Mother, witnessing the child's stepfather wantonly bullying his daughter, be **. A good drama that has been watched n times
Seeing that the puppet toy that belonged to him in the end was torn by his stepfather, Cheng Yushirt completely collapsed.
A young girl who has lived under the nose of a lewd stepfather for more than ten years, has been mistreated, watched, and even **.
Even the two teachers who met for the first time found out that something was wrong, didn't Cheng Yushan's own mother Lu Qiao not notice it?
She noticed it, but for the sake of her own good life, she chose to ignore all the unfair treatment her daughter received, and even ignored her daughter's being hurt and being **.
After Cheng Yushan found out about the surveillance installed by her stepfather in her room, why didn't she choose to tell Lu Qiao?
It's not just because she's afraid that Lu Qiao will be sad, but the deeper reason is: she knows that Lu Qiao won't protect her.
The most despicable kind of parents in the world are probably Lu Qiao:
For the sake of his own good life, ignore the children in the abyss.
What is Cheng Yushirt in that home?
It's the nanny at home, the waiter at the mahjong parlor, and the tool for my stepfather to rub oil.
In the first episode of the TV series, Cheng Yushan pretended to be an adult, dating an adult man, and wanted to escape from that family.
Why is she so eager?
Because of her stepfather's lewd behavior towards her, she has been frightened and helpless to a certain point. She was desperately trying to save herself.
Why would you rather ask for help from a stranger than your own mother?
Be sure to pay attention to one detail:Cheng Yushan's stepfather, in front of the people in the mahjong parlor and in front of Cheng Yushan's two teachers, dared to hug Cheng Yushan.
His behavior has almost been a norm in Cheng Yushan's long years of more than ten years, but Cheng Yushan's mother chose to ignore her husband's various mistreatment and hurt Cheng Yushan's behavior.
Even, in order to please her husband, Lu Qiao chose to follow her husband again and again, bullying, mistreating, and hurting her daughter together.
gave the toilet to her daughter as a house, did not let her daughter eat on the table, and followed her husband to slander and hurt her daughter.
Never think that Lu Qiao is also difficult, and it is not easy. Because the hardest thing is always the weak child who needs protection.
Difficult and not easy, but it is just an excuse, and selfishness is the truth.
Yu Yang is 18 years old, such a big young man, but he has no privacy of his own at all.
Her mother was able to rip off her son's pants in front of a group of women.
She didn't allow her son to disobey her, or even leave her sight for too long.
Less than half an hour after Yu Yang's mobile phone was taken away, she was able to rush into Yu Yang's classroom and shout.
When she quarreled with her husband, Yu Yang became the object of all her emotional catharsis.
She banged on the door, yelled, and even slammed it in at the end. She kept talking about her dedication to Yu Yang and scolded Yu Yang for having no conscience.
But in fact, her so-called giving everything for Yu Yang just moved herself, but she was incompetent in life, and put her emotions into the child, relying on the child's love for her, wantonly venting her dissatisfaction and her dissatisfaction with marriage and life.
The child is nothing more than a vent for her emotions and misfortunes.
The truth of many parents' chicken babies is: they refuse to accept the mediocrity of their children.
Jiang Qinglang's parents are very good, especially Jiang Qinglang's mother, who can talk to the principal.
She is very good, so she refuses to accept Jiang Qinglang's mediocrity at all. You will find such a feature:Jiang Qinglang's mother has been comparing Jiang Qinglang with others, and even, she would rather lie in the party than create the illusion of her son's excellence.
What's even more terrifying is that because of the different educational concepts of Jiang Qinglang's parents, Jiang Qinglang has become the main fuse of his parents' emotional discord.
The child became the original sin of the discord between the husband and wife, so Jiang Qinglang cheated and carefully considered between his parents, desperately suppressing his own nature.
Why does he like to sing?
In order to vent, find a pure land, you can be free.
Some parents live in their own vanity all their lives, and their children are just another tool for their vanity.
As a parent, you must remember two things:
The first thing is that children are the most sensitive and insecure, and she is more afraid of being helpless than being tired.
The second thing is that under the fence, it is a hidden pain, not severe, but long, enough to affect the child's life.
Bian Xiaoxiao stayed at her aunt's house, she was afraid that her aunt and uncle would be unhappy, so she worked hard and tried to pretend to be sensible.
She didn't dare to touch the contents of the house, because it was not her house, it was her cousin's house.
The feeling of being suspended in the air and not falling is actually the most torturous. In particular, she was still an adolescent and had her own secrets, so she developed a typical people-pleasing personality, pleasing her aunt and uncle, pleasing her cousin, and even pleasing classmates she didn't like at all.
And what's the biggest crux of the people-pleasing personality?
Lack of love. Lacking the love and protection of her parents, Bian Xiaoxiao completely lost the confidence to face her heart and face her true face.
And not being able to be yourself is often the most painful thing in the world.
Shen Yao, from a wealthy family, is the oldest.
But he never liked to laugh, and he also hurt himself and bullied his classmates as a game.
His father, cheating, domestic violence, and not allowing a single flaw.
Just as his father sat in the room, he would be so nervous that he would pick his fingers. Just because he can't do the last big question, he will be infinitely belittled by his father.
On his birthday, his mother forced him to witness his father's cheating and even asked him for details.
This kind of family will never talk about the word love. Because they feel that love is the most useless and incompetent thing, they only talk about profit.
Shen Yao's father doesn't care about his wife at all, nor does he love his children, he only cares about his reputation, status, and whether Shen Yao is good enough. Shen Yao's mother only cares about interests and uses her children as a tool to compete for interests. As for Shen Yao's feelings, they didn't consider it at all.
Two cold-blooded people who completely ruined a good child and turned them into madmen.
The final landing point, I want to fall on Li Ran:
Is only the company of parents a companion?
Li Ran has no parents and lives with his grandmother, because his grandmother gave him enough love, so he has also become a strong, righteous and warm person.
And what is it that can really destroy a child?
It is the lack of love, the incompetence of parents and their selfish desires.
Our children may not be Minglong teenagers, but please allow him to be mediocre, accept his differences, and respect the life he chooses.