In an interview, the reporter asked Guo Aiming: If you were asked to choose again, would you be a Hong Kong sister or an engineer?
But she replied, "I choose a housewife."
After 25 years of marriage, 55-year-old she and 59-year-old **Yun are still as sweet as their first love, no wonder she will answer "I choose a housewife" without hesitation.
Looking at the happy and sweet husband and wife now, it is difficult for us to imagine: this marriage was the least favored by the outside world at first.
Because both in appearance and education, the two are very different.
In 1991, Guo Aiming, who had obtained a double master's degree in the United States, returned to Hong Kong for a vacation and signed up for the Miss Hong Kong election.
On the stage, she was confident and generous, and finally defeated Cai Shaofen, the most popular at the time, and won the championship in one fell swoop, becoming the most educated Hong Kong sister in Hong Kong history.
In the same year, he signed a contract with TVB and officially entered the showbiz.
After signing the contract, he became the target of TVB's support, and it was smooth sailing as soon as he debuted.
Compared with her, ** Yun's life experience is obviously much more tortuous.
* Yun was born in an ordinary family, and his father was very strict with his education, and over time, he developed an introverted character.
After graduating from junior high school, he stopped going to school and found a job as a postman. But he always felt that something seemed to be missing from this kind of life.
When he was 19 years old, he saw an advertisement for TVB to recruit artists, so he told his father. But he looked mediocre, but he never had the courage to sign up.
With his father's support and encouragement, he decided to go brave. Fortunately, he successfully passed the exam and became classmates with Carina Lau, Wu Qihua and others.
After the completion of the training class, because he did not have an excellent appearance, he could only play tricks in various crews. Nearly 10 years of running tricks has allowed him to taste the warmth and coldness of human affection.
When his classmates began to become popular one by one, he remained unknown. But he was really unwilling to give up like this, so he worked even harder to film. He is not picky about any role, and he has no complaints even if he has no lines.
In order to have more opportunities to act, **Yun honed his acting skills again and again, and did his best to perform every role.
In addition to filming, he did not forget to enrich his knowledge, in addition to reading relevant books, he also observed the acting skills of others. In 1992, Wei Jiahui invited him to play the role of Fang Zhanbo in "The Great Era", and he also got acquainted with Guo Aiming.
Although the two have a lot of dialogue in the play, they don't communicate much in private. Despite this, ** Yun still has a heart of admiration for the down-and-out and generous Guo Aiming.
But the two are very different from each other in terms of appearance, education, and family conditions. He could only hide this feeling in his heart and didn't say it until the end of the shooting.
* Clouds thought they would miss it. Unexpectedly, God favored him again.
In 1994, Zhou Huimin held a concert and invited them to be guests at the same time, and the two reunited again.
What is surprising is that the two who had never communicated on the set before, but they had a good conversation this time.
After the concert, **Yun always couldn't help but think of Guo Aiming, but he never dared to confess to her because of his inferiority complex.
As time passed, the longing became more and more intense, and love finally triumphed over inferiority.
He plucked up the courage to call Guo Aiming's ** and asked her out to meet, but the confession process was quite dramatic.
Because he didn't have a car, he asked Guo Aiming to drive to pick him up. Subsequently, the two went to Tsim Sha Tsui together. On the way, Guo Aiming asked him: Why are you asking me to come out?
He replied very directly: I want to see you.
After hearing his words, Guo Aiming was directly stunned, and then blushed. Looking at the beautiful girl with a shy face in front of her, **Yunle blossomed.
He thought: The girl in front of him should have a good impression of himself. This gave him a boost of confidence.
After that, as long as there is time, **Yun will ask Guo Aiming to come out. In just three days, ** Yun hugged the beauty.
At that time, it seemed to have become an unwritten rule in the circle for previous Hong Kong sisters to marry into wealthy families, but Guo Aiming was different.
She chose an ordinary-looking, dark, moneyless and powerless Yun.
Therefore, after the relationship was made public, there were few blessings. Some people say that **cloud with Guo Aiming is "black chocolate with white cream", and some people say "leprosy** with white swan".
In this regard, **Yun responded generously: People go to high places, I just like her, and I want to be with her.
After being together, the ** cloud, which was already a little wooden, became more shy. On the set, unless necessary, there is never too much intersection with the actresses in the same crew.
4 years later, ** Yun proposed to Guo Aiming on the plane, and he gave Guo Aiming two choices: either marry him or he jump off the plane.
Guo Aiming was amused by the domineering behavior in front of him, and obediently put on the ring.
3 days before the wedding, ** Yun was filming "True Hero" in Thailand, and there was a dangerous scene at that time, and there was a possibility of injury at any time.
He nervously explained to screenwriter You Naihai: If something really happens to me, I must be sent back to Hong Kong, and I want to tell Guo Aiming that I was really injured and did not deliberately miss the wedding.
Luckily, he returned safely and the wedding took place as scheduled.
After the two were together, ** Yun worked hard to save money for filming, just to give her beloved an unforgettable wedding, and he did it.
He took out all his savings and spent millions of Hong Kong dollars to hold a grand wedding, and the bride's wedding dress alone was inlaid with 13,999 crystals.
At the wedding, the reporter asked **Yun what he liked about Guo Aiming, and he said with a stupid smile: I like her to read more books than me, and she will know many things that I don't know.
When the reporter threw this question to Guo Aiming again, he hurriedly answered: She likes me to read less books than her.
The people around him laughed after hearing this, and he carefully cared for his wife in his arms from beginning to end.
After marriage, Guo Aiming gave up his prosperous career, was willing to be the woman behind the ** cloud, and supported him wholeheartedly.
His wife's dedication, **Yun has always seen it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart, he is very grateful to his wife and gave up his dream for him.
In 2015, ** Yun won the Academy Award for Best Actor with "Eavesdropping 3". On the podium, he affectionately confessed to his wife: Every time I drive a spaceship and don't know how to fly to the universe, you always have a way to let me return to Earth safely.
These words not only brought tears to the eyes of his wife Guo Aiming, but also touched countless viewers in front of the TV.
The two have been married for 25 years and have never had any scandals, but in the eyes of many people, they do not meet the criteria for a perfect marriage because they have no children.
* Yun believes that as long as they are closely dependent on each other, the home is complete.
They cherish each other, and in the chaotic city, they have always maintained each other's original intentions, even if there is no bond of children, this relationship will never deteriorate.
In the complicated entertainment industry, such a relationship is really rare, and **Yun is a well-known wife slave.
Outside of work, he never participates in socializing or dining, and goes home every day after work to guard his wife, rub her shoulders and cook.
Although the two will also quarrel over trivial matters, **Yun will always deliberately admit defeat and control the time of the quarrel within five seconds. He said: Because it is easier to lose an argument than to lose her.
This is the simplest reason that speaks the truest love.
Many people say that a woman is a princess only on the day she gets married, and the days to come are only hard. But their story tells us that marrying the right person, whether before or after marriage, can be a princess. What do you think?