She: She has served a husband for 45 years, and chose to have an abortion in order not to affect the "harmony of the three", true love or absurd?
At the beginning, it was already bitter love.
At the end of the life of Liu Lili, the most box-office appeal female director in Taiwan, her 45-year love with a man finally came to fruition. This man is Dong Jinhu, a famous martial arts film director in Taiwan in the 80s. Liu Lili graduated from Taipei Municipal Engineering Cadre School, and was the most popular school flower in the school that year. In 1976, Qiong Yao founded a film and television company, and Liu Lili served as a deputy to the director in the crew. After getting acquainted, Qiong Yao asked her curiously: "You really can't find someone who makes your heart move?"Liu Lili smiled faintly: "I only have one heart, I want to keep it and give it to the most worthy person." ”
That person's name is Dong Jinhu, an alumnus who is two years older than her, and the first person to write a love letter to Liu Lili. The first love was frustrated, and Dong Jinhu felt lost. Not long after graduation, he married another younger sister, Wang Mei, who was much younger than him, and soon gave birth to a daughter. Liu Lili entered the film and drama circle and made scene notes, which is the lowest position in the director department. At that time, Dong Jinhu was also in the film and drama circle. Liu Lili was young and vigorous and offended people everywhere, so Dong Jinhu gave up the opportunity to become an assistant director and accompanied her to re-do the scene notes. Liu Lili was unwilling to remember the good years on the spot, Dong Jinhu saw it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart, as soon as there was a suitable new play, he ran to recommend it to the director: "Let Liu Lili go to it, she is very talented, she will definitely be able to shoot well!".Her heart gradually softened, and she began to seriously look at this man who had known him for almost 10 years, why didn't she find out his goodness before?Now, he even has a daughter. Liu Lili once ruthlessly gave up this relationship, but he was still chased back by Dong Jinhu, and the two lurked underground with a heavy sense of guilt, and once they lurked, it was 10 years.
The original match had a showdown with Liu Lili.
Once, Dong Jinhu filed for divorce from his original partner Wang Mei, and the 45-year-old Wang Mei was confused. In fact, over the years, she has always heard rumors about her husband and Liu Lili, but she can't believe it. Taking advantage of her husband's filming in the south, Wang Mei directly found Liu Lili for a showdown, wanting to save this marriage. Wang Mei began to tell about many small things after their marriage: in the refrigerator in the kitchen, there is always a cup of frozen lotus seed soup, because Dong Jinhu uses his voice too much during the day;At night, she had to turn on a small light for him, because he often slept in a daze. Once, when I woke up at night, I bumped my forehead ......Liu Lili was surprised, she had known each other for 10 years, and she had never paid attention to his little Xi. After half a day of heart-to-heart conversation, she said to Wang Mei: "You take care of him, I will go to Africa next week and never come back!."Three days after the "threesome", Wang Mei cried and called, it turned out that Dong Jinhu was hospitalized with a sudden heart attack while filming, and during the rescue process for three days and three nights, he kept shouting Liu Lili's name in his mouth. When the critical illness notice was placed in front of Wang Mei, she was scared and knew that Liu Lili was her husband's biggest concern, so she called ** to ......Two women, one on the left and one on the right, guarded the man by the bedside. This time, they had no resentment, and in the face of life and death, they all suddenly found that no matter how big their hatred was, it was not as important as keeping him alive. The critical illness notices were one after another, and Liu Lili took them, including the medical expenses, she knew that the Dong family was not wealthy, both old and young, and this illness was even more down. A few months later, when Dong Jinhu returned to Taipei from the south. Left and right by his side are the two women he loves most in this life. At the dinner table, Wang Mei pointed to Liu Lili and said to her eldest daughter: "Aunt Liu is better than her mother, from today on, you will call her a good mother!."Since then, the title of "good mother" has been passed from the eldest to the second, and then to the third, and has never changed. Because of physical reasons, Dong Jinhu was banned from filming by his family, and all the burden of supporting his family fell on Liu Lili. Every time Liu Lili goes home, Wang Mei will immediately pour a cup ......of tea, and she is not allowed to interfere in all houseworkIn 1982, Liu Lili had just finished filming a **, because he stayed up late all year round and suffered from neurasthenia. One night, Wang Mei pulled Dong Jinhu and started a conversation with Liu Lili, persuading her to have a child. Liu Lili smiled, pointed to the sleeping children and said, Isn't that my child, with them, I will be content. In fact, for the sake of harmony between the three people, she had an abortion in private. Since then, Liu Lili has devoted herself to her work, becoming the godmother of Qiong Yao dramas, and has made a lot of good films until she is 60 years old.
Dong Jinhu and Wang Mei.
The triumph of love or the rout of morality?
At the end of 2007, Liu Lili was admitted to the hospital because of his family's genetic disease, cerebellar atrophy. On September 5, 2010, after discussing with her children, Wang Mei solemnly proposed to her husband who had been with her for 55 years: "Let's divorce, she has been with you all her life, you must at least give her a name before her death, so that she can be Mrs. Dong justifiably!.""Within three days, the 55-year-old couple went through the divorce procedures at a rapid pace, and then there was the scene we saw at the beginning......What is surprising is that after the wedding in the ward, Liu Lili's condition has improved greatly, and he can go home and enjoy the joy of family after further stabilization.
Dong Jinhu's youngest son said in an interview, maybe my family is really dramatic and outsiders can't understand it, but I have never questioned why I have two mothers. For I am indeed happy, and my family is complete and peaceful!I'm grateful if the outside world can agree with what happened in this family, but if not. I don't dare to expect the outside world to be tolerant, after all, it's just our family affair.
In the trio dance of love and responsibility, they performed a "harmonious" symphony of love.
This article presents a sad love story, which runs through the ups and downs of the three protagonists and unusual life choices. First of all, Liu Lili's persistence and the experience of first love make people feel her pursuit of true love. She gave up Qiong Yao's career peak, chose to forbear and stick to the true love in her heart, and finally came together with Dong Jinhu in the ups and downs of the film and television industry. This process of frustration in first love, separation and reunion gave Liu Lili more life experience and thinking about love.
Secondly, the marriage crisis between Dong Jinhu and Wang Mei makes people deeply feel the impermanence of life. The original happy family is questioned under the traditional concept, and the dialogue between Wang Mei and Liu Lili shows the understanding and tolerance of the two women. Wang Mei told Liu Lili about the trivialities and stumbles in her marriage with a sincere voice, and this mature way of communication was moving. The "threesome" between the two women is not a struggle in the secular sense, but to protect a person they both love deeply.
What is even more touching is Liu Lili's experience of choosing abortion in order to maintain the "harmony of the three". This decision is both an insistence on love and a sacrifice for family harmony. In order not to affect the relationship between Dong Jinhu and Wang Mei, she chose a difficult and sad choice. This selfless dedication shows her sense of responsibility for family and love, and at the same time triggers readers to think deeply about ethics and morality.
Finally, through Dong Jinhu's illness and family changes, the author reveals the fragility and preciousness of life. In the face of life and death, Wang Mei and Liu Lili both showed their deep love for Dong Jinhu. Although divorce is a legal procedure, they acquiesce to each other's existence in their hearts. This non-formal view of love and understanding of family makes people feel a deep and peaceful emotional resonance.
Overall, the essay provokes the reader to think about love, family, and ethics through a vivid storyline. In the real world, we are often bound by traditional ideas and moral frameworks, but this article tells us through real life cases that love is not black and white, and family relationships can also vary from person to person. Perhaps, we can be more tolerant of different forms of love and family, and cherish every beautiful moment in life.
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