If a child has a tendency to be bored with school, parents should pay close attention to it, and scientific guidance is needed to help children get rid of the vicious circle of school boredom and establish a positive belief and attitude towards learning Xi. So, what exactly should be done?
First, we need to adjust our mentality and accept the status quo. When a child is bored with school, parents should communicate with their children calmly even though they are very anxious. Only by accepting and empathizing with children can we truly help children. Parents should not scold or deny their children because they are in a hurry, or label their children as "unproductive" or "lazy children". These behaviors will only form negative cues in the child's mind. Only by patiently analyzing with children, finding the root cause of school boredom, and facing the problem head-on, can the problem be solved.
Second, parents should have reasonable expectations, and at the same time help children form reasonable self-expectations and goals for themselves. If parents have low expectations for their children, their children will lose their sense of purpose and value, and they will not be able to generate motivationIf the expectations are too high, the child will fall into a state of anxiety and helplessness due to stress. In the same way, children need to have reasonable and appropriate expectations of themselves. Parents may wish to objectively analyze the current situation with their children and help them establish correct positioning and reasonable goals for themselves, so that their children will have the motivation to continue to move forward. Third, it is necessary to create a good learning and Xi atmosphere and living environment for children. Try to make your child's Xi learning environment clean and tidy, and try to place electronic products, toys and other interference sources away from the learning Xi environment to help children focus on their own learning and Xi tasks.
Fourth, parents can use some psychological knowledge to give their children some positive hints in daily lifeGive your child more affirmation and encouragement in the details, so that your child can build confidence in himself and slowly transform positive beliefs into positive actions. For example, when parents see their children taking the initiative to take out the garbage and throw it away when they go out, they can appropriately exaggerate the positive significance of this incident and say to the child: "I think you are a very diligent child." If your child goes to bed earlier than the night before, you can say to him: "I see that you are becoming more disciplined now. If you persist for a long time, these positive words will definitely form positive psychological cues in the child's subconscious, helping the child to establish a self-affirmation mechanism and positive self-belief in the child's heart. These positive beliefs will become an energy engine in the child's heart, which can provide him with constant energy and help him generate internal drive. 
Author |Lv Yuhua Shi Xiaoyong (Author's Affiliation: Chengnan Experimental School, Wuxing District, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province)**Editor-in-charge of China Education News Network|Liang Ruizhe.