1. Always remember that whoever can decide your destiny, you will be close to. Many people don't understand this truth, so they desperately try to have a good relationship with all their colleagues in the workplace, for fear of offending anyone, but they simply ignore the leader. So in the end, it was found that often people who everyone didn't like were promoted, and people who everyone liked were not promoted in the end.
2. In the workplace, we must respect the leader, but not the person who leads it, but learn to respect that position. Only when people learn to respect power and wealth can they have a chance to gain the respect of power and wealth.
3. Have you ever found that no matter what dynasty, why do leaders like to use villains?Because villains can do things and know how to take care of the emotions of leaders. The villain has no moral concerns, and they can do whatever they want to do efficiently. A gentleman can't do it, a gentleman always likes to talk about morality and use the interests of the leader to fulfill his morality. If you were a leader, would you like someone like that?In life, we also like people who take care of our emotions and don't like friends who often talk with.
4. The crow likes to talk high and wide, but the meat in the mouth is taken away by the fox. In real life, there are too many people who like to stand on the moral high ground and talk rhetorically, but look down on those realists who do not talk about martial virtues, and as a result, they do nothing all their lives.
5. The leader holds a banquet, and the subordinates come to give gifts. Xiao Li came over and sent 1,000 yuan, Xiao Zhang sent 900, Xiao Ming sent 1,200, and Xiao Wang sent 10,000 ruthlessly. However, a few years have passed, Xiao Wang is still standing still, and his career has not improved much. The unspoken rules of society are used to abide by, not to break, sometimes, the science of gift-giving, if you don't learn it well, it will only be self-defeating, you must remember that gift-giving is not light, too heavy is not good. Savor slowly,**
6. When people are young, they must not be too particular. For example, what kind of car to drive, what kind of mobile phone to use, what kind of watch to wear, what kind of clothes to wear, this is not the main question you have to consider. If you buy something that doesn't match your economic strength, you will be careful when using it, which will invisibly increase your mental burden. People's energy is limited, and when you are young, you should think more about how to make money and how to make more contacts, rather than making things that are vain.
7. Have you found that the more you are willing to help someone, the cheaper your sincerity will be? And usually a little colder, occasionally helping, the other party is often grateful. In fact, there is nothing good about good people in this society, and bad people are not so bad, but when a bad person does a good thing at the right time, it seems that there is a reason to forgive, and as long as a good person does a bad thing, there is often no room for forgiveness, and society is so strange.
8. Remember, almost all valuable resources in the world are robbed, but they can't belong to you forever, and the moment you die, all resources return to others. After six generations of efforts, the Great Qin Empire unified China, and as soon as the First Emperor died, everything came to naught.
Ordinary people are only in this world for decades, theoretically, you can grab all resources, don't be stupid to have a waiting distribution thinking, remember, it is impossible for someone to assign good things to you, and those who wait, the most likely is that nothing good will be their turn.
The real world is that after everyone enters the market, they are frantically grabbing resources, traffic, market, men, women, living space, and everything else you see is scarce.
9. When I was young, I always cared about this and didn't like that, and when I got older, I didn't know that there was anything I liked or disliked in the world, this kind of subjective thing was delusion, it was the flower in the mirror, and the moon in the water. Only real interests are things that can be seen and touched, and it doesn't matter if you like it or not, whether you have value or not is fundamental.
10. Good people are obsessed with morality, for fear of offending anyone, while bad people are obsessed with practical philosophy, how to be happy, how to come.
Have you ever discovered why children from wealthy families are learning to socialize Xi instead of learning to Xi moral texts?You don't think that capitalists are all about creating wealth for their employees, right?What is a capitalist, is it still called a capitalist if you don't drink the blood of your employees?What is 996?That's a straw, a straw that sucks the blood of employees.
Why should the children of ordinary people be taught in the school to learn the best rules, the three-character scripture, and be a good person. This society needs a group of obscure good people, and if you are not obedient, then how can I suck your blood as a matter of course. The rich know that 90% of their income is spent on socializing, while 99% of ordinary people earn from part-time work, obedience, and doing what is really useful, and those things that are really useful will not be put on the table.
11. When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives. A person is too shrewd, but it is not good to have a relationship. Do you think, who would like someone who can see through themselves at a glance, and who likes the kind of person who is calculating?For small interests, don't pretend to be confused, let others take advantage of you, others can take advantage of you, and it will naturally be easy to get closer to you.
12. When you are an adult, you must know how to think about problems with interests. Don't always think about who's good and who's bad, it's pointless. Because whether someone else is a good person or a bad person doesn't matter to you. What you should prioritize is who is good for you and who is bad for you, and that's what you have to do with your interests, and you have to switch from good and bad thinking to good and bad thinking.
13. The interpersonal communication process is a process of constantly testing each other. The reason why people are polite to strangers is because they are not yet familiar with whether the other person is a wolf or a sheep. Once the temptation is completed, the other party will expose his true nature, watch the people cook, and release kindness to the wolf and malice to the sheep.
14. If a man says to a woman, I will give you a car in the future, if you believe it, you are a fool. Don't look at what he does to you in the future, look at what he does to you now. It's the same with your boss, don't trust what he's going to give you later, look at what he's giving you now. Live in the present, refuse future promises, just cash, and refuse checks. Men like to use the virtual future in exchange for the woman's current body, and the boss likes to use the virtual future in exchange for the employee's current life, all of which are tricks and routines, if you are on the set, it proves that you are the fool.
15. Some people listen to rumors on the Internet, and in order to change their fate, they desperately learn Xi various skills, but a few years have passed, and they are still at the bottom of society. In order to change their fate, some people began to study the allocation of resources, and a few years have passed, and now they have completed the class jump. Why is this so?
Because people with poor thinking like to upgrade technology and constantly change diapers, while people with rich thinking like to upgrade their thinking and keep changing chips, so in the end the poor become water and the rich become boats. The water is constantly going **, and the boat is getting higher and higher at this time.
16. Society wants a cone, everyone is in different positions of the cone, and the people below are desperately trying to please the people above, hoping that the people above can pull themselves. So from the bottom up, it's all butts, but when you look down at the people above, it's all smiling faces. If you are indifferent to you at this time, it means that you are not as tall as him.
17. When the tiger walks, it looks like it is sick, and when the eagle stands and stands, it looks like it is asleep. So the strong man looks harmless to humans and animals, but as long as he believes that you are his hunter, he will quickly reveal the ** side.
18. All kinds of skills for asking people to do things are commonplace in the eyes of the rich. But among the poor, it is called "a soldier can be killed, but not humiliated", "crooked ways", "unhealthy trends", and "villains' tricks".
In society, there are two kinds of rules, it is obvious that the rules that seem to have no cost are for ordinary people to see, and they look very easy to use, but when they are really used, they know that it is difficult to climb to the sky. And the rules that cannot be seen or touched are called the unspoken rules of society, which are only for those who see the essence through the phenomenon. These unspoken rules seem to be difficult to be elegant, but when you really use them, you will know how good the effect is.
19. In interpersonal communication, we must find a way to make others cool first. When someone else is cool, he will take you to play, you will have a chance, and then you will be cool. This is the unspoken rule of making others cool first, driving you to be cool too, and finally achieving common coolness. If you do the opposite, make yourself happy first, but the other party is unhappy and doesn't take you to play, you lose the opportunity, and in the end you are not happy, which is that everyone is unhappy in the end.
20, why was Song Jiang called Timely Rain?Because he likes to give timely help when others are desperate. Later, Song Jiang simply cornered the other party first, and then invited him to Liangshan, which is called sending charcoal in the snow, if there is no snow, then make snow.
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