"If the stage gives me a chance, I want to sing and die on the stage," said singer Wong Yee Shan.
Huang Qishan is a late-blooming singer, and she only relied on "I Am a Singer" to really "catch fire" when she was 45 years old.
When her good friends Faye Wong and Na Ying became popular all over the country with "Meet in 1998", Huang Qishan still lost herself in the whirlpool of failed marriages.
Huang Qishan has walked the road of marriage three times, but they all came to an end early.
Now in her 50s, she still has a dream of "being a mother", and admits that "it is a pity not to have children".
And Huang Ma was almost cyberbullied because of this sentence, after all, this sentence came out of her mouth that seemed to be successful, and a large number of people were going to be sour.
However, those who really know Huang Qishan will definitely understand why she said this.
Huang Qishan was born in 1968, and her parents divorced when she was very young.
As for the relationship between herself and her mother, Huang Qishan described it like this, saying that she and her mother may not know each other very well (familiar), because they basically don't live together.
Huang Qishan, who lacks maternal love, feels that she is a little girl who is not loved from beginning to end.
And such a lack of family affection in childhood also planted the seeds of failure for Huang Qishan's marriage.
The only person in the family who can bring joy and happiness to Huang Qishan is her grandfather.
Grandpa likes to take her out to watch the play, and the young Huang Qishan can also hum along to the tune, which makes my grandfather very surprised.
As she gets older, Huang Qishan's singing skills become more and more proficient, she especially likes the two big radios at home, and she has to listen to Teresa Teng's songs many times every day.
Grandpa likes to invite his good friends to listen to the play at home, and once Huang Qishan, who was watering the flowers, hummed Teresa Teng's song at will, which surprised and delighted the elders and praised Huang Qishan's singing.
This greatly satisfied Huang Qishan's "vanity", and also strengthened the idea of "continuing to walk on the road of singing".
In order to be able to sing, Huang Qishan suffered a lot, and after graduating from junior high school, she entered the society early to work hard.
She worked as a waitress, worked as a counter sister, washed dishes, and helped people sell candy, and finally at the age of 17, she was successfully admitted to the Huahua Dance Troupe.
Although it is a dance troupe, it has always been involved in art, so it is one step closer to the dream of singing.
And in this place, Huang Qishan met the first Bole in her life - Xiao Jianhu.
When she first met Xiao Jianhu, Huang Qishan was experiencing the darkest moment of her life.
She thought that with her tall figure and beautiful singing voice, she could have a place in the Huahua Dance Troupe.
But the fact is that because of the lack of outstanding appearance, people are often ignored and looked down upon.
Frustrated, Huang Qishan unintentionally hummed a little song in her spare time, as if to vent her resentment.
didn't think about the singing, but Xiao Jianhu heard it.
Xiao Jianhu quipped: Dancing is too condescending, come to our singing team!
In this way, Huang Qishan came to the singing team under the strong recommendation of Xiao Jianhu.
At that time, Huang Qishan and Xiao Jianhu traveled to major bars in Chongqing and *** This is the only way for every singer to become famous.
In those two years, Huang Qishan was a celebrity in major bars.
Many years later, Wong still looks back on the past and still misses the time when she sang in the bar.
Huang Qishan knew that she couldn't fight other singers for her appearance, so she simply did the opposite and started a "contrast cute".
Other singers stood on stage early when they sang.
Huang Qishan No, even if the accompaniment ** sounded, the guitarist and drummer kept giving Huang Qishan a look, she didn't go on stage.
Just sang the first line behind the scenes, and waited until the second line was sung, and then walked slowly onto the stage.
So when the audience listened to the first lyrics, they couldn't see Huang Qishan.
But hearing such a beautiful voice, they always fantasize that the singer is a sweet and gentle beauty with long flowing hair.
As a result, when Huang Qishan walked out, she found that the other party turned out to be a long-legged girl with thick lips.
The audience immediately had a feeling of "being deceived", but soon fell in love with this thick-lipped, biker-style, cool and dragging girl.
During the rising period of her career, Huang Qishan met her first husband, but the relationship ended without a problem within a few years.
Overhearted, Wong decides to leave the heart-wrenching city and head south in search of a better opportunity.
Huang Qishan said that Guangzhou gathered the best singers at that time, but I was not bad.
And the goal of the young and vigorous Huang Qishan is naturally the best plop 100 band in Guangzhou.
What exactly does Butong 100 mean?
Hou Dejian, a Taiwanese ** person named after him, said that Bu Tong represents the sound of the heart beating, similar to "plop, plop".
And 100 refers to the high heartbeat rate of the listener when listening to the song, almost reaching 100 beats per minute. The implication is that the song of the Butong 100 band won the hearts of the audience.
Butong 100 is the most famous *** in Guangdong
In order to enter this place, Huang Qishan came to the door three times in a row to recommend herself, and with the help of her good friends Na Ying and Peter Chen, she barely got the pass of Butong 100.
Huang Qishan had been a resident singer in Haikou before entering Butong 100, and the appearance fee was nearly 100 yuan each time, but when she came to Butong 100, Chen Kai only gave 47 yuan.
Even so, Huang Qishan agreed without thinking about it, and didn't even fight for it.
Because she feels that she came to Butong 100, making money is not the first purpose, but wants to transform into a real singer.
Then why does Huang Qishan have to enter this Butong 100?
You must know that the Butong 100 band at that time gathered the most famous pop singers in China, and was known as the birthplace of Chinese pop.
Chen Kai, the owner of the band, spent 3 million to build a dance hall, which was a huge amount of money at that time.
Its battles at that time, from the singers and musicians, to the lighting, stage, and sound, were very similar to "I Am a Singer" in 2013, all of which were top-level configurations.
Of course, in addition to these top configurations, the most important thing is that Chen Kai has top singers, like Na Ying, Huofeng, and Mao Ning have all sung in Butong 100.
Therefore, only when Huang Qishan becomes a singer of Butong 100 will she transform into a real singer, instead of going back and forth to major bars to sing.
And Chen Kai, the boss who has many powerful singers, naturally doesn't look down on the ordinary-looking Huang Qishan, and has been rejected many times for her plastic surgery, but fortunately, Huang Qishan, who has extraordinary strength, has become the pillar of the club with her voice and has become famous for singing.
Men will always be a stumbling block on the road to Huang Qishan's success.
When singing at Butong 100, Huang Qishan met her second husband Tu Huiyuan.
When she met Tu Huiyuan, Huang Qishan was already a well-known singer in Butong 100.
And Tu Huiyuan is also engaged in **, and he is also a well-known ** person in Taiwan.
Compared with her first husband, Huang Qishan and Tu Huiyuan have significantly more topics in common.
couldn't help but fall in love, Tu Huiyuan and Huang Qishan got married in Guangzhou.
Tu Huiyuan is Taiwanese, and most of his career and industry are in Taiwan, and after getting married, he thought about taking Huang Qishan away.
At that time, Huang Qishan was still the pillar of Butong 100, and Chen Kai was naturally reluctant to let her follow Tu Huiyuan to Taiwan, so he thought about renewing the contract with Huang Qishan.
Tu Huiyuan was unwilling to have a long-distance relationship, so he directly rejected Chen Kai's contract renewal and took Huang Qishan to Taiwan.
And this marriage seems to have completely separated Huang Qishan from **.
Every day, Tu Huiyuan has to go to his own ** studio.
And Huang Qishan went back and forth between two points and one line - the vegetable market and home, and became a full-time wife, this kind of life is obviously not what Huang Qishan wants.
Especially seeing that the singer who debuted with him is now active in the mainland music scene and has made a lot of achievements, the gap in Huang Qishan's heart is getting bigger and bigger.
It wasn't until 1994 that Tu Huiyuan tailor-made the first ** for Huang Qishan, called "The Man Hiding Behind the **".
Although the response to this ** was good, Huang Qishan was still not happy.
She feels that her current situation is just like the name of this **, the person hiding behind the **, that is to say, there is no way to appear on the stage, only behind the stage.
Before getting married, Huang Qishan was known as the female singer of Butong 100, but now she only has "Tu Huiyuan's husband".
Because of the great sense of disparity and loneliness, there were more and more disputes between Huang Qishan and Tu Huiyuan, and finally came to the point of divorce.
In order to make his wife happy, Tu Huiyuan specially wrote "Cut Love" and "Listening to the Sea" to Huang Qishan.
But Huang Qishan didn't like it very much, and in desperation, Tu Huiyuan gave these two songs to Zhang Huimei.
After the divorce, Huang Qishan suffered from depression, and she committed suicide to attract Tu Huiyuan's attention, but Tu Huiyuan said, I don't believe you can do such a thing.
At this moment, Huang Qishan finally gave up, and she decided to be herself.
In 2013, Huang Qishan appeared on the stage of "I Am a Singer" and won the fourth place with her outstanding performance and strength.
I believe most people knew her at this time.
In "Singer", Huang Qishan used her bright "high voice" to let the audience recognize her, and she was also recognized by people, and she became a well-known female singer.
On the stage of "I Am a Singer", Huang Qishan sang the song that her ex-husband once wrote for herself - "Cut Love".
Singing and singing, Huang Qishan collapsed, even if she tried to bite her hand to prevent herself from crying, but she still failed.
Huang Qishan stood on the stage with tears streaming down her face, she was at a loss, and she seemed to be reminded of the days when she was forced to give up her beloved singing career in Taiwan.
Many listeners were addicted to Huang Qishan's voice and couldn't extricate themselves, and even said: "If Huang Qishan doesn't win the championship, heaven will not tolerate it."
At this time, Huang Qishan was 45 years old, but fortunately, 45-year-old Huang Qishan finally became popular.
Because of participating in "I Am a Singer", Huang Qishan met ** director Zhang Ying.
The two got married in 2013 and divorced in 2016, Zhang Ying accused Huang Qishan of cheating, Huang Qishan denied the cheating rumors to the end, and accused Zhang Ying of domestic violence.
Huang Qishan's third marriage ended with a bang.
After three failed marriages, Huang Qishan decided to put all her energy into her career, and was shortlisted for the Best Chinese Female Singer Award at the "27th Golden Melody Awards" with ** "Xiaoxia", and even appeared on the Spring Festival Gala.
In a talk show, Huang Qishan revealed the regret of not being able to be a mother between the lines, but now she has long missed the best childbearing age.
In this regard, netizens comforted her, "It's okay Mama Huang, fans are your family" and "Thousands of listeners are your children!".
And Huang Qishan admitted frankly in the show that she likes the new identity of "Huang Ma" very much, and gradually adapted to this new identity, thank you very much for the love and call of netizens, and she is willing to continue to stand on the stage and convey the power of maternal love.
Although she has no children and no daughters, she has so many fans and listeners who love her, and she has no regrets.