In the now popular TV series "Warm Life", the intricate emotional entanglements have attracted widespread attention. In particular, Zhang Qian, played by Xie Jie, has an obvious pursuit of Xu Yu played by Chang Ya, which has caused people to think deeply about the authenticity of this pursuit behavior. The divorced Zhang Qian's pursuit of the married Xu Yu is a normal emotional drive, or is it a simple psychological trick?It is also a reflection of the dilemmas and conflicts that modern people face in their emotions. Zhang Qian, a divorced man with a successful career, shows a strong interest in Xu Yu, who is married. Through these plots, the audience can clearly feel that Zhang Qian's every interaction is full of special attention to Xu Yu. He tried to get closer to Xu Yu through various means, whether it was verbal teasing or acting as a gesture of goodwill. However, Xu Yu turned a blind eye to all this, insisting that Zhang Qian actually liked her close friend Liu Ping. This obvious misunderstanding may be understood as Xu Yu's innocence and escapist mentality.
She may be afraid to confront Zhang Qian's true intentions, so she chooses to use self-deception to escape all this. And this also gave Zhang Qian more opportunities to further pursue it. As a successful entrepreneur, although he understands the love of Xu Yu and his wife and the harmony of his family, Zhang Qian still wants to "know three things", which is undoubtedly immoral. He also used his social status and wealth to launch a seemingly romantic but calculating pursuit of Xu Yu. He took Xu Yu to Xishuangbanna, showed favor to her many times, and even almost "walled" her. Zhang Qian's strong pursuit overwhelmed Xu Yu, and the innocence and escapist mentality she showed also made the audience deeply worried. These behaviors not only violated social morality and marriage ethics, but also exposed Zhang Qian's selfishness and indifference in the emotional world. This kind of pursuit has actually crossed the line, and even has a certain tendency to manipulate. Zhang Qian's attempt to use his own way to sway Xu Yu's emotional choices has completely gone beyond the scope of normal pursuit.
The audience can clearly feel that Zhang Qian's every action is full of control over Xu Yu, and he hopes to get her, and he does not hesitate to use various means. Song Xiao's courtship of He Jiaru in a powerful way is unsettling and provokes the audience to think about the challenges that contemporary people may face in the emotional world. He Jiaru's reaction to this also reveals her passivity and helplessness in the emotional world. When Song Xiao proposed to go on a date, she did not refuse head-on, but avoided it by playing haha and changing the topic. This behavior may be able to circumvent the problem temporarily, but it also undoubtedly deepens He Jiaru's passive position in the emotional dilemma. He Jiaru seems to be afraid to face real emotional problems and make decisions. Her evasive mentality is worrying. In today's society, many people often choose to avoid emotional problems instead of facing them bravely and solving them. This behavior not only leads to the passivity and helplessness of the individual in the emotional world, but can also cause harm to those around them.
When He Jiaru directly blamed Song Xiao for deliberately pursuing married women, her overly direct and even somewhat radical behavior shocked the audience. This not only makes it difficult for Song Xiao to deal with, but also shows He Jiaru's immaturity and lack of emotional intelligence in dealing with emotional issues. She didn't seem to realize that her words could hurt others, nor did she think about the consequences of such actions. Ho's impulsive reaction is worrying and prompts people to think about how to stay calm and rational in the face of emotional problems. In fact, He Jiaru didn't know that others had a good impression of her, and she even deliberately revealed that Ye Yifan, Mr. Song and Mr. Wu all had a good impression of her. This behavior of hers shows her somewhat self-absorbed and pampered mentality. This may explain why she behaved so passively and helplessly in the face of Song Xiao's pursuit. She may be Xi to the attention and pursuit of others, so she feels at a loss when facing real emotional problems.
This mentality also reflects the distortion of the attitudes and values of some people in modern society towards feelings. Even the assistant Xiaoshan could see that Lu Jing was an enemy against He Jiaru everywhere, but He Jiaru still thought that he humorously said that this was because he was too good. Her self-confidence is worrying, as if she is unconcerned and unprepared for potential threats and dangers. Ho's blind behavior has caused concern and urged us to be vigilant and rational in our lives. The emotional entanglement in this "Xiaoman Life" not only shows the confusion and persistence of middle-aged people in the emotional world, but also raises a question worth pondering: how should we make the right choice in the face of sincere pursuit or playing with feelings?This is undoubtedly an important reason why "Xiaoman Life" has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions. At the same time, the play also reflects the various dilemmas and challenges that modern people may face in the emotional world, reminding people that they should remain rational and calm thinking, bravely face and solve their own emotional problems, rather than choosing to escape or play with other people's feelings.
Shakespeare once said, "Love is not true love if it is tainted by irrelevant calculations." ”。I hope everyone can draw some useful inspiration and thoughts from "Xiaoman Life", cherish sincere love, and stay away from those "players" who play with feelings.