Recently, Xu Ruoxuan announced the news of her divorce in a low-key manner, which caused various mixed emotions among netizens. Xu Ruoxuan was a recognized goddess in the circle when she was young and was sought after by many suitors.
Among the many suitors, she chose Li Yunfeng, a young talent two years younger than herself, and their marriage lasted for 9 years.
In order to live with her husband, Xu Ruoxuan deliberately moved to Singapore and took on the responsibility of taking care of the two children born to her husband and ex-wife.
In order to have their own children with her husband, Xu Ruoxuan endured the pain of more than 300 injections of fetal protection injections during pregnancy.
In the second year after giving birth, Xu Ruoxuan quickly returned to work, only because her husband's company was in financial crisis and was burdened with a debt of 1.4 billion.
Xu Ruoxuan said in the divorce statement that although there were huge differences between the two and she had done her best to overcome them, she finally decided to separate amicably.
It's vague, but if you think about it, you'll find that details are everywhere and there are subtle differences.
39-year-old Xu Ruoxuan married Li Yunfeng, and at the age of 40, she became an advanced maternal age, and she not only had to be a biological mother, but also needed to play the role of a stepmother.
Cultural differences between Singapore and Taiwan are inevitable.
Xu Ruoxuan's parents got married and divorced early, which made her unable to get a mature and complete education when she was a child, and she could only grow up on her own.
In contrast, Li Yunfeng studied step-by-step, established a family and a career, and the educational backgrounds of the two were significantly different.
Xu Ruoxuan was born in a poor family and has experienced more than 30 moves, each time renting a house. Until she was 26 years old, she bought a house for her family with the money she earned.
On the other hand, Li Yunfeng came from a wealthy family and ran the mining and transportation industry, and after returning from studying abroad, he took over as chairman of the "Marco Polo Maritime Group of Singapore", which has a market value of 600 million yuan.
Although the two have reached a similar level with the efforts of the day after tomorrow, there are huge differences between them in terms of birth family, educational background and future development.
No matter how hard you try to hide yourself, in marriage, all your experiences will not be hidden.
To understand why the two divorced, it is to understand the differences between Xu Ruoxuan and Li Yunfeng.
Xu Ruoxuan's signs of divorce have long appeared, and the true face of her married life has also been exposed, which is in stark contrast to the glamorous appearance shown.
Recently, the variety show "Polar Island Forest 2" was launched, and Da S's husband Gu Junye and Xu Ruoxuan were specially invited to participate, so that everyone could appreciate the beauty of forest life together.
Xu Ruoxuan frequently expressed her feelings in the show, which often made the audience question her married life and think that she was not happy.
Xu Ruoxuan has been working very hard all these years.
She was sick and quarantined, and she recorded ** alone in her room, saying: "After the quarantine ends on September 10, it will be released on September 11**." Her eyes and expression looked tired.
Last year, the red light of Xu Ruoxuan and Li Yunfeng's relationship was lit, but in August 2022, when Xu Ruoxuan's new film "First Love Slow Half Beat" premiered, Li Yunfeng did not appear.
In the past, Li Yunfeng would always cheer for Xu Ruoxuan's new film.
However, in February this year, some netizens met Xu Ruoxuan in Singapore with her children out to play basketball. This shows that there is a problem in the relationship between them, and Xu Ruoxuan still seems to have chosen to endure it.
Xu Ruoxuan once revealed that she lives with her husband and parents-in-law, and although she has to conform to their daily routine, she is grateful because it makes her work and rest more regular.
In addition to living with her parents-in-law, Xu Ruoxuan also needs to take care of the children born to her husband and ex-wife, which can be described as full of responsibility.
Xu Ruoxuan may have decided to move back to Taiwan because she was too depressed, but she didn't expect the distance between her and her husband to gradually widen.
The outside world thinks that Xu Ruoxuan's marriage is happy and happy, but it can be seen from some details that she is not happy. Even insiders have said that Xu Ruoxuan's divorce is a "happy event" for her and congratulate her.
I wish Xu Ruoxuan a happier life after the divorce, everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, and I believe she will welcome a better tomorrow.