Every girl has a princess in her heart, and even if she enters the palace of marriage after a passionate love period, they want the man to love and take care of herself like a princess.
But even though many married women are obedient and become a hard-working, thrifty housewife, men care less and less about her.
On the contrary, some women who will be spoiled will give men a drink, but they can firmly grasp the man's heart, so that the man can not leave her and take care of her.
This is because these women know how to control a man's heart, and to do this, it is difficult for a man to want to spoil you.
Every guy loves smiling girls. Because a girl's smile can ** everything, no matter how difficult, as long as the loved one is still smiling, he will have the courage to persevere.
Just like Yu Minhong said: It is not the sunshine that makes the world bright, but the smile of women.
After marriage, men need to endure countless internal and external pressures, parents get older, children grow slower, work age, and lose a competitive advantage with colleagues.
Any one of them could be the straw that breaks the camel's back.
The most important person who could support him and give him strength was his wife. If she is also sad and unhappy, the man sees the face of his colleague outside and returns home to face his wife's bitter face.
Believing in such a life will make him gradually lose his expectations and make him feel that life is meaningless.
He hopes to be a smiling face when he goes home, a smiling face when he encounters difficulties, and a smiling face when he goes out, so that everything is full of sunshine and hope.
Smiling online is not to make good things happen, but to make good things happen.
Only the days of laughter can live long, and if it is suppressed all the time, the woman will sooner or later become a yellow-faced woman, and the man who accompanies her will become more and more emaciated.
Be a woman who loves to laugh and is the most charming.
Zhang Yimou once said that in fact, everyone has a sense of loneliness, people in the hustle and bustle, the heart may be lonely, this loneliness is innate, some more, some less, but the heart longs to be appeased and understood.
It's not just women who want to be understood, men also have their own pains and crave others to soothe him.
Men will regard themselves as the pillars of the family, and even today, when women's minds are becoming more and more emancipated, men will care a lot about their status in the family and want to be the most trustworthy one.
Therefore, their hearts are lonely, they do not take the initiative to seek comfort from others, they just bear everything in silence. At this time, if someone can hold his shoulders and help him share the pressure, he will leave the most important place in his heart to her.
This is the wife's responsibility.
Belonging to a family, the wife can be willful and complain, but the wife must be the one who knows him best, understands his character, endures his temper, and can give spiritual comfort.
Every man needs his soul mate, and boys and girls go from superficial acquaintance to silence to finally cherish for a long time, and it is precisely because they have entered each other's hearts that they often go to the end.
Be a person who understands Him, and he will be doubled.
Love is mutual, and if we want him to spoil himself, we should learn to spoil him.
In love, if only one party is silently giving, and the other party will only passively accept, slowly, the convenience of giving will gradually lose interest in love, because it is too tired.
Only by letting him feel his love and let him know how much he has given for this love can he take care of himself from the heart.
In the movie A Beautiful Mind, Professor John Nash is a mathematical genius whose achievements have influenced many fields and is also a Nobel Prize winner.
However, such a genius was delusional in his youth, and he always lived in an imaginary environment, in an illusory world.
This seriously affected him, and also caused him to be hospitalized, his physical function declined, and he could not take care of himself, but his wife did not give up on him, but silently waited to accompany him out of this shadow.
Finally, after 30 years of struggle, the professor himself slowly walked out of this psychological shadow, returned to normal life, and his life became smoother.
In his final acceptance speech, the professor said one of the most touching words: "I am standing here tonight because of you. You are the factor in my success, the only factor. ”
Even in old age, they remained close, and he doted on her like a princess, an enviable love.
It's very simple to want a man to spoil himself, what do you want him to do, first think about how to give him these. Let him feel his warmth so that he can bear it even if he occasionally plays in love.