In modern society, men's preference for young and beautiful women seems to be a common phenomenon. However, the same mentality applies to women. Young vitality and attractiveness are always more attractive than decadence and laziness, and a youthful appearance can also give a sense of accomplishment. Today's society is more open, without the shackles of the past, and everyone has the right to pursue happiness. Age is never an obstacle between two people who love each other, and any difficulty can be overcome as long as both parties are willing.
In the final analysis, feelings are based on voluntariness, and modern people are more in pursuit of personal freedom, after all, our lives belong to us. For couples of different ages, people usually use the phrase "old cow eats tender grass", but this term is often only applicable to older male couples. When it comes to older couples with older women, people tend to be surprised and accompanied by some prejudices that the woman must be rich and the man is relegated to something like a little white face.
This bias also reveals the dilemma that women face in this situation. Men who pursue young women when they are old are often respected and blessed, but when it comes to women, people will always be a little suspicious. However, only those who have experienced it firsthand can understand the feeling of "old cows eating young grass". Here are the stories of three middle-aged women.
The first story is about 37-year-old Ms. Zhao. Her first paragraphMarriageVery unsuccessful and not very deep in relationship with her ex-husband. Ms. Zhao'sMarriageIt was arranged by the family, and the two of them only met four times, and it took only a month and a half before and after the marriage. Ms. Zhao found that her ex-husband had a lot of problems, smoking and drinking, and did not care about the feelings of others. He was also very contemptuous of Ms. Zhao, which made her feel inferior. Although Ms. Zhao had thought about divorce, she eventually chose to divorce and won the childCustody。After that, Ms. Zhao met her current husband, who was 10 years younger than her, and the two lived happily together.
The second story is about 35-year-old Ms. Li. She is a successful entrepreneur who owns her own company. Her love life is very simple. She last timeIn loveIt was in college, and later broke up because of a long-distance relationship. Ms. Li put her energy into her work and achieved great success. However, as a woman, she felt the need for someone to share her accomplishments and her life. She gradually found that she was more relaxed and happy with the male ** younger than herself. She believes that age is not an obstacle to loving each other, what matters is the tacit understanding and common interests between two people. She is currently in a relationship with a boyfriend who is 9 years younger than herself, and the two have a very good relationship.
The third story is about 39-year-old Ms. Wang. She is a divorced single mother with a child with her ex-husband. After the divorce, Ms. Wang spent a long time calmly reflecting on herselfMarriagereasons for failure, and gradually regained self-confidence. She rededicated herself to work and life, but she was never able to find a suitable partner. Eventually, she meets a man who is 6 years younger than her and discovers that he is a very mature and responsible person. Their relationship is stable and harmonious, they support and accompany each other, they decide to get married, and spend the rest of their lives together.
These stories fully prove that heterogeneity is not an uncommon thing, and that women have the right to pursue true love. People should be more open and tolerant, respect everyone's choices, and look at the relationship without prejudice. In love, age is just a number, what really matters is the affection between two people and mutual understanding and support. No matter when and where, we should stick to our happiness and pursue true love.