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Master Ji Xianlin said: Most people come to the world to make up the numbers. In order to eat a bite, I work hard every day, racking my brains and calculating all kinds of calculations, which is nothing more than to make my job a little bigger, in fact, it is no different from birds and animals.
If you insist on contribution, the biggest contribution is to pass on the lineage, so that the world has more to make up.
At first, everyone thought it was just a joke and no one cared. But I've reminded myself countless times that you have to look down on yourself when everyone looks down on you!
Heaven will not treat anyone who works quietly hard. If your dreams are not realized, you will always stay in the stage of dreaming and thinking. How can you succeed if you are afraid of failure?
Thomas Yuhua once said when he invented the mobile phone: I didn't fail, I just found 10,000 ways that didn't work.
I'm a programmer, but my main job is marketing. The book that had the biggest impact on me was called The Surrender Experiment, and it completely changed the way I did marketing.
I now find that other companies such as New Oriental can continue to develop, although not brought by this book, but the basic principles are similar to this book.
That is to say, as the helm of a business, you should not plan the product, but should contact more people to perceive the possible needs.
This path does not seem to have a definitive outcome, but it actually yields a lot of results. I've benefited so much in the past two years that I never design a product now.
Figure 1: In toxic cultures, people prove their wisdom by suppressing and belittling others. In a healthy culture, people use their wisdom to help others grow. Knowledge and expertise aren't meant to be wielded, they're resources to be shared.
Figure 2: Sincerity isn't about expressing every point you hold, it's about making sure that what you say reflects your values. If you value respect and kindness, then your comments should not be filled with contempt and cruelty. Your ideas are only worth sharing if they represent yours.
The resonance not only stems from the discussion of Lingling, but also extends to many issues on the Internet. If we love freedom, equality, and rights, expect people to have self-respect, self-love, and self-improvement, and are angry at the fact that ordinary people are being treated badly, their voices are ignored, their rights are not protected, and their personalities are not respected, then we need to respect, care and support each other, rather than using insults, belittlements and suppression to convey our views.
In my personal experience, I highly encourage every young person to spend a few years abroad and learn. The essence of education is nothing more than "being well-informed".
Then, spend five to ten years defining a direction of your own life, strive for it, persist for it, and work hard for ten or twenty years without stopping.
While some success depends on luck, sustained success has nothing to do with luck.
I hope that every young person who reads this book can reshape their minds, wash away the marks of pompousness and impatience that this era has imprinted on you, and persevere to the end like me in the marathon of life, never give up, and achieve final success.
A story tells through the goals of planning and execution
Some time ago, during the manager training, I listened to a vice president talk about how he used five minutes to explain the goals, planning and execution to his nine-year-old son.
The vice president's son is called Xiaoxin.
Xiaoxin's school requires 8:00 to arrive at school, and they usually arrive at 7:45, so they need to get up at 6:45 and go out at 7:35, and the road time is almost 10 minutes, but one morning they were ten minutes late.
Vice President: Do you think going out at 7:35 every day is a plan?
Xiaoxin: It's planning.
VP: No, think again?
Xiaoxin: That's the goal.
VP: That's right, that's a goal.
What is the goal?This is the result you want to achieve, and the goal is to be achieved by planning and execution.
What is Planning?It's just to get out on time, you put the things you have to do every morning, put them in a row, and arrange them well.
Normally, it takes 20 minutes to get dressed, brush your teeth, wash your face, and go to the toilet in the morning. Eat for 15 minutes and pack your bag for 5 minutes.
Xiaoxin said that there is also a redundancy, redundancy for 10 minutes, to prevent accidents.
It was 50 minutes in total, and it was no problem to wake up at 6:45. So, I went out 10 minutes late?Where is it late?
Then they began to analyze again: then it took 25 minutes to eat, all the redundancy was eaten, and it took 5 minutes to stay in bed, and it took 5 minutes to go to the toilet, so it took 10 minutes more.
Vice President: Do you think these are implementation issues or planning issues?
Xiaoxin: Getting up and going to the toilet is a matter of implementation, I can't lie in bed in the future, and I don't play with my mobile phone when I go to the toilet;But eating may be a matter of planning, 15 minutes is not enough for me to finish eating, maybe the meal will have to be changed to 20 minutes.
In this case, the alarm clock is changed to 6:40.
In order to achieve the goal, it is necessary to constantly adjust the planning and execution to achieve the goal.
Now nine-year-old dolls are so powerful.