The progress of society is changing with each passing day, and many things have ushered in rapid development, and love is no exception.
Nowadays, the motivation for people to come together is no longer just to be heartfelt, but more to fill the void when they meet, as if to pass the time. In this kind of fast-food love, the relationship gradually loses its former depth and interest.
Originally, it was supposed that two people appreciated and attracted each other, gradually came together, and finally built a beautiful love. However, there are always people in the world who find joy in deceiving other people's feelings.
Not everyone is genuinely close to you, so men need to stay sober and not get caught up in each other's imaginary love.
Whether a person truly loves you or not, the details will reveal everything. Everyone expects to spend a lifetime with the person they love, and only by giving everything to the person you love can you live up to your affection. There are four obvious signs of a woman pretending to love you without you in her heart.
Be enthusiastic about you only when she needs it.
A woman who pretends to love you will hardly be interested in your affairs in normal times. No matter what you're doing or who you're socializing, she doesn't care. She is always busy with her own affairs and has no time to care about you. Even if you take the initiative to reach out to her, it will be difficult for her to show enthusiasm for you. The only time she is enthusiastic about you is when she needs your help with something. Once her affairs are settled, she reverts to apathy, is busy with her own business, and basically doesn't pay attention to you anymore. A woman who truly loves you will show a different kind of care for you and will be especially attentive to your affairs. For those women who only show affection when they ask for you, they are obviously taking advantage of you and just pretending to love you.
There is concealment and deception from you.
In today's society, almost everyone has a mobile phone in their hands, and personal privacy and secrets are basically kept in the mobile phone. In love, there should be mutual trust and honesty with each other, and there should not be too much to hide. If a woman doesn't let you look at her phone, she will be very excited once you look at it, which means that she doesn't have you in her heart, and there are secrets in the phone that can't be seen by you. And the woman who really loves you will tell you the mobile phone password and WeChat password without reservation, because she is unreserved, has a clear conscience in front of you, and is willing to share her privacy with you.
Impatient with you.
Blaming you for being five minutes late on a date, throwing tantrums regardless of the occasion, always comparing you to others all this tells you that she really doesn't care much about you. Love requires mutual tolerance and understanding, and it takes time to run in. If she doesn't even have that patience, it's not worth it to her. She is not satisfied with you and wants you to correct it immediately;What she wants, you have to satisfy immediately, without any consideration of your financial means, everything is about efficiency, without taking into account how difficult the process is for you. It's not that she won't love, but she doesn't think you deserve her love. She's only with you because you're nice to her.
Never disclose your identity.
A woman who truly loves you deeply will always be generous and open about who you are when you are together. In her circle of friends, you are often present. Whenever the opportunity is right, she will naturally take you to meet her friends and family. In her opinion, this is a matter of course. If a woman is with you, but usually acts like she is single, the circle of friends never dares to post your **, nor has she sent information related to you, and she always refuses to attend the friends you want to attend for various reasons, then it is obvious that she does not want to disclose your identity at all. She doesn't really give to you, and is probably just looking for a better option.
Emotional message. In fact, a person's hypocrisy or hypocrisy does not need to be deliberately discovered, whether a person loves you or not, you can feel it at the first moment of being together. A woman who truly loves you, her eyes are full of your figure, and it is impossible not to love you. And a woman who pretends to love you will never really love you. Therefore, false love is sometimes just deceiving itself. If you really know that someone doesn't love you, learning to let go is the best choice for yourself, otherwise you will just be wasting your youth and wasting your time.