After reading the 12 truths about human nature, I suddenly realized
In this disturbed world, the abyss of human nature is like an unfathomable ocean, sometimes calm and calm, sometimes stormy and mighty. Since ancient times, countless philosophers and writers have tried their best to think about it, but they have finally failed to grasp its essentials.
Today, borrowing the wisdom of the ancients, coupled with life experience, I will talk about one or two for the benefit of readers.
01, "Knowing people, knowing faces, but not knowing hearts".
As the saying goes, "knowing the face but not the heart" is just like the nocturnal ship, although it can guide the direction with the help of a lighthouse, it is difficult to perceive the undercurrent on the bottom of the sea. People are often accustomed to showing the good side in their interactions, and the hidden heart is where the real humanity lies. Like the deep ancient well, the water surface is as calm as a mirror, but who can glimpse the secret at the bottom?
02 "Money is the root of all evil."
It is often said that "money is the root of all evil", which is biased but not unreasonable. Money can ennoble or degenerate. The key is not in the money itself, but in how people use it. If you are driven by money, humanity will be lostIf you use money as a tool, you can make a career.
03 "Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. ”
Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. "This is the iron law of history. Power is like a double-edged sword, which can be used to do good and accumulate virtue, but also to do evil. The key lies in whether those in power have high moral character and firm convictions. Otherwise, power will become a poison that corrupts human nature.
04 "Everyone has a love for beauty. ”
The excessive pursuit of external beauty often makes people neglect the inner cultivation. True beauty comes from the goodness and purity of the heart. Appearance is just a skin, and it will eventually grow old;And the beauty of the heart is eternal.
05 "Don't forget the original intention, you have to always. ”
In the pursuit of fame and fortune, people often forget their original intentions. "Don't forget the original intention, you have to always. "Only by always keeping in mind your original intentions can you keep a clear head and firm beliefs in a complex world.
06 "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky".
People often quarrel over trivial things, "endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky". Sometimes, we need to learn to be tolerant and tolerant in order to resolve conflicts and maintain harmony.
07 "Filial piety comes first
Filial piety is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. No matter how the times change and how society develops, "filial piety" is always one of the important criteria for measuring a person's moral character.
08 "Those who don't believe in words can't do anything".
Integrity is the cornerstone of society. "He who does not believe in his word will not do it. "A society that lacks integrity is like an edifice without a foundation, which is in danger of collapsing at any time. Therefore, the word "letter" is as heavy as Mount Tai.
09 "The sea memory confidant, if the end of the world is next to each other".
Friendship is one of life's most valuable treasures. "The sea has a confidant, and the end of the world is like a neighbor". A true friend can lend a helping hand when you need it, comfort you when you're down, and share joy when you're successful. Such friendships are more precious than any material possessions.
10 "Asking what is the condition of the world, and teaching people to promise life and death."
Love is an eternal theme. "Ask what the situation in the world is, teach people to live and die." Love can make people feel the best moments of life as well as taste the most bitter tears. However, even if love is full of twists and turns and pain, people still flock to it and enjoy it. Because love itself is an irresistible ** and power.
11. "The road is long, and I will go up and down to seek."
The meaning of life lies in pursuit. "The road is long, and I will go up and down to seek." Only by constantly pursuing and exploring can we find the value and meaning of life. Whatever the outcome, the process itself is a valuable experience and an asset.
12 "If a man is not a sage, he is infallible."
This is true. There is an angel and a devil living in everyone's heart, and good and evil are only in a single thought. When we blame others from the moral high ground, have we ever thought about the dark corners of our hearts?Tolerance and understanding are the true meaning of human nature, after all, "do not do to others what you would not do to yourself".
The above is the 12 points of understanding of human nature. Of course, these are just the tip of the iceberg. The mysteries of human nature go far beyond this, and we need to spend our lives exploring and comprehending. I hope these realizations can bring you some inspiration and thoughts, so that we can continue to move forward and grow on the road of life together.
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