Low self-esteem is a self-deprecating state of mind, which manifests itself in a negative attitude towards one's abilities, values, appearance, etc. Narcissism is a state of mind of self-appreciation, self-boasting, which manifests itself in a positive attitude towards one's abilities, values, appearance, etc.
Low self-esteem and narcissism seem to be two completely opposite psychological states, but in fact they are inextricably linked. People with low self-esteem often compensate for their inferiority complex through narcissism, and they will elevate themselves by exaggerating their own strengths and belittling the shortcomings of others in order to gain psychological satisfaction.
Low self-esteem and narcissism are both unhealthy psychological states that can adversely affect a person's physical and mental health. People with low self-esteem tend to lack self-confidence, dare not face challenges, and are prone to withdrawing from interpersonal interactions. Narcissistic people tend to be overly self-aggrandized, have no one in their sights, disrespect others, and are prone to contradictions and even conflicts in interpersonal interactions.
So why do people with low self-esteem tend to be the most narcissistic?
Psychologists believe that people with low self-esteem exhibit narcissistic behavior because they are insecure deep down. They need to make up for the emptiness and insecurity within themselves by exaggerating their strengths and achievements in order to gain the approval and appreciation of others.
In the process of growing up with low self-esteem, people may have experienced some unpleasant experiences, such as being neglected, being bullied, etc. These experiences make them doubt and distrust themselves, and they feel that they are not worthy of love and respect. Therefore, they try to hide their inferiority complex through narcissism and seek inner satisfaction and security.
People with low self-esteem often have a hard time realizing their problems, and they will think that their narcissism is normal and a sign of self-confidence. Only when they can face up to their inferiority complex and actively seek help can they get out of their inferiority complex and gain true self-confidence.
Therefore, when we see a person with low self-esteem who is narcissistic, we should give them encouragement and support to help them increase their self-confidence. Only in this way can they get rid of their low self-esteem and become a confident person.