The Internet celebrity "second uncle" is popular all over the world, and awakens every soul in a state of "internal friction" with four truths
Like"Second uncle"Such people are by no means a minority in the countryside.
In the small mountain village in Shanxi where Wen Shijun lives, there are at least three such people. One was overdosed by a doctor in childhood and became deaf and mute;One is a middle school student who was bullied on campus, lost his courage and became a mentally ill person;And another is an ordinary person, but he has'Second uncle'was buried in the countryside.
All three were smart when they were young and had good academic records. Although they don't look like"Second uncle"That's the best in the class, and they're not the top students in school, but in everyone's minds, they're still there"Honor student"。
However, accidents in life almost ruin a person's life. Historians find this incomprehensible. Maybe it's fate, maybe it's predestined, maybe it's the cause of the past life, maybe it's the result of this life.
Today, we don't talk about it"Another uncle"encounters, and the main combination"Another uncle"of his life, talk about some of his own feelings.
The other uncle was not optimistic, but hopeless.
In the sixties and seventies of the last century, there was a lack of food and clothing, and the living conditions were difficult for modern people to imagine. Especially in rural areas, being alive is a kind of happiness. As a result, every family has several children.
In that era of lack of food and clothing, medical and health conditions were even more difficult. In those days, it was a blessing that every village had a doctor.
When the second uncle had a fever, the doctor gave him four injections a day, but the effect was very poor. On the one hand, it may be because the family is not at ease, and he has to ask the doctor to prescribe medicine for him if he has a high fever;On the other hand, it may also be due to a lack of awareness among doctors about the dangers of overdose.
When the second uncle was lame, he must have been very sad at first, but the time for him to calm down was definitely better than similar social events now. In fact, in the social background at that time, such incidents were very common and ordinary, and they could only be unlucky. In a paragraph that appeared many years later, the doctor"Pray"My own mistakes, the peace of mind is shocking.
The second uncle's heart is rich, and he is happy.
When there is less desire, people can be happier, and that is"Contentment"The truth.
The reason why modern people live a miserable life is, on the one hand, the material hijacking under the pressure of life, such as housing loans, car loans, etc.;In the Internet era, all kinds of comparative perspectives have been released, which in turn causes psychological pressure.
The second uncle lives in the countryside. What he saw, knew, felt, and touched were ordinary things that had been honed for decades, and had long been integrated with misery. No matter how beautiful the world is, you can see its self-confidence, wealth and beauty under its sky.
The second uncle is versatile, capable of writing and martial arts, and knows almost everything in life, he is full of unique skills and resourcefulness. Because of this, the neighbors often asked him to help with repairs, and he enjoyed it, often shining late into the night.
On the one hand, Uncle Deva is kind and helpful, and is ashamed to turn off his neighbor's requests;On the other hand, he can take pleasure in helping others, because his heart is enriched and his spirit is sublimated. That's why he takes care of himself and feels happy.
The life of the second uncle tells us several truths.
Everyone has their own way of life.
Everyone's life is almost predestined. Don't compare, don't blindly follow, don't make unrealistic demands. Maybe the starting point of someone else's life is the highest point of their own life, but we can't reach it. The most important thing is to live well.
Everyone can only see a part of the sky overhead.
We all know that"Sit in a well and watch the sky"story. Compared to frogs, we are not"Sit in a well and watch the sky"What about it?Only the gifted will have a bigger sky overhead;People who are mediocre will see a smaller sky.
Therefore, it is important to know yourself, and it is also important to know others. For those of you who look up to them, nothing is more important than that.
Everyone is at a crossroads.
Actually, everyone is desperate. In the process of rolling forward, everyone is stuck in the dilemma of moving forward. In real life, many decisions are not made by yourself, but you have to make them. For example, buying a house, buying a car, sending children to school, and so on.
Everyone will be at peace.
As the saying goes"Forty is not confused"。What does it mean to be forty not confused?In fact, when a person reaches the age of forty, he should no longer be entangled in confusion. At the age of forty, you should live clearly, love and hate clearly, and live to give up your troubles.
Everyone will return to calm. Even if it is"Second uncle", there must have been different views and opinions when you were young. So, while working hard, take care of yourself and your family. Don't give up everything to make money. Life is not only about work, but also about your own happiness and beauty.