In real life, most boys and friends often say that they don't know how to love someone, are not good at expressing feelings, and don't get along with girls. However, although they all say this on the surface, in reality, when guys and friends meet the girl they really love, they seem to become a completely different person. Even if the boys don't love them, they will try to learn Xi, learn to love girls, and learn to make girls happy.
For example, when a guy likes a girl completely, even if two people quarrel, he will coax the girl;Even when the guys are at their hardest, they avoid the girls;Even if a girl likes something hard, she will try to buy it for her. As long as the guy can't see the girl, as long as the girl is not with the guy, the guy will start to worry about the girl, and will worry about the girl all the time.
No matter how cold you are to people outside, you will be very gentle with the girls in the house. No matter what happens to the girl, even if the girl is poor and loses face, you will not abandon the girl. Anyway, boys will not take the initiative to let go of girls' hands, but will always take care of and cherish girls, and are willing to leave their mature and innocent side to girls.
Especially those who are reticent and reticent boys and friends tend to be tactful and subtle about their feelings and may feel embarrassed. Generally, they will not directly express their true inner feelings and emotions, and will convey their love and affection to girls through some hints. In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, men often treat you like this, not without love, but with deep love.
In love, when girls like boys very much, they always like to stick to boys. Similarly, when a boy always likes to stick to girls, it is enough to prove that boys do not love girls, but love girls deeply, put girls in their hearts, and even put girls in the most important position.
Whenever a girl encounters any problems or difficulties, the boy can appear by the girl's side in time, help the girl solve all the problems quickly, and give the girl the support and warmth she wants most. Whenever a girl is wronged or in a bad mood, even if the boy is busy, he will try his best to find time to meet the girl, because the boy doesn't want to see the girl sad and sad, and he doesn't want the girl to bear everything alone.
Such a boy must love a girl very badly, just want to tell the girl that whenever a girl needs herself, the boy will appear in time when the girl needs him the most, and give the girl the warmth and comfort she wants, which is enough to see that the girl occupies a very important position in the heart of the boy. Girlfriends should understand that such boys are very responsible for their feelings, and their love for girls is far more than ordinary love, especially for girls.
Love or not, see if it is put into practice, if a boy goes to **, he will take the girl with him, so that the boy does not love the girl, but really loves deeply. Regardless of whether the boy is attending work or family gatherings, no matter what kind of occasion the boy goes, he will like to take the girl with him, and will not deliberately leave the girl at home, but is willing to take the other half out.
It can be seen from this that the boy approves of the girl in his heart, and the boy hopes to be blessed by all his colleagues, friends, and even relatives and friends, that is, he hopes that the two of them can be recognized by everyone. In the guy's mind, they may have acquiesced to the relationship between the two of you. Therefore, no matter what kind of occasion a boy takes a girl to, he hopes that the girl will integrate into his life circle as soon as possible, that is, he hopes that the girl will understand everything about himself, and he hopes that the girl will live with him in the future.
Boys don't want girls to think at home alone, and they don't want girls to feel bad about it. Therefore, boys will be willing to take the initiative to take girls to various occasions, wanting to give girls enough security and happiness. There is no doubt that the guys who do this really love the girls. At the same time, they can also let other friends of the opposite sex who are still thinking about each other see your happiness and love, completely die in their hearts, let you belong to each other, and express their love openly.
Some people say that whether it is in love or married, if a boy is willing to let the girl control himself, especially willing to give his money to the girl, and is willing to let the girl take charge of the family's financial resources, then it means that the boy does not love the girl, but loves the girl deeply. And it can be seen that boys trust girls very much, and they also regard girls as their own women, and even regard girls as their future life partners.
No matter how much salary or money there is, a boy is willing to give his financial power to a girl and let the girl help him manage his financial income. It can be seen that boys trust girls very much and are ready to spend the future with girls. There are very few boys who are willing to treat girls like this.
It can be seen that boys really love girls, so they will treat girls as the other half of their lives, care about and value girls, and trust girls more, so they will be willing to give their financial resources and their homes to girls, which will make boys feel very relieved. So, remind the girl friend that if a guy is willing to let the girl take care of himself, or let the girl help him manage his financial income, there is no doubt about it. It can be seen that boys really love girls, so they will do it. When they meet, be sure to cherish it.
Lu Yao wrote such a passage in "Ordinary World": "Once a man falls in love with a woman, he feels that this woman is his life and the sun." Except for this woman. All the women in the world are pale. In order to get this woman's love, he can make unimaginable sacrifices. ”
Yes, when many people are not truly in love with someone, they don't know that they can give so much for the other person and even make unimaginable sacrifices. That's a sign of "true love."
So remind all girl friends, whether it is in love or married, if there is a guy who often treats girls like this, it is not that he does not love girls, but that he loves girls deeply, so you must not know. Of course, if you want to judge whether a guy is sincere or hypocritical to himself, whether he really loves himself deeply, and whether he really values himself, you shouldn't just listen with your ears. In fact, you can feel and experience it with your heart.