In the work "Snail House", Song Siming has become the dream lover in the hearts of many girls, and some people even commented: "All women are eager to have a Song Siming". "Her beauty lies in her maturity and intellectuality, grace and gentleness, she is a man who makes people feel excited". But is this really the truth of the facts?Song Siming shows the characteristics of maturity and poisad, which is the mark of another woman who has been doing it for many years;She has her own career, her own love, and her own life, which are beyond the reach of others. Song Siming, who is cheerful and wealthy, provides money for the seaweed house, because Song Siming has wealth that far exceeds his profligacy. Seaweed is a name that can be easily misunderstood and misjudged. Judging from the original work "Snail House", Song Siming has never really fallen in love with seaweed.
1. From the beginning, I had no plans to marry Seaweed.
In the original work of "Snail House", such a point is described: "In the life of a man, he should always have a luxurious car, some close friends, and ......If it weren't for that, how much of a failure would his life have?"A woman has to find a good man for the rest of her life. In this sentence, Song Siming seemed to want to say but stopped talking ......In fact, he is a "lover". Seaweed is a type of cyanobacteria that grows in the depths of the deep seabed. Song Siming regarded seaweed as his "lover" from the beginning.
In the depths of Song Siming's heart, the red flag at home has always been standing, and those seaweeds are just colorful flags fluttering in the outside world.
Imagine how hypocritical and heartless it would be for a man to talk about love if he didn't plan to get married to the woman he loved from the beginning, and couldn't give her a chance to be free to fall in love under the sun, but still talked nonsense about love. However, there is such a woman in this world, and it took her whole life to find a career that belongs to her. I have to say that Song Siming's behavior is indeed a bit selfish. Regrettably, many girls are impressed by his generosity to seaweed, and even regard him as their idol. But they may not know that the reason why Song Siming is so generous is because he is not short of wealth, and what he really needs is a lover.
In the work "Snail House", Song Siming's true inner thoughts were revealed by a passage.
Capital markets have never been the exclusive domain of ordinary people in the first place. However, ordinary people can't get rid of the role of sparring either. You can only put in the effort gradually. Seaweed, maybe you can try a different way of life instead of following your sister's path. The world is inherently diverse, and all kinds of people have the opportunity to find their place. ”
Song Siming unabashedly hints to Seaweed that he can pursue his financial freedom by playing the role of "Little Three". If Song Siming really loves Seaweed, then he should respect her, properly handle his feelings with his wife, and marry her. In his opinion, Seaweed is a good woman. However, Song Siming never held such a view.
In Song Siming's view, what does seaweed represent?He loves seaweed because of the beauty of seaweed, the gentleness of seaweed, the kindness of seaweed, and the strong ...... of seaweedThese are the best compliments and compliments for seaweed. If a person is not a partner who supports and accompanies each other until old age, nor is he a wife who can share adversity and suffering, then what is the reason for his love for seaweed?His love for seaweed is too deep. As Haiping's mother said, the sentence goes straight to the core of the problem, there is no so-called free lunch in the world, and behind Song Siming's generosity, it is actually an exchange of body and mind. In order to satisfy Song Siming's lonely and empty heart, in fact, Song Siming's love is selfish, he doesn't really think about seaweed, he just takes into account his feelings.
Although he later asked Mark to bring seaweed and children to live abroad, this was mainly because seaweed was Song Siming's descendant, with the characteristics of "tiger poison does not eat seeds", providing a comfortable and comfortable living environment for seaweed and children, which was too simple for Song Siming, who had the ability to "call the wind and rain" at that time. He feels that his marriage should be like seaweed, never disturbed by external factors, so that he can get long-term happiness. However, when it comes to Song Siming's wife, Song Siming clearly distinguishes her from seaweed. Although he may no longer love his wife deeply, given his position in politics, he is determined not to choose divorce. This is just Song Siming's inner weakness and selfishness, and it is also a tragedy for the two women.
2. For Song Siming, seaweed is nothing more than an emotion he deeply longed for in college.
In Song Siming's college days, when he was just a young man from a poor family, he was deeply in love with the daughter of a university teacher.
As described in the original book "Snail House":
It was at the moment when Seaweed smiled that his soul suddenly returned to his college days. The poor young man silently fell in love with the daughter of a university teacher, but could not get her heart. He went through that youthful years when he had deep feelings but didn't dare to show it to her. At that time, he silently made a vow that as long as fate gave him another chance, he would have enough courage and strength to never miss this opportunity. ”
Indeed, seaweed provided him with a heaven-sent opportunity to compensate, and he waited for this special day for a full 20 years. From the depths of Song Siming's heart, he regarded Seaweed as a substitute for the university professor's daughter, because Seaweed's appearance and voice were very similar to the university professor's daughter, which made Song Siming have a strong interest in her.
As Eileen Chang once mentioned, every man may have experienced at least two such women. If I were a woman, I would choose to marry a man who has red and white roses, and I would marry his favorite. He married Red Rose, and over time, Red Rose turned into mosquito blood on the wall, and White Rose became"Bright moonlight in front of the bed"；He married a white rose, which was like a grain of rice sticky on his clothes, and the red rose was like a cinnabar mole on his chest.
For Song Siming, the daughter of a university professor has undoubtedly become the prince charming in his heart. She is so beautiful and lovely in the eyes of seaweed, so pure and noble, so fascinating, so fascinating. One day, Song Siming caught a deep and mysterious expression in the eyes of Seaweed, which made him feel as if he was back in college, just like seeing the daughter of a university professor, his heart was full of passion and excitement, like a former lover returning to him again. In this world, what he longs for most is to have a girl he loves, he hopes that his daughter will love her as much as he loves seaweed, and he hopes that seaweed can always love like this. However, is this really a deep love for seaweed?What does seaweed mean to him?In this deep love, in addition to enthusiasm and nostalgia, what other emotions are included?
3. In this world, Song Siming's most trusted person is still his wife.
In Song Siming's concept, a man's rationality is frightening, he regards his wife as his wife, and his lover as a lover. The wife is the angel of the woman, and the lover is the angel of the lover. My wife has always been a friend who has been with us in times of adversity and suffering. The wife is the jewel of the husband's palm. The charm of a lover is like a pet at home, "the golden house is hidden". In his opinion, women are the most reliable support for men. In the original work of "Snail House", Song Siming once expressed this opinion: "In this life, the only person I can fully trust is you." This sentence expresses the true meaning of marriage - love is to believe that one's heart is close to the heart of one's lover. Song Siming's words deeply expressed his deep trust in his wife. It was his choice and his luck to love seaweed. However, he does not hold such trust in seaweed. Is Seaweed's Love Real?What is true love?Seaweed says that love is a kind of support. We endure cold storms and thunder together, share the beauty of fog and rainbows together, and love not only what you stand for, but also the ground beneath your feet.
True love is built on deep trust. In his eyes, seaweed is his most important life. Entrusting your entire possessions and life to another person is a reassuring choice. "I know the heart of seaweed is in**. In the face of the scrutiny of the public security department, Song Siming is busy with his own affairs, and he cares more about his family than about his relationship with seaweed. Seaweed ** to him and told him that he was busy because Seaweed hadn't seen him in days.
So, in the depths of Song Siming's heart, what position does seaweed occupy?Is seaweed a man?He is both a lover and a third person, but not a real partner. Seaweed is a man's favorite, seaweed's feelings and love can be measured by life, seaweed is all a man's all. For women, the most sincere desire of men is undoubtedly to marry themselves. If he doesn't, the seaweed will be abandoned!But Song Siming doesn't have it, if you call him a person who has nothing and nothing, will he still have such a strong attraction to seaweed?He gave Seaweed money, and what would he let Seaweed pursue?He can't pay the money for Seaweed, but will he still be an idol in the hearts of many girls?
As the saying goes, a man is so generous because he has far more than he spends. The beauty and nobility of seaweed lies in its unique and magical power. The sad truth is that Song Siming never really fell in love with seaweed.