Small events, feedback is an unusual character
- Aladdin 956
In the past few days, the temperature has dropped sharply, and it is already only 2-3°.
In the north, this temperature may not be nothing, but in the south, especially in today's global warming, such temperatures are still rare, and if accompanied by strong winds, it is very uncomfortable to feel.
Today's temperature is zero degrees and the wind is 5-6 (gusting to 7);Sitting in a closed office, you can hear the wind howling wildly, as if you can't express its majesty without trying your best, and it makes people shiver.
After lunch, according to the custom, after 15 minutes of Vajra kneeling, I took a lunch break. But today's climate is really a dilemma - lunch break, ** clothes feel so cold and difficult;I don't have a lunch break, and my mental state is not appropriate when I go to work in the afternoon. Left is not right or below, or the lunch break as usual.
After a while, in a daze, I felt a slight sound, and it turned out that my wife came in to help me punch in and sign in with my mobile phone. I wanted to say something to my wife, but I felt that I was still groggy when I didn't wake up from my nap, in fact, it may be because I didn't want to get up because I was lazy in winter, so I habitually said goodbye to my wife - "Be careful when driving on the way to work." ”
So, he continued to fall asleep again.
I don't know how long it took, I suddenly woke up, looked at my watch, and at 14:10, I felt a little wrong, "Did my wife leave the car to me instead of driving to work, and she rode a shared bicycle to work by herself?"”。So, I immediately got up and trotted to the key frame regardless of the cold, and it was really so.
What should I say?What do I say?
In this kind of weather, sitting in the car, you can feel the wind constantly pouring into the car from the window gaps and the exhaust fan blades, not to mention the exposed shared bicyclesThere's really nothing you can do about her.
Similar incidents have happened n times – in the big winter, and on rainy days. She always left me the safest, safest, least vulnerable choice, and she accepted it in a daze, over and over again, and every time with deep shame and without any initiative.
There's really nothing you can do with her.
But she never had any subjective positive behavior to correct her approach. For example, it was judged earlier that she might be ready to continue to be polite;Knowing that it is difficult to go to work in winter, so don't lie in bed and get up early to send your wife to work by the way to supervise her, etc., these may prevent similar incidents from happening and get a better solution, but I am so virtuous, who is to blame?
My wife is such a person, and what she has in her heart is never herself, no matter what, the first thing that comes to mind is our ignorant old man. People's hearts are made of flesh, why don't we always make any progress?Why do you always "remember only yourself?"."Why don't you think more about her?
Think about it, think about it, weigh it, weigh it!Small events, feedback is an unusual character
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