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Preface. What are the tenderest words in love?
Some people say that the most tender love words are "I love you" for men and "I miss you" for women.
In a romantic relationship, a man wants to win a woman's love, and he always expresses it in words. A woman wants to hear a man's confession and show that he is sincere with her.
In a relationship, when a man loves you, he will say "I love you" and want the woman to listen to him. But what really touches a woman is not the three words "I love you", but the three words "I am here"!In other words, what women care about most is not sweet words, but men's usual care and thoughtfulness.
In fact, for women, the word "I love you" is uncertain. Because there are no absolutes in this world.
Women sometimes think that men verbally say "I love you", but it doesn't really mean anything. For example, some men use the phrase "I love you" in their lives to deceive women, but women are cold to them.
Therefore, when a woman loves a man, the most she wants to hear is: "Don't worry, everything is 'with me'." ”
I'm here" is better than "I'm here". "I'm here" and "I love you" have more weight When it comes to love, what women need most is not sweet words, but the company of men.
Now that your relationship is decided, if you just say "I love you" to her and don't intend to spend time together, then saying "I love you" over and over again is empty.
In fact, women sometimes give hints when men need companionship the most.
For example, when a woman says "I want to know you", it is an affirmation and expectation of the relationship between the two of you. She wants the two of them to have enough time to communicate and spend a romantic and happy time together.
At this time, the man will feel that the phrase "I am here" carries more weight than "I love you".
"I'm here" means that you have time to come to her and be there for her.
To be honest, when men and women are dating, they often say "stay here", which is more likely to get women's attention and like.
Don't think the term is cheap. The cheaper the word, the more weight it has.
When a man says "I love you," it can be true love, but it can also be fake love. Because there is no way to express it, it is just empty words. And "here I am" means action and weight.
In other words, women don't need men to say "I love you" over and over again, they need him to say "I'm here". Because what women really need is a sense of connection and stability with their peers.
Only by doing this will the love that a man gives to a woman become more meaningful.
I am here" to express respect, compassion and tolerance.
In a romantic relationship, a man wants to be respected by a woman. In fact, women also want to be respected by men.
Everyone knows that if there is no mutual respect, consideration and tolerance between two people, the relationship will become weaker and weaker. Only mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual tolerance can make the relationship better.
I love you" sounds beautiful these three words, but anyone who can say them will say them. This is just a verbal expression and does not represent an actual act.
But "I'm here" is different. It represents respect, thoughtfulness and tolerance in the practical sense.
If a man can say "I'm here", it means that he is willing to respect everything about a woman, that he can understand her efforts and difficulties, and that he can tolerate all her shortcomings.
Because, this is the most sincere love.
So, if you want to win a woman's loyalty, say "I'm here" more!
Because it's an affirmation. The most important thing for her is that you are here. As long as she is around her, she will feel safe.
I am here" to express trust, understanding and compassion.
True love in the eyes of a woman is not "I love you", but "I am here".
There is interdependence and spiritual dependence in interpersonal relationships. In this relationship, there is an element of mutual support, an emotional warmth.
Love is a wonderful thing that often appears in our lives, but we often don't understand its meaning.
In fact, you can see it as companionship in life, giving love and care to each other.
This kind of emotional companionship is not necessarily to be together every day, but you can feel the care that each other brings to each other.
Without an emotional foundation, human love will not last.
So, don't think that "I love you" is the best way to express love, and use your heart to feel the needs and intentions of the other person.
If we look closely, those who often say "I love you" do not give a person a long and stable future, but only those who often say "I am here" are likely to be loved, and I understand this.
"Be by my side" means that you will give her the greatest comfort.
What women need most in a relationship is actually a sense of security, which is also their nature.
A woman's heart is very delicate and sensitive. Especially when it comes to love and marriage, they prefer a man who can give them a sense of security.
The three words "I'm here" are thicker and more real than the peace of mind that "I love you".
Because "I'm here" means standing beside a woman, and "I'm here" isn't just words, it's an actual act of love.
Don't think it's more casual to say "I'm here" than to say "I love you." The phrase "I love you" can be said casually, and many people don't take it seriously. These three words are a "joke" at best.
However, "I'm here" has a different meaning, meaning you need to actually come to the woman to be there for her, rather than just saying "I'm here."
Otherwise, it is difficult to appreciate a woman's sincerity.
In other words, in a woman's mind, "I'm here" is the greatest peace of mind she can get from a man.