Our Days takes time to reconcile with oneself and needs a way to express emotions correctly

Mondo Education Updated on 2024-01-29

A real person suddenly vanished.

His mother was taken to the hospital with anxiety, while his father turned gray overnight, and even his enemies, who had disowned him, secretly went to the police station to inquire about it. What the hell is all this going on? People have denied both the fact that Yang Siyu was kidnapped, and the fact that he ran away from home out of anger, and everyone is speculating that he may have gone to **?

Yang Siyu disappeared inexplicably, which not only frightened his friends, but also confused everyone. His parents are both working in the field, how did he get to school? Despite the fact that the university is about to start, he still has the greatest expectations for this university, only to find that he has lost his way, which is contrary to common sense.

He really enjoys spending time with his friends and is also deeply in love with his parents. Although he has many unpleasant memories as a child, now he has gone through the storm of voluntary choice and has decided to stay with his parents.

Although both of his parents were unemployed, he started a real estate company. Even though he is still the young heir of the Yang family, with endless wealth and endless happiness, all of this comes to a sudden halt that is completely unexpected, taking people by surprise.

As the time of the disappearance gradually increases, a possibility becomes more and more clear, which is not only known to the mother, but also to the father's heart, and Xuehua's parents are also insiders.

However, this matter may involve a deep hatred between the previous generation, and if it is made public, Yang Siyu's future will be shrouded in a dark shadow that cannot be erased.

The name Lin Junsheng was seen as taboo in the Yang family and occupied an important place in shame, but there was a deep bond between him and Yang Siyu.

Indeed, there is a biological father-son connection between them. He is also clear about this truth, but he neither wants to admit it nor accept it.

I really didn't want to leave my father. Frankly, I've hated him since I was a kid. Because of him, I was beaten and no one wanted to play with me. It is only now that I truly appreciate his hardships. Whether he's a hooligan or a murderer, I won't choose to leave him if the whole world abandons him. ”

This sentence was said by Yang Siyu to his friends, however, everyone mistakenly thought that he had grown up and learned to express gratitude to his parents. He said that he was a very lucky child because he had a very happy family. However, no one knows exactly how much courage he had to accumulate to say this.

From hatred for a person, to affection for a person, to being completely unrelated to the person, every emotional shift can consume all the courage that a teenager possesses.

Regrettably, he was surrounded by a lack of people who were willing to share their inner feelings, which confused his peers, and adults struggled to hide this fact. This fact was like a huge mountain, constantly oppressing his immature mind.

Due to his mother's cover-up, his adoptive father's fawning and his biological father's firm pursuit, Yang Siyu almost lost his mind, and the people around him were persecuting him, and everyone was unwilling to let him go.

With a bang, his brain went completely blank and it was pitch black in front of him, as if he was trapped by a black hole, or more accurately, a black hole provided him with shelter.

Finally having free time, no longer having to face everything and no longer putting pressure on yourself. He can choose to give up, but never give up his most important thing - family and love. Yang Siyu knows that even if his biological father unreservedly reveals his background, he will never abandon his parents. Over the past dozen years, his care and care for his parents has been so deep that even blood ties cannot be erased.

Despite this, he is still just an 18-year-old teenager and does not have enough time to look forward to his future. He has finally reconciled with the misfortunes of his childhood, but now he is facing a new dilemma, and perhaps disappearing is also a good option.

At least he doesn't have to behave badly in front of his beloved friends, and he doesn't have to live in gossip that doesn't sound good. He is like a turtle, trapped in a huge shell, with no ears aware of the outside world, and his only purpose is to escape disaster.

Dongfang Hong secretly listened to the content of "Golden Vase Plum".

Dongfang Hong had a deep affection for Xuehua before the age of 18, but after the age of 18, his dependence on Xuehua has undergone a fundamental transformation.

In the past, as long as the snowflakes fell, he could follow like a little tail, neither being bullied nor courageous. He loved snowflakes, her beauty and gentleness, and everything about her. Now, his perception of snowflakes has changed, both in the eyes of men and on women, and in their feelings for their loved ones.

In particular, his mother specifically told him that going to college meant that he could start a relationship, and emphasized that Snowflake had to be her daughter-in-law.

At that particular moment, he seemed to suddenly realize that if he wanted to be with Snowflake for a long time, then there must be a reasonable reason, whether it was a lover or a couple, it was his only choice.

Dongfang Hong took action, he deliberately chose an expensive coffee shop, and prepared roses for it to represent love, and even Xi he practiced the lines of confession many times in advance.

It is a pity that King Xiang is a sentient person, while the goddess is a heartless person.

Snowflake expresses his displeasure with his squandering of money from the beginning and invites two other friends. Now the situation has become more complicated, not only dating and confession, but even the bouquet of roses is so frightened that he hides under the sofa cushions.

Dongfang Hong became more sensitive in this defeat. Even though they had been playmates for many years, he couldn't stand the presence of other people in Snowflake's eyes. Even if he plays the king of his daughter's country or plays the game of playing Tang Seng, he can't stand it.

The essence of feelings is like this, the more you can't get it, the more itchy it is.

For the purpose of "learning from the scriptures", he traveled all over the house, and finally found the tape of "Golden Vase Plum" that his father treasured. Still, he was nervous. When he heard the words "Golden Lotus", he hurriedly pressed the button, and even almost pressed the button of the radio to fly.

However, the name "Golden Lotus" has been deeply engraved in his memory. When she is alone with Snowflake, she will involuntarily stare at Snowflake's face and neck, and even involuntarily get closer, and deep down he really wants to kiss her.

While it does contain adolescent impulses, it's more of a desire for love, and he's desperate to have a snowflake and leave his mark on it. Snowflake grew up in the world of snowflakes, but she didn't realize that she had grown up. He knows that before the snowflakes melt, as long as he dares to take a step, he will definitely be hit, but true love is often not determined by people.

Dongfang Hong is conflicted in his heart, he can bear Xuehua's refusal to admit that he is his boyfriend, but he can't stand Xuehua's naivety desire to introduce him to other girls; Not to mention seeing the snowflakes, her heart was full of thoughts for Yang Siyu.

Snowflake sits on the playground immersed in the thought of others, while he stands on the steps, affectionately thinking about the person who has been thinking about others. Snowflake's longing is lonely, but his longing is sweet. Love seems to have a chain of life, but Dongfang Hong unfortunately stands at the bottom.

Children in adolescence are like a bunch of "outliers".

Yang Siyu is really lucky, maybe when he was still a mother, his father had already realized that he was not his biological child.

However, fate was really ingenious, and as soon as he was born, the state forbade him to have a second child. So, he had to give birth to a boy in his hometown. Whether it was because of helplessness or because of his parents' marriage, he became the only child of the Yang family.

Deeply loving the only love of your parents, holding your hands in the palm of your hand for fear of falling, and holding your mouth in your mouth for fear of melting, this is both a blessing and a blessing.

However, he also suffered misfortune, because the law could not influence him because of the factor of blood. His mother and father had two sons when they were married, and his older brother and younger brother were of different types. If both parents have blood type B, how can it be possible to give birth to a child with blood type A, and if you don't want to admit it, what does it matter?

There is no doubt about the fact that Yang Siyu is not Yang Dashan's biological son.

From the moment he learned the truth, his heart seemed to be locked by a lock, a lock of his heart that no one else could enter, and he did not want to open.

There was a time when he had considered using time to downplay everything, because he had come to cherish what he had now. However, his biological father did not intend to let go, but stopped him on the road and made it undisguised that the father-son relationship between them was clear. Although he repeatedly emphasized that he only recognized Yang Dashan as his father, his heart was still chaotic.

In fact, he is innocent about his background. While seeking an explanation in front of your parents may hurt your family's feelings, it's far better to express something verbally than to suppress it inwardly; You can also share your thoughts with people you trust, at least without getting too caught up in your own little things, after all, life is still so long that there can be no stagnation.

Still, he resisted his urge to go out and home on time as usual, as if everything was normal. But when his body is destroyed, he is like an erupting mass of magma, able to quickly devour everything, break his sanity, and go to extremes.

Dongfang Hong had many opportunities to express his emotions, but either he wasn't ready or was interrupted. He said he wanted to be a man, not a woman. Despite this, he is wary of both men and women, especially showing a strong curiosity about women's bodies and wanting to experience them further.

However, the blurred lines between men and women seem unfair, and even though they have been dating for more than a decade, their minds are all about how to eliminate themselves completely, as if they were a wolf by their side.

He is even more afraid of rejection, he doesn't even have the opportunity to be friends, he is not satisfied even if he takes a step back, he is in a dilemma, and at the same time he is very sensitive and vulnerable, and he also feels conflicted about love, like torture in water and fire.

Similarly, even if Yang Siyu was in a car accident and was hidden by his biological father, as an independent thinker, he still has ample opportunities and ways to get in touch with his parents, at least to ensure his own safety, so that there will be no "disappearance" in his life record.

Seneca once said, "Youth is not just a stage in life, it also represents a state of mind." ”

During adolescence, children do have a significant increase in intelligence, but emotionally, they are more prone to breakdowns and escapism.

They are like a group of "monsters", reluctant to show their emotions easily, and sometimes even seem a little rebellious and willful. They don't want to be ridiculed, blamed, misunderstood, ridiculed, or ridiculed. But in fact, during this period, what they most crave is someone to accompany and confide in, whether they are scolded or crying, as long as their hearts are full of emotions, then they are still the most lovable people.

Yang Siyu needs a while to reconcile with himself, while Dongfang Hong needs a suitable way to express his feelings accurately. Adolescence is a critical period for a person to mature and an important period for a person to grow into an independent individual. If adolescence is properly run-in, then it will undoubtedly become the most dazzling stage of life.

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