I am an authentic farmer, when I married into my husband's family, I thought it would change my fate, because my husband's father worked in a fertilizer factory in our county at the time, and he was still a small leader, and he could arrange people at that time.
I never thought that in the second year of our marriage, my husband's father was sick, and I was allowed to **, and my husband's father gave the ** index to the eldest brother, he said, my husband is small, tell the leader, and then think about arranging my husband, we have been looking forward to it, looking forward to it.
After looking forward to it for a few years, my husband's father didn't do it for us, and finally the leader was changed, and my husband also passed away due to lung cancer, and since then my husband's work has been put on hold.
My eldest brother works in a fertilizer factory, walks every morning and returns at night, can pay dozens of yuan a month, and also distributes laundry detergent, soap, soap, gloves and the like.
Since the death of my husband's father, my sister-in-law has changed a lot, she has always thought that the eldest brother has paid the money to the family, she and the children want to spend money, it is too inconvenient, besides, with our family, my husband will only farm, nothing else, she is too disadvantaged.
She and her mother-in-law have been separating, and her mother-in-law said that her husband and father had just died, and they would split up, and outsiders would see jokes.
My mother-in-law has concerns, saying that the division is eight knives, which means that the separation of the family is like taking eight knives, how uncomfortable!
My sister-in-law said that she had the ability to work and didn't let her mother-in-law take care of it so much, I remember my sister-in-law sitting on the edge of my mother-in-law's bed, crying and making a fuss, patting the bed and saying, "Divide and divide, you have to divide it."
The mother-in-law couldn't reverse it, so she had to divide the family, and after the family was divided, the money earned by the elder brother was no longer given to the mother-in-law, and the family had food, drink and money to spend, and the life was happy.
However, her family still needs my husband and mother-in-law to do the work, because my sister-in-law is alone, leading two children, and she can't do the work, and seeing that her land is about to be barren, you can't help it.
Whether it is harvesting wheat, farming, harvesting corn, or putting dung on the manure, my husband will pull the carriage for his family, and my sister-in-law will say, he said to my husband, you have worked hard, wait until your brother will send clothes again, and give you a new set of clothes.
But I waited for two years and didn't see my brother give clothes, and my mother's brother and brother have it, hey, we still don't kiss.
Later, one of my brother's classmates helped my brother, and he was transferred to the Animal Husbandry Bureau, and my brother gradually became the director of the office.
I wanted my brother to tell my husband to see if I could let my husband go to work in his original factory, but my sister-in-law said that what would happen and said that my brother couldn't do it.
But it didn't take long for my sister-in-law's younger brother to go to work in the factory, at that time others said I didn't believe it, who knew it was true, my brother told the leaders of the factory, asked for an indicator, my brother wanted my husband to go, but my sister-in-law didn't want to, cried and made a fuss, or let my brother go.
Later, my brother became a leader and also divided the room, so I asked my sister-in-law to take the children to the county seat together, the children went to school, and my sister-in-law cooked for the children at home.
My sister-in-law asked my husband to plant her land, and every year we give the land money to others on time.
Since my sister-in-law doesn't farm, we accept wheat to give my sister-in-law white flour, corn to give my sister-in-law cornmeal, and peanuts I pick the biggest and best one by one to send a bag to my sister-in-law, I always pick the best things in the house for my sister-in-law, but sometimes my sister-in-law still shows that it is not uncommon.
My brother is a leader, and there are also people who deliver goods, and all kinds of milk and drinks at home can't be eaten and drunk, and sometimes he brings some to his mother-in-law when he comes to the house.
Once, when I brought pure milk to my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law asked my child to drink it, and the child drank it and spit it out, saying that the sour smell was great, and my mother-in-law said no, I tasted it and it was really sour.
Another time, my brother came to the house with a box of fish, see the package is four kinds of fish, the taste should be good, Sunday, the children come to the house, my mother-in-law opened for the children, who knows that it is 3 packs when opened, the packaging box clearly says 4 packs, it turns out that my brother took a box of fish is opened, it may not be delicious, and it is packed into the box.
Sometimes we can get angry when we think about it, we always take the best things to our sister-in-law, and my sister-in-law always gives us the worst things in the house, which is obviously my sister-in-law looks down on us.
Gradually, the children have grown up, and my idea is that my husband is this, and the children are not good at studying, so I can let my son go to the county to find something to do in the future, how good it would be.
I told my brother about this idea, and my brother said that I couldn't find a good job, so I could find a job to drive, and let's learn a driver's license.
As soon as my child didn't go to school, he quickly learned his driver's license, and my child waited left and right without waiting for the opportunity, and in the end it was my sister-in-law's nephew who went to his unit to drive.
There's really nothing we can do!I had to let my child go to work in another factory.
Since my sister-in-law went to the county seat, my mother-in-law has been living with us, and when it was the New Year's holiday, their family had only been at home for a few days.
In the past few days at home, my children and I have been cooking and drinking for the whole family, and my sister-in-law and her children are all relatives, and they always say that this is not delicious and that it is not delicious.
They were at home for a few days, and I felt tired.
Last year, when the sun was shining, my mother-in-law had heart and lung failure, but it was so bad that we stayed in the hospital for a few days, and the hospital could only let one person accompany me in the hospital at that time.
My husband wanted me to go to my sister-in-law's house to live, and I came to the hospital during the day, but my sister-in-law refused, the house was small, and the epidemic was so serious at that time, so why did we sleep.
My mother-in-law has been unable to get out of bed since she had cardiopulmonary failure, and my husband and I are taking care of her at home, and my brother is also retired, and my brother and sister-in-law have nothing to do at home, and they don't let my mother-in-law go to their house.
After a while, they came to the house, and my brother and sister-in-law were also picky about us taking care of the elderly, which was not good, and the urine pad for the elderly was not good, and there was a smell, so I came to the house to find a bunch of problems.
It is said that when they come home, they should do something, but people don't do it, especially sister-in-law, she said that she is not the material to serve people, they are in front of them, and they call us when there is any trouble, we are not afraid of dirty and tired, and we are not afraid of being dirty and tired to clean up, brother and sister-in-law are like relatives on the side, and sometimes they are dirty and quickly avoid.
The mother-in-law said that my brother took over my husband's father's class, and let my brother take the medicine fee, and we would take care of it, but my sister-in-law said that she didn't want anything, and finally we took out half of the medicine fee, and it was still our business to serve my mother-in-law.
In March this year, my mother-in-law passed away, and I ran errands for my mother-in-law, and my brother's friends came again and again, and there were many gifts, and there were many cigarettes and alcohol at home, and the elders at the door told us to do things, and asked my brother to take out the expenses, which was only more than 10,000 yuan.
He also told us that the people at the door of the house, the relatives gave us the gift money, saying that it was not easy for us to farm at home, but my sister-in-law was resolutely unwilling, she said that her brother had a lot of gifts, and he also had to give gifts to others, and besides, we two brothers, it was most appropriate to divide them equally.
In the end, the sister-in-law told the elder that the account books were also separated, and that each of their relatives and friends was individual, and that they should keep an account together, so that it was clear.
This incident became a joke in our village.
In the past, I also said that my sister-in-law is not a good person, and my brother is a good person, but now I see through it, my brother is not good to us.
After finishing the work for my mother-in-law, my brother and sister-in-law were happy, because people received more than 100,000 gifts at once, and our family was very few.
After finishing the work for my mother-in-law, the people quickly rolled up the money and left, leaving a big mess, and they didn't care about it, and said that they would never come again.
Think about it all these years, how can we be so stupid, always giving good things to others, and worrying about being looked down upon and looked down upon by others;And people give us things they don't use, and they think we haven't eaten, seen, or used them.