shaofen's mother strongly opposed this marriage. Cai's mother is a gambler who owes huge debts and relies on her daughter to repay the money. She couldn't accept her daughter marrying a "poor boy". As soon as the marriage news came out, Cai's mother scolded "You will regret it".
In the face of these resistances, Cai Shaofen was resolute, she threw her mother a bank card of 1 million yuan, and said, "I am married to this man." Finally, at the end of 2007, the two got their wish and entered the marriage hall. Despite the twists and turns in the process, they still choose to believe in this budding love.
The taste of the newlywed Yan'er is indeed good, but for Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen, the arrival of the run-in period seems to be more difficult than imagined. After marriage, Zhang Jin's career development was not smooth, and the two suffered various criticisms as soon as they got married, and Zhang Jin's heart was hit.
During that time, I was in a bad mood and my work was not going well. Zhang Jin recalled. As a newcomer to the entertainment industry, he must face the outside world and bear great pressure. Sometimes when he is in a bad mood, he will lose his temper with Cai Shaofen. But Cai Shaofen did not complain at all, just accompanied him silently.
Cai Shaofen's friend Li Sisi said: "Sister Shaofen's feelings for Zhang Jin are very special, and she said that Zhang Jin was her turning point. Indeed, the appearance of Zhang Jin allowed Cai Shaofen to regain happiness and confidence, and get rid of the painful memories of the past. Every woman expects such a man to appear and dispel the gloom for her.
The criticism did not stop there. Many people believe that Cai Shaofen is wasting her youth and beauty by marrying a small character. "I tried to persuade her to think about it, but she always smiled and didn't speak. Cai Shaofen's old friend Li Sisi said.
In the face of pressure, Zhang Jin also had moments of wavering: "I once asked Shaofen, but I regretted choosing me." She said that as long as I was there, she had no regrets. Cai Shaofen's words made Zhang Jin re-strengthen his heart of protection for this family.
Love is like climbing a mountain, there are always ups and downs in the process, and only by climbing together can we win the victory at the top of the mountain. Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen chose to hold hands to go through the ups and downs of life, and they always guarded each other from acquaintance to white head.
After more than ten years of marriage, the relationship between Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen is still sweet. They already have two lovely daughters.
Mom and Dad have a good relationship, and our family of four is very happy. The eldest daughter Zhang Xiaoxiao said. She hopes that she can also meet such a good other half and spend her life.
Zhang Jin is no longer the nobody he used to be, he gradually opened up his popularity with films such as "Wolf Warrior" and became a powerful actor. And Cai Shaofen also moved behind the scenes and became an excellent agent.
After a successful career, the two are still in love. Zhang Jin will drive Cai Shaofen to get off work after work. On weekends, the family likes to go out. On weekdays, Zhang Jin will take his daughters to watch Cai Shaofen's old film and television works. "We looked at my mother's ** when she was young, and we felt that she was also very cute back then. The youngest daughter Zhang Xiaoyang said.
With the movie "Wolf Warrior 2", Zhang Jin became famous in one fell swoop. But during filming, in order to portray the role, he filmed the action scenes more realistically, and accidentally caused the male lead actor Wu Jing to suffer a slight injury. This caused some controversy, and some viewers thought that Zhang Jin's "personality collapsed". In this regard, Zhang Jin apologized and said that he was too focused on the performance at that time and did not control his strength.
He did his best for the role, just for the drama. He also has a lot of respect for Brother Wu Jing, it's just an accident. Cai Shaofen defended her husband. After a period of time, the turmoil subsided, and Zhang Jin continued to develop his career in the film and television industry.
Time flies, and the years are quiet. Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen have walked hand in hand for more than ten years, experienced run-in and misunderstanding, and also reaped a double harvest of career and family.
Every time he goes on a date, Zhang Jin will kneel down on one knee and confess to Cai Shaofen like he did when he was young: "I will love you forever." Cai Shaofen will also accept these confessions with a red face, and then the two will laugh happily, just like two young boys and girls.
The relationship between them is very stable and has gone beyond the stage of love and is more like family. Li Sisi said. Indeed, the relationship that has been held for many years has been sublimated into a strong spiritual bond. This is also the highest level of true love.
In this materialistic era, Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen used their own stories to interpret what love is. Love does not lie in external fame and fortune, but in inner bonds. It requires both parties to get along for a long time and work hard, and to stand the test of time and life.
The story of me and Jin Jin tells you that as long as two people are like-minded, they can go through the ups and downs to the end. Cai Shaofen said with a smile. And Zhang Jin also held his lover's hand tightly, saying that he would always be with him.
From acquaintance to whitehead, this love epic written by them together continues. May the world last forever, and treat it with true affection for the rest of your life.
Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen have touched countless people with their real love stories. In today's society, true love is scarce, and many people choose form over content. Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen explained with their own experience that love does not need the bottom of material conditions, it only needs two hearts of love.
They went through criticism and overcame obstacles before they finally became married. Exchanging sincerity for happiness is the best inspiration they give to future generations. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married and grow old together. Their stories will inspire more people to persevere in true love and pursue happiness despite difficulties.