Recently, I saw such an incident, which is about a 39-year-old Shenyang eldest brother, who wears three hats, driving online car-hailing during the day, delivering food at night, and selling and installing bathroom products in his spare time. It can be seen that the big brother lives very hard. We don't know why he worked so hard, but you can imagine that his life must have been very stressful. Recently, Renri issued an article praising this big brother: The work has fallen, and the days have been rushing.
When we were growing up, we all seemed to have written essays on the theme of "suffering", and the content was almost the same, always looking for a few celebrities as examples of success after suffering. We have been taught that suffering is a precious wealth in life, because suffering has achieved the success of many people. At that time, we were complacent, and we felt that suffering was indeed worthy of praise. However, when we started a family and had children of our own, we found that the essays written by our children were similar to those we wrote when we were children. It seems that everyone has embraced a similar notion of seeing suffering as wealth.
This habitual thinking spreads among the crowd, and if everyone is Xi to suffering, then suffering will slowly become a virtue. Especially in the pen of **, enduring hardship seems to be a supreme glorious existence. However, sometimes people who are too able to endure hardship tend to face more suffering. I uphold the original intention of "speaking human words and telling the truth", but I just hope that people can look at life more soberly.
In general, this phenomenon of Xi suffering is not a good phenomenon. Especially when distorting an otherwise sad thing into "positive energy", people are Xi to it, which is terrible. Therefore, we need to look at life more prudently, and we cannot blindly pursue hardship and ignore the beauty and happiness in life.
I know that there is nothing to celebrate in suffering itself, it only brings humiliation, torture and endless suffering. We don't want to go through hardship, but if there is a better choice, who wants to be like the big brother in Shenyang, who works three jobs at the same time and works every day. The suffering they have endured is not a capital to be proud of, nor is it a badge to show off.
For us ordinary people, suffering is not wealth, not something to be celebrated. What we need is better choices, and what we need is a future full of hope and opportunity.