If I don't marry a rich second generation, my appearance, figure, and beautiful character, character, and even soul will be ruined!
On a blind date show in 2014, a female guest named Zhou Lanjun said this. At that time, she was still a sophomore, but she was extremely strict with the conditions for choosing a mate, claiming that she was only willing to marry a 50 million rich second generation.
As soon as this remark came out, it immediately caused a shocking effect, and Zhou Lanjun's remarks about "money worship" quickly sparked heated discussions on the Internet, and she herself became the focus of attention.
Years have passed, has Zhou Lanjun achieved her dream?How is she doing at the moment?
I will only marry people with a wealthy background.
In 2014, blind date variety shows were very popular and were warmly sought after by men, women and children. A show called "Blind Date to Win" suddenly came out, attracting a large number of single men and women to sign up.
In the guest selection stage, the program production team found a very interesting female college student, who was concise and extremely strict about the conditions for choosing a mate, with only four words: "marry a wealthy family".
Out of curiosity, Zhou Lanjun was invited to the program group.
In the preparation process, the staff asked Zhou Lanjun about the criteria for choosing a mate, and she said without hesitation: "I will only marry the rich second generation, and I will definitely not marry the rich second generation who has not reached a net worth of 50 million!."”
Intrigued by her straightforwardness and confidence, the staff began to ask, "Can you elaborate on your criteria for choosing a mate?"”
Zhou Lanjun added that she only cares about the rich second generation in big cities with an annual income of 10 million yuan, and she does not consider other situations such as the rich generation, potential stocks and rural rich second generations.
The staff who looked at each other still couldn't understand Zhou Lanjun's thoughts, and they continued to ask: "Why do you insist on this standard so much?"”
Zhou Lanjun replied confidently: "I have such conditions, if I don't marry the rich second generation, it will be the biggest failure in my life." If I don't choose the rich second generation, my appearance, figure, even my beautiful character and character, and soul will be destroyed!”
Zhou Lanjun's "wonderful" remarks made the staff couldn't help laughing, and then teased: "What advantages do you have?"You must know that many rich second generations with superior family backgrounds, their parents are very picky. ”
Zhou Lanjun's father is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, his mother is unemployed, and the family only relies on his father's income to make a living, and the family is average. Zhou Lanjun studied at Zhejiang Gongshang University, and has a slight dabbling in qin, chess, calligraphy and painting, and his appearance is not very outstanding.
From an objective point of view, Zhou Lanjun's conditions are not bad in all aspects, but he is far from reaching the level of "being a good match" with the rich second generation who earns tens of millions of dollars a year.
After listening to her basic situation, the staff tactfully reminded her: "Your shoes don't seem to fit. ”
Zhou Lanjun obviously didn't understand the meaning of the words, and she confidently mentioned her "advantages": "I have an independent personality, which is very rare among the public. ”
I once consulted with the matchmaker on a blind date**, and she told me that I would definitely be able to marry a rich second generation worth tens of millions according to my height, weight, family and thoughts. Therefore, I think that the criteria I have set are very much in line with my own qualifications.
She had completed logical self-consistency, and the staff found it difficult to convince her anymore, so they had to start helping her find a blind date according to Zhou Lanjun's conditions.
The road to a blind date is full of twists and turns.
A few days later, the program team successfully contacted a rich second generation, who has a family property of more than 100 million, which fully meets Zhou Lanjun's standards. Under the arrangement of the program team, Zhou Lanjun and the rich second generation agreed to go on a blind date in a hotel.
Accompanied by the host, Zhou Lanjun was wearing a purple dress that day and rushed to the hotel early to wait.
Zhou Lanjun finally found her favorite blind date, she was very excited, and even couldn't help but pick up the fruit platter and start eating it when the rich second generation had not yet arrived.
The host couldn't stand it anymore, and persuaded Zhou Lanjun to pay attention to her image, because she saw that she completely ignored the existence of the camera and ate alone.
After the man arrived, the two began an official blind date, and at first their conversation was quite harmonious.
After Zhou Lanjun said a word, the man's face immediately changed: "I hope your parents have good morals and a pragmatic attitude, be able to distinguish between right and wrong, and tolerate their daughter-in-law, otherwise it will be difficult for us to get along." ”
Although the man was slightly displeased, he did not show it directly, but asked in a graceful manner: "After getting married, do you have any plans for your future life?"”
I will confidently help you run the property and make it profitable. As for the children, they can be left in the care of my parents. Zhou Lanjun replied.
Obviously, this answer is not consistent with the man's thoughts. He expects his children to receive a good and complete home education, rather than looking for someone who can help him earn money.
The man continued, "Are you good at certain crafts?"For example, chess, calligraphy or painting”
As soon as Zhou Lanjun mentioned this topic, he immediately felt discouraged, and could only vaguely answer: "Although I am not very proficient in these, I can learn slowly when the economic conditions are abundant." ”
The man held back a smile and retorted with a little embarrassment, "Do I have to give you a lesson?"”
This blind date ended in an unhappy breakup, because the two have very different concepts. However, Zhou Lanjun did not give up his idea and did not think that this defeat was caused by himself.
Despite the rich second generation's wealth, he is only willing to give her financial support and does not allow her to participate in the career, a situation that is difficult for the woman who pursues independence.
Zhou Lanjun persevered, and the program team had to find a man for her again.
Although the man's net worth is not 50 million, he is young and promising, has already achieved good results in his career, and shows great potential. However, when it came to his plans for the future, Zhou Lanjun's words once again made him restless.
She believes that she is not inferior to popular female stars in terms of intelligence and diligence, and is eager to move towards the path of becoming a star. This remark embarrassed the program team.
This man is really a generous person, he actually knows some bosses in the film and television industry, and said that he has a way to help Zhou Lanjun make progress in this field.
Zhou Lanjun regarded the man's kindness as "pretending to be a man", and even found fault with the other party's education and family background.
The host couldn't help but say bluntly, listening to Zhou Lanjun's words becoming more and more sharp, it was because the man was not a rich second generation that he deliberately made things difficult for the other party.
Zhou Lanjun neither admitted nor denied this blind date, but the final result also ended in failure.
Despite this, Zhou Lanjun still insisted: "I will never give up my idea, even if this show can't help me achieve it, I will work hard through other means!."”
What's Behind the Belief?
Zhou Lanjun's strange behavior and remarks in this show have attracted widespread attention, and many netizens have criticized her for being too "money worshippers".
Some netizens pointed out that this is a play directed and performed by the program team in order to attract traffic.
The program team hurriedly posted evidence, claiming that Zhou Lanjun was not hyped by the program team, and all her behaviors, thoughts and remarks were true portrayals of her, facing overwhelming doubts from netizens, and pointed out that "there are many misunderstandings in her ideas".
As a result, netizens once again pointed the finger at Zhou Lanjun, and all kinds of criticism and ridicule poured in.
Zhou Lanjun originally planned to use the popularity of the show to realize his desire to become a "wealthy independent broadie", but he did not expect to be labeled as "money worship" by netizens.
What did she go through that led to this thought?
The reason why she regards marrying the rich second generation as her lifelong dream is closely related to her original family environment.
From an early age, she dreamed of crossing classes through marriage, as her father had a lot of power in the family, while her mother, who had a low salary, was always submissive.
Her grades could have allowed her to enter 211 colleges, but in order to get in touch with Gao Fushuai, she finally chose to go to Zhejiang University to attend university. This is the decision after the college entrance examination.
Although Zhou Lanjun's grades are excellent, she has not been able to find a rich second-generation boyfriend, mainly because she has high requirements for mate selection conditions and has a strong personality.
She was convinced of the "assessment" of those matchmakers about her at the beginning, which also led to a series of events that happened later.
Zhou Lanjun's life has changed dramatically, and that was after the blind date show was broadcast.
She has become a "celebrity" in the school, no matter where she goes, she can cause others to whisper, and even the teachers look at her with strange eyes.
After graduating, she was influenced by the "money worship" label, and many companies rejected her resume, causing her to suffer repeated setbacks in her life.
Under great pressure, Zhou Lanjun had to publicly apologize again and admit the mistake of his inappropriate remarks.
Although some people did not approve of this apology, fortunately, the heat of the incident finally subsided, and her life gradually returned to peace.
She did not follow the original plan to go to graduate school, get married and have children, but chose to start a business.
Zhou Lanjun's learning ability and dedication are indeed very strong, although her view of love is different from ordinary people, which is worth mentioning.
Not only did she dedicate herself to her work, but she also actively pursued several professional certificates. After several years of hard work, her career and life gradually got on the right track.
After accumulating a certain amount of experience and funds, Zhou Lanjun returned to his hometown of Xiamen and founded a network technology company.
Zhou Lanjun posted a news on April 1, 2020, which is enough to show the changes in her mental journey during this time.
She is now in her thirties, and although she is still single, she has a new pursuit of life.
She frequently updates her personal account and shares her love for many hobbies such as tea art, painting, archery, cooking, etc., which can be described as versatile.
She has obviously gotten rid of the shadow of the past in the experience of society, and has also let go of her former obsessions.
Perhaps as her mind matured, she gradually understood a truth: those things that were not earned for nothing were like duckweed without roots, fluctuating;The only thing that can really make oneself withstand the test of wind and waves is down-to-earth efforts.
Zhou Lanjun's attitude towards life has changed so much, what do you think is the reason?What do you think is the standard of "the right door"?Let's discuss it together.