Many people on Douyin, Kuaishou, and Xiaohongshu have high looks and good family backgrounds, and many people will have the illusion that there are many rich people. In fact, it's just that the Internet has amplified the voice of the rich, and the vast majority of people in this world are actually ordinary people.
If you have a pair of parents who both work in the system, in fact, you are far ahead of 90% of Chinese, dual-income families, in fact, is the top match of ordinary people, so, do you say that the family situation is good?
It is really not an exaggeration to say that wealthy families are wealthy families in the system. I don't believe you look at the friends around you, but as long as the parents are dual-income workers in the system, the little life is good!After all, in recent years, many workers have lamented that they are 30 years old and have worked hard in the workplace for several years, but the monthly salary is not as high as the retirement salary that their parents in the system have just retired.
Why are parents in the system relatively the most comfortable in life?Because they are the elite class that has been screened out, they can enter the units within the system, and their parents are basically all with a technical secondary school degree or above, and they can have a technical secondary school degree or above in that era, which has surpassed many people, not to mention that because of the implementation of the family planning policy, they can only raise one child, and they can only carefully cultivate this one child. There are also a series of policies such as subdivision of units, and they have caught up with the dividends of the times. Another point is that they did not contribute much to the pension when they were young, but they enjoy a high pension after retirement.
Do you think they're cool?
The most typical case, Jiangxi Zhou Gongzi, his parents are both employees in the system, and his father is a section-level cadre, and he has a vacant position at the deputy department level. If you look at him, he has seven apartments and two shops in a provincial capital. If you calculate that these things add up, there are more than 10 million or 20 million assets, right?
Take a look at his quotes:
I'm afraid that you can study, graduate students from prestigious universities, don't think it's so easy to get into my unit. You, who relied on your own ability to read back then, looked down on us who relied on our parents, hehe, society will teach him.
Without looking at this strange case, let's talk about ordinary people, what does it mean for parents to be employees in the system?
First, the problem of eating
The people regard food as the sky, and eating is the top priority.
Parents are employees in the system, so basically eat the canteen every day on weekdays, and it is difficult for the family, and the children can not go to the canteen to eat and drink at every turn when they are young, and they can save a lot of money for eating, and they can eat healthy and rest assured. Many canteens also provide take-out, pre-made dishes and other services.
Many units also offer services such as bathhouses, so you don't have to spend money to take a bath. You said, for example, in the southern region, many petrochemical plant workers have heating in their own houses, which is far ahead of the curve by decades.
Second, the housing problem
The parents' generation lived in the dormitory, welfare room, sub-room, and ** room of the unit, and there was a supporting unit kindergarten when the child was young. Back then, when we caught up with the house, many families were able to get a house, and if they couldn't get a house, there were also ** houses, welfare housing, compensation and so on.
Now sitting on so many properties, do you say that the cow is broken?Think about Zhou Gongzi wow
Not to mention, the income of employees in the system is stable, and in the past, loans to buy houses were all kinds of happy loans. I have a second-generation classmate who once bluntly said: Civil servants, isn't it just a house. His parents are both civil servants, in my hometown of the third-tier city, that is, middle-level cadres, but all kinds of upside-down houses. Later, he came back from the UK after graduating with a master's degree, came to Shanghai to work, and bought a house when he got the qualification. With the full support of his parents, they sold 6 houses in their hometown in one go and helped him pay 80% of the down payment.
3. Career development.
Although the vast majority of employees in the system have not reached leadership positions, those who can mix up with the middle level and above, which day is uncomfortable?Those who are not mixed with the middle class, now about 50 years old, they live a leisurely life?
Many of my dad's classmates, when they were young, were a small civil servant, don't be busy every day, and now they are about to retire, even in what street and township, the rank is a first-level chief clerk (department level plus), and some are mixed with a fourth-level researcher (deputy department level), and there is not much life every day, and there is more money, isn't it beautiful!
Many of my friends, classmates, and colleagues, as long as they are children from dual-income families in the system, many of them have studied abroad, and many of them have good grades and have been admitted to good universities!
Children from dual-income families have confidence!
In fact, if you say a thousand things and ten thousand, it is most true to take yourself as an example.
My single-worker family was hesitant to buy a house, but I missed the opportunity. Although I am lucky that I don't need to be old, I still need the help of my parents to buy a house.
Do you think it's because I don't want to buy a house early?It's not hesitation, if my parents are both dual-income workers, I can also rest assured to buy a house. I have so much money at home, if I buy a house, what will I do in the future?This kind of thinking has been holding me back, and then I watched the housing prices in Dalian rise gradually.
My colleague, if he is a dual-income family, basically once he comes to work in Dalian, the down payment for a house can be easily arranged. Some even arrange more than two houses. Isn't it rich if you buy a house for one or two million?
Many of my junior high school classmates, whose parents are dual-income workers, can afford their children to study abroadIf you don't have good grades, you can also learn art, broadcasting and hosting, and the like. Friends who have studied art know that this thing burns a lot of money.
Many of my high school classmates had good grades and were admitted from the counties below. Parents work at home on the farm or outside the home. Their college entrance examination scores are also good, generally more than one, and many of them have taken more than 211.
The result?
Just like the Jiangxi Internet celebrity Zhou Gongzi said, he is not the second generation of part-time workers, he is floating in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and he can't afford to buy a house.
After all, we are all ordinary people, and if we are a problem solver in a small town, we can just do questions. Some wise ones returned home early and took the exam, the girls took the teacher exam, and the career editors easily became sought-after items on blind dates, and they married well.
Those who are still fighting in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, unless a few people with outstanding intelligence have studied all the way to graduate school and counterattacked, and one of them has entered the Red Circle Institute. But so what?The imprint of the original family is too deep, she is the eldest in the family, she has a younger brother and sister, her younger brother and sister go to college, and after graduation, she also helps her younger brother and sister find a job, and her younger brother and sister go back to their hometown city, and her parents are farming, and they can't give much support, she is trying to save a down payment for her younger brother and a dowry for her sister, and she has saved hundreds of thousands in recent years, almost millions, but in Beijing, is it enough to buy a house?
But parents are dual-income workers in the system, and they are basically strong foreign aid from their children