Lu Yu asked Yang Lijuan on the show: "If you can start over, will you still chase stars?"Yang Lijuan replied: "I already regret it and will not do it again." ”
There was a heartbreaking scene at Andy Lau's concert, where an old man with a haggard face grabbed the staff member's hand tightly and asked his daughter to see Andy Lau.
* rushed to the scene, and after seeing this scene, they all rushed forward. The old man told them that his daughter had bankrupted the family in order to chase Andy Lau.
* After hearing the news at the scene, they were shocked, and then Andy Lau met with Yang Lijuan, the daughter of the old man, under the guidance of the staff, and left a group photo.
The old man thought that his daughter had fulfilled her dream and would not make any more excessive demands. However, after Yang Lijuan returned home, she complained: "I only saw it for dozens of seconds, and I haven't had time to say a few words to my idol, I want to see you again." ”
This sentence was like a thunderclap, instantly hitting the old man's heart, and the old man understood that it was a bottomless pit, and he no longer wanted to endure the torture of his daughter.
Soon after, ** received a report that an elderly man was found drowning in nearby waters, and it was confirmed that it was Yang Lijuan's father. He was dying when he was rescued, and was pronounced dead after resuscitation efforts failed.
What is the reason why Yang Lijuan is so persistent in chasing stars and even forcing her father into a desperate situation?To understand this, we need to go back to her early childhood. Yang Lijuan's parents are intellectuals, but the way they treat their children is overly doting.
Yang Lijuan is the only child born to her parents at an advanced age, so she has been endlessly pampered and cared for by her parents. She was always able to meet her parents' requests, because in her heart, these efforts were taken for granted, and she never felt the need to repay them.
Her parents mistakenly thought that this was loving their daughter, but spoiling was not true love, but a kind of harm.
Yang Lijuan has reached the age of middle school, but due to the influence of this education method, she still does not know how to wash clothes by herself, does not know how to make beds, and even has to be brought to her mother when she eats. When there is a conflict with her classmates, regardless of whether she is at fault or not, her parents always blindly protect their daughter.
When Yang Lijuan was 14 years old, like many girls, she also began to be fascinated by idol stars, and the idol she was obsessed with was Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan bought a large number of Andy Lau's records and posters, and pasted the room full of Andy Lau's posters. At first, the father felt that there was nothing wrong with his daughter chasing stars, and he always supported her.
However, he never expected that Yang Lijuan would become so crazy, she often held Andy Lau's poster for a whole morning, and even stopped going to school, just staying at home every day and immersing herself in Andy Lau's **.
One day, she told her father that she wanted to quit school, she didn't want to go to school anymore, and she was going to find Andy Lau. She said that she had a dream in which Andy Lau told her that she wanted to be with her, so she was convinced that Andy Lau was her true destiny. She vowed to marry only Andy Lau for the rest of her life.
Her father didn't agree with her dropping out of school at first, but Yang Lijuan cried and made a fuss at home, she forced her father on a hunger strike, and her father, who loved his daughter, agreed.
After dropping out of school, Yang Lijuan was bent on going to Hong Kong to see Andy Lau, she opened her mouth to ask her father for money, at that time her parents did not have a lot of salary, in order to give their daughter a good life, almost every month's salary was spent, and there was no savings at all.
Despite doting on Yang Lijuan's father, he agreed to his daughter's request, and he borrowed a loan of 3,000 yuan to pay for his daughter's travel to Hong Kong. Worried that his daughter would travel alone, her father decided to accompany her.
Full of joy, Yang Lijuan went to Hong Kong and met Andy Lau for the first time with anticipation. She dressed up carefully, but this experience of going to Hong Kong did not allow the father and daughter to meet Andy Lau as they wished.
After Yang Lijuan returned to Hong Kong, she still cherished the desire to see Andy Lau. When she learned that Andy Lau was about to go to the mainland to film, she was excited.
Although the Internet was not developed at that time, and she did not know where Andy Lau would appear in which city, she immediately asked her father for another sum of money. Through some rumors and gossip, she learned about some of the cities that Andy Lau might go to.
The father was still supportive of her decision this time, and although he still owed money outstanding, he tried his best to raise funds, and although the amount borrowed was limited, he even considered selling the house to raise a large sum of money to finance his daughter.
After getting this money, Yang Lijuan had no gratitude, nor did she feel a trace of guilt. The next day, she embarked on a journey to find Andy Lau, running to many cities and many places, but she never found Andy Lau, this time, her wish was once again disappointed.
To help her achieve her dream, her father has sold the house. The family of three had nowhere to go and had to spend the night in a relative's abandoned house in disrepair. Despite the harsh environment, Yang Lijuan still fantasizes about marrying Andy Lau one day.
She has expressed her love for Andy Lau thousands of times, and the letters are full of beautiful fantasies about her being with Andy Lau. Every day she is immersed in these dreams, oblivious to the fact that her parents have worked so hard to pay off their debts.
In this case, a family of three has been living like this for several years. Yang Lijuan's mother also suffered from illness due to long-term hard work, but the family was already destitute and could not afford to pay for medical expenses.
Her father had to borrow money from relatives and friends, but they were no longer willing to lend a helping hand. Yang Lijuan's father could only work harder to make money, but he had entered old age and his physical function had declined.
At this time, Yang Lijuan learned that Andy Lau would hold a concert in Hong Kong, and she once again had the desire to see Andy Lau. She again asks her father for money, and he feels powerless. In order to help his daughter realize her dream, he has sold all the valuable things in the family in the past few years. It was the first time he had rejected his daughter's request.
After Yang Lijuan was rejected, she began to threaten her father with her own life, saying that if she couldn't see Andy Lau, then there would be no point in her life.
My father felt helpless, so he decided to ** his own kidney. He believes that even if he sells a kidney, he can continue to survive, and the money he gets can be used to support his daughter's stardom chase.
Yang Lijuan was finally fortunate to see Andy Lau himself offstage, and she screamed with excitement. She found that Andy Lau's handsomeness and charm were as she imagined.
She longs to be closer to Andy Lau, and her father also hopes to be able to fulfill her wish. For this reason, he revealed his daughter's experience of chasing stars to **, and begged the staff to let Andy Lau come out to meet his daughter.
Under such pressure, Andy Lau took the initiative to take a photo with Yang Lijuan, and this time Yang Lijuan finally got her wish.
However, for Yang Lijuan, a short meeting was far from enough to satisfy her longing, who longed for more time to communicate with Andy Lau. Therefore, she again made a request to her father, which resulted in his father committing suicide by jumping into the river in despair.
Yang Lijuan was still unrepentant after her father's suicide, she asked to meet Andy Lau many times, and said in an interview that this was her father's last wish.
She also threatened to sue Andy Lau if he refused to see her, while suggesting that his father's suicide had something to do with Andy Lau, and these remarks pushed Andy Lau into the whirlpool.
After Yang Lijuan learned that Andy Lau said that he would not see her again in this life, she cried loudly in public. She claimed that her current situation was entirely caused by Andy Lau, but her love was not responded to by Andy Lau.
In front of **, she loudly reprimanded Andy Lau, accused him of moral turpitude, and expressed her anger and helplessness towards him.
Despite this, Andy Lau still helped her pay off her debts, causing Yang Lijuan to stop losing her temper and leave Hong Kong with her mother and return to her hometown.
When she returns home, she gradually realizes that her actions are wrong, as she frantically pursues stars, forces her father to sell his kidney, and eventually ends his life by suicide. She was deeply remorseful, but it was irretrievable at this point.
She has given up her life of interviewing and stargazing, and moved to a new place with her mother to start a new life.
Although she dropped out of school as a teenager and lacked the academic and professional skills to find low-paying jobs to make ends meet, it was enough for her. She wished for her father's peace in heaven.
Many years later, Yang Lijuan appeared again in the program "Luyu has an appointment". This time, she recalled the past and said she was sorry for her family and recognized that she had caused trouble to Andy Lau. She has deeply reflected on the mistakes of the year, and admonished young children not to be obsessed with chasing stars.
Yang Lijuan once made mistakes due to willfulness, but now she has reformed and hopes that she can live in harmony with her mother, no matter what happens. Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, and good is great.