Let's just say that the female elders around me feel that housework is their own all their lives, and they have to worry about whether their lover has food when they go out for a few daysWhat's more, it's only been out for a few days... I didn't want to answer at all.
The post-00s I know are really different from my 20-year-olds. The Internet has broken too many information barriers, and it is true that you don't fall in love with your brain to improve yourself and make money.
I think I found myself after 40+, my original family is not good, and I have been patriarchal for decades. Later, he learned to love himself, and the current husband made up for the vacancy of love in his heart for many years.
Today is the anniversary of my husband's grandfather, my husband's 3 aunts are here, today they went to the grave to burn paper, [laughing and crying] when I was cooking at noon, my husband came to help me, [eating melons] my aunts came in and said to let my husband go out, just have a few of us to cook [doge] At that time, I thought that in the eyes of some people of the older generation, cooking and washing dishes are what women should do [laughing and crying].
I said one thing, I'm 32 weeks pregnant now, every time I call my own mother and grandmother, they always say let me do more work at my mother-in-law's house, don't be so lazy [doge], and say that I used to be pregnant and still work how to drip, as if I should be like them all the time hard to consume myself, even if I am pregnant, I have to cook and do housework. It's a pity that I can't follow their wishes, my partner does everything, and he won't let me do anything [laughs and cries].
Don't say that, hahaha, I'm unmarried and childless, they think I'm hard, and my friends who are divorced and have children alone even hope that I can work hard to get married
A few days ago, there was a hot search, uncle's life was stopped at the age of 40, saying that there was no job, he was resigned, he couldn't find a job, his life stopped, and I had a moment in my mind the women of my parents' generation, they gave birth to children in their early 20s, and after giving birth to children, they could only find some basic jobs to earn some family, and some of them may not be able to return to their posts now, and even now in their 30s, people will default to you having children and take children to find a way to drive you away, women in their thirties resigned and then looked for jobs, compared to how difficult it is for men with the same conditions, many women's lives have stopped before giving birth, The life of women who have not given birth to children stops at the age when the world defaults to having children, not to compare who is harder and whose pain is the most painful, but to hope that women will be clear about their own situation, see what they want clearly, and work hard.
In the past, women had no choice, especially rural women, who married out of their parents' family and used you as water to splash out, the family belonged to the brothers and brothers, and they were bullied in their in-laws' house and wanted to divorce, with nowhere to go, no place to live, no ability to survive, and they were reluctant to have children, and they couldn't lift their heads up after divorce.
I'm 24 years old, and I think the hardest time since I grew up was before I was 18 years old, I didn't have the opportunity to go to the outside world, I didn't have the opportunity to meet interesting and lovely people, and I said that the pain was also very painful when I was young, but now I think about it and feel like I am moaning without disease. I think it's painful. I don't have my own perception and my own view of life. The perception in the head comes from the surroundings. It's different now, I've been to a lot of places and experienced a lot of things. 24 years old is really calm and peaceful. You can face a lot of things and accept a lot of things very calmly. Everyone will experience a lot of things, and most people's lives are also ordinary and ordinary, but there are many beautiful things in ordinary life, and we need to discover for ourselves, and it is really important to have a good attitude. No one is absolutely happy in life, depending on how we see and grow. Life is colorful and beautiful.