The mother forced the pregnancy, and he did two things after returning home, which made people think deeply about the truth of the family
Preface. Love is the most beautiful desire in the hearts of all people. In love, the best love can always give people a feeling of spring breeze and excitement. However, a good relationship does not arise from a moment of passion, it will make you slowly become gentle. Therefore, how to build a harmonious, mutually understanding and respectful interpersonal relationship can obtain long-term happy love.
Good love is to make you slowly become gentle.
True love is not like a glass of spirits that makes people instantly intoxicated, but because it can bring you endless warmth and happiness. This love is based on mutual care, understanding and support. Each of the two has their own responsibilities. The husband is the breadwinner of the family, and in order to create a warm living atmosphere for the family, he must take on this responsibility. There's no way he's going to put all his energy into you, and there's a lot he has to do. So, to create a good relationship, not only to keep the other person's attention on you, but also to juggle family and work.
So, what can be done to make you better?There are many ways to do this, but the most important thing is to get your hands on it. Psychology believes that a happy family must be premised on marriage, not the affection between parents and children. The relationship between parents and children is higher than that of marriage, which is very likely to lead to conflicts and strife within the family. In the case of the relationship between a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law, for example, if the mother-in-law brings her own power and her own subjective desires into the marriage, there may be conflict. A wise mother-in-law will behave toughly in front of her husband and will not interfere in their small family. However, if the mother-in-law does not know, or does not pay attention to it, it will intensify the quarrel in the family. In such an environment, everyone will put the blame on the other, and this home is like a war scene.
Therefore, it is necessary to maintain good marital relations and maintain appropriate family boundaries. This is not selfishness and unfilial piety, but more of a kind of cleverness in dealing with family conflicts. Marrying you is a kind of bravery for a woman;It is a great courage to have a child for you. What can a man talk about standing on top of the world if he can't tolerate his wife?
Xiao Nan's love. Xiaonan was not her daughter-in-law in the first place, and her family background was not very good. She is alone in the city, although she still has two mature and hardworking brothers. However, Xiaonan's grandmother treats her very badly and thinks she is a scheming woman. Although Xiao Nan didn't have a hard time with her mother-in-law, she never told her husband. Her husband was traveling, and Xiaonan had to ask her mother-in-law to take care of her. However, this time, her mother-in-law did not come as planned, but handed her over to Xiaonan. Xiao Nan was reluctant, but she lived far away from here, and she didn't want to disturb him, so she gave up.
However, Xiao Nan was very surprised, because she found out that her husband actually came back early, and asked the company to arrange another person to go out to work. It turned out that her husband had known what her mother-in-law had done. Although he knew what Xiao Nan was hiding, in his opinion, his mother and Xiao Nan should know her best when they have been together for so long. Su Tao is not very interested in his wife, and his only thought now is to take good care of his wife and children and maintain his family. Therefore, he took matters into his own hands and prepared to take his wife home for the New Year.
This parable illustrates that good family relationships require mutual understanding and respect. As a husband, you should start from your wife's standpoint, sincerely understand your wife, and care for your wife. And to be a daughter-in-law is to have enough tolerance for your mother-in-law. Everyone has their own past, their own experience, their own thoughts, and their own will. It is only by understanding and accepting this difference that we can build a harmonious family.
Overview. Building good family bonds is not easy, but it's key. A harmonious home will not only make you happy, but also your children for the rest of their lives. Love is like a glass of water, to be savored. Only a little bit of pampering, your love will last long and happy.
Therefore, couples should learn how to find a balance between work and life, understand each other, and support each other. Husbands and wives should communicate frequently to get to know each other, each other's perspectives and choices. Only in this way can we establish a balanced, mutual understanding, mutual respect, and long-lasting and happy love.