Love is not a business, it is not something we are willing to do, love is a matter of two people, and it can be carried out well on the premise of respecting each other and liking oneself.
If two people love each other, if love is no longer beautiful, but has become a mutual consumption, each other's fate will be over, no matter how nostalgic you are, don't continue.
When both of them are done playing, they can only do that.
and no longer miss each other.
When I went out with Xiaorui before, her mobile phone always rang non-stop, needless to say, everyone knew that her boyfriend called to check the doorman's **, and of course it was also a proof of their love.
Every time she is with Xiaorui, when she is separated, she will call her boyfriend ** and ask him what he is doing, if he wants to pack delicious food and go home to eat together.
Later, I don't know when it began, Xiao Rui no longer seemed to care about what her boyfriend was doing, no longer asked for warmth, and no longer did the conjoined baby we all despised like before.
Her boyfriend's behavior is more funny, deleting all of Rui's mutual friends.
Later, we learned that the two of them broke up, and there were signs when the relationship came to an end, and they would no longer continue to care about each other from the beginning.
When you go out, don't ask the other person if it's okay;If you have been separated for too long, you won't miss each other's whereabouts, and you won't stick to each other's confiding thoughts.
The fact that two people no longer miss each other shows that in their respective worlds, the other person is no longer so important.
Second, when getting along, no longer care about the other person's feelings.
Sometimes love is very simple, when you cry, I know why you cry, and I am willing to cry with you;When you're happy, I'll see you happy, because you're happy, and you're happier.
To like someone is to do more things that the other person likes;Don't do things that others hate.
On the other hand, if two people are destined to stop liking each other, then they naturally do not consider each other's feelings.
Just like Xiao Jun and Xiao Hong are together, he recognizes Xiao Hong's talent very much, and will automatically cut off his interactions with Xiao Hong and other members of the opposite sex, naturally, Xiao Hong does the same, no matter how many times he experiences it in the emotional world, he regards Xiao Jun as his only one.
Later, the relationship between the two deteriorated, and each had a new love, even in front of each other's old love, there was no restraint at all.
Maybe you don't care about your ex's feelings. It could also be for revenge, to hurt the hearts of those you once loved.
All in all, if you don't love, you don't need to be led away by the other party's emotions, and when the fate of two people is over, the other person's feelings are not so important.
Give up love and accept other possibilities.
I've heard a saying:
Love doesn't disappear, it only shifts, and if a person can't pour love out on you, it will inevitably shift the heart to someone else.
When the fate of two people is over, they will try to get out of their comfort zone and accept other possibilities, because the love in front of them is no longer able to turn back.
As I said to my reader Ah Fei, Ah Fei used to treat his girlfriend as his own world, and when his girlfriend sneezed, Ah Fei was nervous for a long timeIn order to give his girlfriend enough security, Ah Fei deleted all the friends of the opposite sex in the address book of his mobile phone.
But Ah Fei found that he was no longer in love, and there was no way to continue to keep his girlfriend's body.
He met a woman who could bring waves to his heart, accepted the woman's initiative, and wanted to break up with his girlfriend.
When two people fall in love, they want to be together and spend all their time with the person they love. But if you don't love anymore, you'll take back all your heart and try to manage a new love.