Before we dive into the factors that influence lifestyles, let's first make a clear point: humans are not creatures that respond mechanically to external stimuli. On the contrary, human beings have free will and are able to choose the right form of life according to their needs and purposes. Therefore, by changing our goals, we can improve our established lifestyle.
Why do many people find change so difficult or even reluctant to change the status quo? That's because change means that we need to deny the Xi we used to live by, so that we can't predict what will happen. Therefore, no matter how bad our current lifestyle is, we will not have the courage to face it until we realize that we will have a devastating impact on ourselves if we do not make changes, and realize that there are other ways to live.So, what are the factors that affect our lifestyles?
What is here is the physiological influence. We will take a teleological approach** and focus on how we use what we inherit, rather than just what we inherit. Some people believe that people with hereditary physiological defects develop an inferiority complex in some way. However, this is actually a misconception. The inferiority complex is just a by-product of people's pursuit of superiority, which we actively give to ourselves. People with certain physical defects may take the initiative to compensate for these deficiencies, but they do not necessarily have an inferiority complex.
It also has a great impact on people's lifestyles. Brothers who grow up in the same family may have a more similar lifestyle to people who grew up in different families but were in the same position.
First of all, the first child is born with a period of exclusive parental pampering. However, with the birth of a younger brother or sister, this wonderful era is shattered and competition emerges. Even if parents tell their children that their love for the boss has not diminished in the slightest, the boss will show a more or less conservative lifestyle in the face of competition. The children in the middle line spent a period of time under the protection of their older sister (elder brother) who could dominate their parents, but with the birth of the younger brother (younger sister), this dependence was quickly broken. As a result, children in the middle tend to be self-reliant and learn to solve problems earlier. Because the youngest children can rely more on their parents and other siblings, they tend to become self-reliant later and more dependent, and tend to form a self-centered lifestyle of dominating and controlling others. It has an extremely important impact on the formation and development of lifestyle. Especially children who grow up in a doting environment are often the root cause of many problem behaviors and even suicide crimes. We'll look at this specifically in the next article.
It has also had an important impact on lifestyles. The culture here includes the surrounding environment, the background of the era, the education received, etc. These factors are also very important.
The above is an analysis of the factors that affect the lifestyle of life. Of course, a person's choice of a certain lifestyle only indicates that he has a certain tendency in his behavior, and this tendency cannot be applied to everyone. Because everyone is unique and has free will. When reality and tendencies conflict, we still have to take the actual individual as the starting point to investigate.