For a family to move up, it takes at least three generations to work together.
The first generation of people walked the road to enlighten the mountains and forests. Do dirty work, hard work, tiring work. As the old saying goes, only a generation of people who sacrifice themselves and accumulate the first pot of gold can seek a stability for future generations. The West does not also pay attention to the so-called Puritan spirit, and its essential core is to practice strict economy, invest in financial management, and accumulate wealth.
The first generation carries out capital accumulation, the second generation cannot be idle, the second generation needs to receive a good education, not make a mistake, do a good job in the inheritance of wealth and family, and form in-laws and alliances of interests through marriage, circles, etc.
Only in this way can the third generation sit back and relax in some wealthy class industries, so as to achieve a leap in class and show the glory of the family.
But it is worth noting that in human society, the intergenerational transmission of wealth and power has always been a problem, and many families have a good life, especially the first.
At the beginning of the second and third generations, the wind of extravagance rose, and even if it entered the peak of wealth and status, it inevitably began to come to an end.
This is what the ancient Chinese said:The gentleman's ze, the fifth and beheaded!
In fact, the prosperous fate of a family is repeated in every era. In the end, it is a "Dream of Red Mansions" that is similar in all eras.
How similar the story patterns in Dream of Red Mansions are:
The first generation was willing to sacrifice their lives, play with their lives to earn military merits, and earn honor with blood and tears, so as to seal their wives and sons and glorify their families.
The second generation, relying on the shade to inherit the title + marriage everywhere, the four major families in Jinling City, Jia Shi Wang Xue, are not broken bones and tendons.
The third generation should have relied on the accumulation of the family to enter the office, but it turned out to be greedy for pleasure, like piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, beautiful sound, and love children all day long.
This is why Jia Baoyu will be beaten if he doesn't go on a scientific expedition. If you don't want to study and be an official, what should you do with such a big Jia Mansion?In the end, the four major families of Jia Shi Wang Xue, in the end, only the gentleman's Ze remained, and the fifth generation was beheaded, becoming a real family history of blood death.
If these are the patterns of ancient times, then let's talk about the family class promotion model after 1949!
Brother Xiang took his favorite TV series "Parental Love" as an example.
Male protagonist: Jiang Defu, the appearance is set in his 30s, the divorced diamond king Lao Wu, who has been revolutionary for many years, has beaten Lao Jiang, has been to North Korea, and is a regiment-level cadre who crawled out of the pile of dead people, a heroic model to resist US aggression and aid Korea. It was also the most popular group of people in that era.
Heroine: An Jie, just 20 years old, with a bad family background, is a defeated capitalist Miss Jiao, ten fingers do not touch the spring water, except for a young lady squeamish, there is no other advantage, even if you go to the sorority party, you have to choose to take a car.
This can be described as a combination of the best class and the worst class of that era.
It's a wonderful combination, and it can be said that it is not a good match at all. Even every step is difficult, this marriage is very difficult from the beginning, An Jie played a small temperament, disliked his second marriage, and later began to fall in love with him, but the political trial failed. Jiang Defu almost took off his military uniform, and An Jie almost went back to the countryside with him to "jump into the fire pit". In the last fight, Jiang Defu went to the political commissar of the base alone, and finally the marriage report was personally approved by the political commissar of the base (military-level cadres).
It is precisely because of this unprincipled marriage that Jiang Defu's opportunity to be promoted to the deputy division level has come to naught, and any further promotions in the future have come to naught. Jiang Defu's love at first sight also laid a huge hidden danger for his career. Although he won the beauty, he lost the "country". If Jiang Defu does not marry An Jie, he will be directly promoted to the deputy division level during the school first, and at least retire at the deputy army level in the future. (Refer to Jiang Defu's old partner Wang Zhenbiao, at least the deputy political commissar of the fortress area is retired, and the deputy military level is it).
It will not be like marrying An Jie, who has been on the island as the owner, the commander of the garrison, and retired at the division level. married a capitalist lady, and could not progress politically, so that Jiang Defu, a first-class combat hero on the Korean battlefield, did not get the rank of general.
But An Jie married Jiang Defu, and she lived happily in her life, especially after joining the army, no turmoil hit her, and that small garrison area became her paradise, and she could still live a good life of planting flowers and drinking coffee.
Many years later, when the older generation of the settled family was dying of old age, they gathered in Qingdao.
An Jie's sister-in-law and sister once toasted Jiang Defu, saying that Jiang Defu was the great benefactor of the An family. Even his brother-in-law Ouyang Yi, who refused to bow his head the most in his life, said that Jiang Defu was the great benefactor of the An family.
Isn't it?
Brother-in-law Ouyang Yi is a very talented man, and he and his sister An Xin are a pair of golden boys and girls. How did they end?In that era, they finally wore hats for so long, and without Jiang Defu always secretly taking money and things to help, how could they live?The twins Ouyang Anran, Ouyang Anruo, came from such a family, how could they become soldiers, let alone go to college.
But they had an uncle who was the commander of the garrison, and the gears of fate were rewritten.
An Jie's brother and sister-in-law's family lived in a big house at the beginning, and there were also servants. By the end of the day, when they were so old, they lived in a small house, and it is conceivable that in those years, they were not less disciplined, but a son and a daughter of my brother's family all joined the army and became officers. Isn't it because a child from a family with such a high composition can join the army because he has a teacher-level aunt?
The An family has a girl who has just grown up, and the An family has exchanged the marriage of the little sister for the peace of the An family. Although the first generation of the An family suffered a lot in that era, the second generation relied on the big tree of this teacher-level aunt and lived a super good life!
Jiang Defu's sister can't stand it anymore, because how many people in the An family have solved the dream good job?!
What about their Jiang family?
There are so many sons of the Jiang family, the dead are dead, and the missing are missing. Jiang Dehua is unbalanced, the Jiang family shed blood and sacrificed for the revolution, the people are thin, and their own man is dead, so he didn't get any benefits. After all the calculations, there was no relative in his hometown, so he found a second lady who was not relied on thirteen and arranged Yan Feng to be a soldier.
Yan Feng couldn't support the wall with such mud, so he transferred to work and went home after being a soldier for a few years.
If she is a legitimate relative of the Jiang family, do you think she will mention it?
Jiang Changyi, the second brother of Jiang Defu and his ex-wife's child, knelt down as his child. Just for that future!This kneeling, what did this gamble get in exchange?A good future in the navy, a good future for the university entrance examination, Ouyang Anran is such a beautiful wife.
It's all in exchange for this kneeling.
This kneeling is comparable to Qi Tongwei's kneeling in the playground of Handong University!
Otherwise, with him, a farmer, how difficult is it to change his fate?
Jiang Changyi is lucky and hardworking, and all this is also related to his efforts.
It's just that in the original work of **, Jiang Changyi later resigned and went to the sea, did a big business, became a big businessman, divorced, found a lot of young models in clubs, arrogant and lascivious, and later when Yaning went to see him, he also gave Yaning a big diamond to show his financial resources.
Would his success have been easy without him drawing on the influence of his "dad".His kneeling back then was the most critical part of his change of fate.
What about Jiang Defu's sons and daughters?
Boss Jiang Guoqing, when he was 16 years old, in today's words, he was a second-year teenager, and he had to go to the Sino-Soviet front to serve as a soldier, and his father did so, and in the end he was at least a division-level cadre.
The second child, Jiang Junqing, had to be a pilot, but he became an airborne soldier, and later he was promoted to work, and in the end he was at least a division-level cadre.
Lao Sanjiang Yafei, who stayed with his parents, was also an officer who ate imperial grain, and later married Wang Haiyang, the son of "straight boasting" when he was a child.
Lao Sijiang Minqing, the most unproductive one, went back to his hometown to be a farmer, and finally did some small business. Relying on the subsidies from his parents all the time and the help of his family, life is not bad.
Lao Wujiang Yaning, the only college student in the family, finally became an officer's wife, and her husband is a military-level cadre.
In addition, the four officers of the An family, although the TV series did not say how big these cadres of the second generation of the An family became in the end, after all, they are not descendants of the Jiang family, it is estimated that it is difficult to work at or above the deputy division level, at least it is not difficult to be a cadre at the battalion and regiment level, and it is normal to change jobs and come back to be a civil servant or something in the future, right?
For the big landlords and capitalists who have a bad family background like An Jia, how many of them turned over in the end?But the second and third generations of the An family are living a good life. Of course, the resumption of the college entrance examination in 1978 gave some of the children of these families a ray of life, but only partially, because only talented children can be admitted to good universities.
How can the second generation of the An family have a good life?
Everything stems from Jiang Defu who came back alive in the pile of dead people!
Therefore, if a family wants to move up, the efforts of the first generation are very important. If the first generation has a particularly good foundation, Lao Tzu is a hero, and many of the second generation can inherit it. Three generations can also enjoy the advantages of family inheritance.
For example, several children of the Jiang family and the An family are particularly obvious:
Tiger Father Tiger Son Series
The most promising in the lineage is Lao Xiao, Jiang Yaning, a college student of that era, and later went to graduate school. Whether it is a job, the husband I am looking for, and later became a military-level cadre, and he is also the most hungry director of these second-generation officials.
The side line is Jiang Changyi, who worked very hard, took a shortcut after being admitted to the military academy, married a beautiful daughter-in-law, and went to the sea to make a lot of money.
An Jia is Ouyang Anran and Annuo, who were admitted to university from the army and changed their fate!
This is a typical example of the first generation playing well and the second generation working hard.
Tiger Father and Dog Series
The children in this class are the middle of the children, which is not as good as the first generation, and they have not become the best part of the second generation. Typical are the eldest and second eldest of the Jiang family and Jiang Yafei.
This child is all a mess, in terms of ability and courage, not as good as his parents, and in terms of hard work, he is not as good as the previous ones. Why are some children admitted to college, and they are so mixed?
They are the Tiger Father and Dog Son series!
They are decent, they don't make any big mistakes, and they can mix well in the end.
The worst is the third son of the Jiang family, who has been a waste of dim sum since he was a child, and he didn't look like a gentleman, and later went to the countryside to become a farmer and married a most uninformed daughter-in-law. opened a teahouse by himself to do business, lost money, and asked Jiang Defu to borrow money, and Jiang Defu and them to help take care of the children.
This kind of is the kind that belongs to the kind that opens the trumpet and is wasted!After all, there are so many boys in a family, there are always cow forks, some mediocre, and some are not good, as the old saying goes, dragons give birth to nine sons, and they are different. So if you want the family to live well, is it the family that has to be prosperous, if it has always been a one-child model like 4+2+1, how can you guarantee that this 1 is not the third son of Jiang Defu's family, that is, the most unproductive one?
Is it possible that he will gnaw old in the future for the rest of his life?
So back to the question, what if a family wants to go up?
There must always be someone in the family who is particularly powerful, who has done a great thing, achieved fame, or made a lot of money. Holds up the whole family. This is like Qi Tongwei, he became the director of public security, and the dog in his hometown can be a police dog. One person gets the way, the chicken dog **. From ancient times to the present, nothing has changed!
When the man who broke the ox rose, he tried to find a way to spread out and try to cultivate the next generation.
Just like the children of the Jiang family, those who want to be soldiers go to be soldiers, and those who want to study, their mothers give the best support. Yaning's literary literacy is basically better than Anjie.
Spread out and work hard to cultivate the second generation, and if you have the talent to focus on training, they can go further on the basis of the first generation.
Yaning became the first college student and writer of the Jiang family, and Yaning's husband became the first general of the Jiang family. This is all on the basis of Jiang Defu, and further, such a family will rise.
Ordinary people in the family, through marriage and other means, try to maintain the existing class unwaveringly, the eldest and second of the Jiang family, and in the end, they are all division-level cadres. They also maintained the same treatment as the last!Yafei's husband is Wang Haiyang, and Wang Haiyang's father is Deputy Political Commissar Wang, so that their family has formed an in-law relationship. Such a family, no matter how poor it is, will not be too bad.
Waste snacks at home, then everyone you help a little, I help a little, try to support. The second generation is wasted, so the biggest task for them is to have children and get the education rights of the third generation.
For example, the children of the third son of the Jiang family were raised by Jiang Defu and An Jie themselves!
This is not much more reliable than directly handing over the third son to raise the waste snacks!
Family goes up, it's as simple as that!