"Huimen" is an ancient wedding tradition that has been passed down to this day. On the third day after the newlyweds come to the door, the bride has to go back to her parents' house once, which means that the couple has officially become "human wives", and it is also the bride who expresses her gratitude to her parents and expresses her concern to her parents.
There is a famous story about a couple of newcomers in ancient times. The bride misses her hometown so much that on the third day of her wedding, she decides to go home to visit her parents. When she walked out of the bridal house, the rain began to fall, the road was slippery, and the bride fell and injured her leg. After her parents were ** for her, it rained heavily the next day, and she couldn't move forward even if she wanted to go home. So the bride stayed at her parents' house for three months before returning to her husband.
Since then, returning to the door has also become a way to guarantee the newlyweds, expressing affection and respect for their mother's family.
The bride has some particularities when she returns to the door, such as:
1.The clothes that the bride wears when she returns home should be the new clothes that the man bought;
3.The return should take place on the third day of the wedding;
4.I have to arrive at my mother's house before 10 o'clock in the morning on the day of returning, which is an auspicious time to return to the door
5.The gifts brought back to the door should be doubled, which means that the wife and wife will be happy, and they will be together for a hundred years
6.Don't spend the night at your mother's house on the night you come home, and you should go back to your new house before dark
7.If the bride spends the night at her mother's house, the bride and groom cannot sleep;
8.The return door must be a newcomer to return to the door together, not just one person;
9.It is disrespectful to the woman to bring the man's parents, relatives and friends back to the door
10.During the return period, the bride should not brush the pot, and will brush away the wealth of her mother's family.
In short, Huimen is a traditional wedding custom with a deep cultural heritage that reflects the importance of family and affection.