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In ancient times, women had to abide by the etiquette requirements of "three obedience and four virtues", that is, obeying the father at home, obeying the husband when marrying, and obeying the son when the husband died. And the marriage is the decision of the parents, and there can be no personal thoughts and opinions at all.
Before marriage, I didn't even know who I was going to marry, what the family situation was, and what the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would be. The so-called "marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog", after marrying in the past, marrying well or not is a lifelong life, which cannot be changed, and there is no way out.
Daiyu was born in a scholarly family, and her father Lin Ruhai was born in the imperial examination, and was admitted to the Tanhua of the previous department, and moved to the doctor of Lantai Temple, and was later appointed by the emperor as the imperial history of Yangzhou Salt Patrol, which is a rare noble family. With such a family, Lin Ruhai wants to find a good son-in-law for Daiyu, and I don't know how many people rush to sign up.
When Lin Ruhai was still there, Daiyu was definitely Jia Zheng's daughter-in-law. Daiyu's excellence is still secondary, mainly because of her background, the power and influence that Lin Ruhai can bring, especially the help for Baoyu to enter the official career.
Jia Zheng is the second son of Jia Fu, and the position of the lord is obtained by the eldest son Jia Yu. If Jia Zheng wants to develop, he can only come from an official career, and he is indeed ready for this. However, when his father Jia Daishan was dying, the emperor immediately ordered his eldest son to attack the official because of his compassion for the ancestors, and also gave Jia Zheng an additional title of director, so that he entered the ministry to study and was promoted to a foreign officer. But Jia Daishan has this ability, and he himself can't make the emperor give his son an official title.
Therefore, his requirements for Jia Zhu and Baoyu are to study carefully and enter the official career through the imperial examination. In order to help Jia Zhu's development, he married Jia Zhu to Li Kun, the daughter of the former Guozi's sacrificial wine, and Jia Zhu really lived up to his expectations, but unfortunately died early. There is only one Baoyu left, and Jia Zheng expects more from him, so Baoyu is slightly wrong, so he beats Baoyu, all because he hates iron and steel.
For the sake of Baoyu's future and the development of the family, Baoyu's wife must come from a powerful family, be able to provide Baoyu with career relations, and open the way for Baoyu's development. When Lin Ruhai was still alive, Daiyu was definitely Jia Zheng's first choice, but Father Lin was gone, and the Lin family had no other brothers, so there was no longer any usable relationship on Daiyu's side.
Jia's mother likes Daiyu, and from the beginning she planned to complete Baoyu Daiyu, Jia Zheng must have no opinion at the beginning, and she is happy to see it, but Father Lin is gone, and Daiyu has been reduced from the first choice to an alternative. Mrs. Wang's candidate is Baochai, of course, Baochai's background and the help that her family can provide are not as good as Daiyu, so Jia Zheng will not consider Baochai.
It is often said that Daiyu has a windy life in her grandfather's house, and no one dares to treat her harshly, why is she still depressed and full of sorrow every day. Daiyu seems to be living like a master, but she is not the main owner of Jiafu after all, she has no parents, who will be in charge of her life events?She is in the prime of life now, who knows where she will go in the future, ** will be where she belongs?
Baoyu loves her and treats her very well;Jia's mother also loves her like her own granddaughter;Sister Feng also likes her, and often makes jokes about her, asking her when she will be their daughter-in-law. As everyone knows, none of these people have the power to decide the events of her life. The person who can finally decide Baoyu's marriage is Jia Zheng, his father. Mother Jia, or Mrs. Wang, in fact, has no power to decide, Jia Zheng out of the mentality of motherhood and filial piety, you can ask Mother Jia's opinion;In order to maintain the loving relationship between husband and wife, you can also ask Mrs. Wang what she thinks, but these are not necessary, as long as Jia Zheng decides, neither Jia Mu nor Mrs. Wang has the right to object, the so-called three from four virtues.
Look at Yingchun's marriage, Jia Yu promised her to Zhongshan wolf Sun Shaozu, Jia Zhengben did not approve, but after a few words of persuasion, Jia Yu had no choice if he didn't listen. Mother Jia is not optimistic about this marriage, but because her father is in charge, she can't say anything. Because Yingchun's marriage was decided by her father, it was natural at the time, even if others had opinions, they could only be used as a reference, and the decision was still in her father's hands.
And Baoyu's marriage is the same, in fact, the person who has the right to decide is Jia Zheng. So no matter how good Mother Jia is to Daiyu, she can't go her own way, no matter how much Mrs. Wang likes Baochai, she can't set her, everything depends on Jia Zheng. Jia Zheng naturally knew the person Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang had chosen in their hearts, but he didn't express his position for a long time because he was still looking for a more suitable person who could bring substantial help to Baoyu's career and Jiafu. Daiyu is only a backup candidate when there is no better candidate, and Baochai is the choice when there is no choice in the end.
Daiyu, a woman full of talent and a peerless appearance, is reduced to the fate of being dominated by others just because her father is gone, isn't this miserable. The Lin family is a single lineage, Lin's father is an only son, and Daiyu has no brothers, otherwise she can still have a brother in charge like Baochai, or have a brother like Xiangyun to call the shots, she has nothing. She took refuge in her grandfather's house, and the only one who could make decisions for her was her uncle.
She and Baoyu have feelings for each other, but this is a matter that cannot be said, her fate will eventually be pushed to **, she can only wait for an unknown answer. "The beautiful scenery of a good day is a day, and whose courtyard is happy to enjoy it, like a beautiful flower, like a year of flowing water", how can you not be sad?