There are more and more single old men now, why don't you want to find a wife anymore? The 62-year-old uncle told the truth. Yesterday, I met the 62-year-old man in the community, this little old man, not too tall, very cheerful and talkative, like singing and dancing, photography and painting, many hobbies, when he was young, he was also a talent. A few years ago, my wife fell ill and left, and he has been single for several years, and we talked about this as we chatted.
I said that you are not very old, and the children are not around, are you not lonely? It's time to find a wife, or I'll introduce you to one if I see a suitable one? He immediately waved his hand and said you stop, I won't look for it. I asked him, why? He said, "I don't want to be in trouble." This good uncle, a good person with many talents, and there are many people who pursue him, from 40 to 60 years old, but he has never had this idea. The reason is simple.
He said that finding a wife now is a burden, purely because he can't find it himself, and now looking for a wife is digging a pit by himself and jumping by himself, even his children can't be trusted, can the wife of the second marriage be reliable? Therefore, for the sake of future troubles, it is better to be single. He said that he has been single for several years, and he has been Xi to it, singing, dancing and traveling, and a few old friends in the mountains of the south and the north, everyone does not interfere with each other, isn't it very good to be happy? Why bother finding an old wife and being constrained, and asking for troubles? Hearing this, I thought about it, and I was right. I asked him, what happens when your child is not around and needs to be taken care of?
He said that he is in good health now, and it is more than enough to take care of himself, so he doesn't have to trouble the child to not be able to take care of himself in the future, so he goes to live in a nursing home, although many people say that the nursing home is not good, after all, someone takes care of it, and some things are man-made. He said he had told the child that if he was seriously ill, he would not need to be resuscitated, and that he would just let it be. It's best to live in the moment and live each day happily. He said to go to **, when it comes to **, why think too much, it's enough to live the moment. This uncle, I really figured it out.
He also said that many women are very pragmatic now, especially women who are married for the second time, they are looking for a wife, not just to find a partner, some seem to have a big age difference, especially the elderly in the city, have a house, and even, some have several suites, they want to marry, it is a different way of life to enjoy, how can they take care of each other? If you are a woman in the countryside and marry in the city, you want to solve the problem of household registration, if you have children, you want to solve the problem of raising children, and if you don't have a house, you want to solve the problem of housing. I would venture to say that 7 out of 10 people have a purpose.
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When people are old, they no longer pay attention to love, it is all about young people, the elderly only help each other and take care of each other, the love of the elderly is to understand each other and tolerate each other, this can only be done by the original partner, and halfway couples can rarely do it. Now it is very convenient to eat, convenience stores, fast food restaurants, takeaways, elderly tables, housekeeping, hourly workers, etc., as long as you can use your mobile phone, move your fingers, it can be delivered to your home. Someone once said that if you find a second-married wife, it is better to hire a nanny, if you don't like it, you can quit, the wife is different, that is to divide the property, and in the end the children are not happy, and they are not happy. The elderly should learn to be independent, be able to take care of themselves as much as possible, and not cause trouble to their children. If you can't take care of yourself, it's better to have children, and children are your intimate little padded jackets! Do you think so?