In "The True Story of Hot Mom", a very interesting character is Xia Bing's boss Li Muzi.
She is beautiful, rich, smart and capable, and she is simply a role model for women in the new era. But outside of her career, her marriage is a mess.
It is always said that it is enough for a married woman to make money and become beautiful, and it turns out that marriage is a big lesson that requires more business wisdom.
A woman who is comfortable at work may not be able to control everything in the family.
Don't look at Li Muzi's brilliance, her marriage is not happy at all. In other words, she thought she was happy, but in fact, she was already in danger.
Husband Luo Tian is a second-married man, and his ex-wife is a rural woman and a daughter. The reason why Luo Tian divorced is also disgusting, because he is rich, and he can't take his wife who is disgusted with chaff.
Li Muzi is very quick about his career, but he is not very emotionally conscious.
If a man can give up his wife and children, will he die for another woman?Li Muzi has a full sense of superiority in the face of Luo Tian's ex-wife, and always feels that winning Luo Tian is a win.
In fact, a man like Luo Tian is simply unreliable. From the outside, the scenery is decent, but in the bones it looks like a giant baby. I relied on my mother since I was a child, and I relied on my wife as an adult.
Luo Tian was originally Li Muzi's husband, but he never took any responsibility for his family, and listened to Li Muzi's arrangement in everything. It doesn't matter if you don't have an opinion, you still think that Li Muzi controls herself.
After he had children with Li Muzi, his cowardice and selfishness were manifested. Ordinary men cherish it in their old age, but it is rare to hold a child, and the care and care are not as good as the nanny.
Afterwards, the mother came to visit her grandson from the countryside, which made the family miserable, and Luo Tian did not play any coordinating role, so he went out silently to avoid it.
The person Li Muzi chose who lacked responsibility, cowardice and selfishness was really bad.
Why did I once say that it is better for a woman not to marry a second-married man?Because you will be involved in a more complicated family strife. If a man can memorize it clearly, it's okay. If he doesn't have a sense of boundaries. He's going to die even worse.
No matter how successful and outstanding Li Muzi is, he can't stop Luo Tian from caring about his ex-wife. His ex-wife lost her job, and Luo Tian would ask Li Muzi for help on the pretext of helping a relative find a job.
The ex-wife is also a tricky lord herself, and she is even more unscrupulous with Luo Tian's secret support.
Even though Li Muzi and Luo Tian have been married for almost 10 years, this woman has not let go of her hatred, she has always thought that Li Muzi snatched Luo Tian. Every time I see Li Muzi, I grit my teeth.
Faced with his ex-wife's embarrassment of his current wife, Luo Tian never came forward to help Li Muzi, but asked Li Muzi to reason with the other party again and again.
Even helped introduce the work regardless of previous suspicions. Li Muzi has a lot of ability, but this ability was taken advantage of by Luo Tian. Luo Tian's love for Li Muzi is not very deep, it should be said that he is very utilitarian, and he knows that he can get a lot of benefits by getting along with Li Muzi.
Li Muzi can make money, has abundant resources, and has a wide range of contacts, and if he encounters any trouble, Li Muzi can help solve it. Even when he took his ex-wife and daughter to study abroad, Li Muzi did not hesitate to lose his money. What's even more terrifying is that Luo Tian's utilitarian drive for Li Muzi directly acts on his daughter.
The 18-year-old girl also learned to get close to Li Muzi and wanted to profit from it. Li Muzi was overconfident and wanted to make a name for himself, so he couldn't see the sinister hearts of people.
She thought that she only needed to help her husband solve some problems to achieve worldly happiness, but she didn't know that her efforts had become natural behind the scenes.
Li Muzi's marriage tragedy, in addition to Luo Tianwuwei, also has a lingering relationship with his ex-wife. There is also the problem of Li Muzi's own desire to control.
She confuses family with work, and it is good to be decisive in the workplace, but at home she also follows the principle of killing and deciding at work, which makes the whole family extremely cold.
As the editor-in-chief of the magazine, Li Muzi is accustomed to calling for wind and rain in the enterprise. After returning home, she still didn't put down her work figure, and she only had instructions and requests for Luo Tian.
Li Muzi's strength and domineering squeezed Luo Tian's living space at home little by little.
What's worse is that after giving birth, in order to better observe the situation in her home, she installed a camera and a Luo Tian studio in her home.
Living under surveillance made Luo Tian feel extremely depressed. Your words and actions are controlled by your partner, and you will lose your freedom completely. Li Muzi loves Luo Tian very much, but her approach is wrong, she invades Luo Tian's private boundary little by little, causing mutual dissatisfaction and resentment.
In fact, Luo Tian had already discussed with Li Muzi, and there was no place for the husband and wife to have an accident. But Li Muzi didn't listen at all, she believed too much in her own philosophy of survival. However, the spouse is not an employee, nor is he or she alone in giving orders or acting at his or her own orders.
The two should have a dialogue and exchange from the same level. Behind the high-ranking wife, there is also a kneeling husband, and this marriage will never be outdated no matter how long it is.
Li Muzi is destined to be a tragedy in marriage, and in terms of personality and temper, he is too self-righteous and too domineering.
Another point is that because of the sense of superiority brought by ability, Li Muzi focused too much on himself and ignored his partner's feelings. For example, she wants to have a child, prepares to be pregnant for 7 years, takes medication for a test, and vows not to give up until she achieves her goal.
even thinks that as long as you have children, the family is perfect.
However, she will never know that although Luo Tian remembers her ovulation period and cooperates with the preparation for pregnancy, she has never had a second child.
The child fell to the ground, Li Muzi devoted himself to the child, and he couldn't see Luo Tian's shadow in his eyes. She took her children as her sustenance, but she didn't know that Luo Tian had gradually drifted away from her.
In real life, there may be many women like Li Muzi who think that as long as they succeed in their careers and maintain their appearance, they can get married happily.
It's right to make yourself better, but marriage is a matter for two people, and you can't let your other half pay for you for your own desires.
Moreover, no matter how successful you are, you should not take home the decision to kill at work. Home is a place for intercession, not a place for obedience and rules.
The most important thing is not to work too hard for perfection, but to accept the imperfections in life in order to live steadily and cherish everything.
Money is important, but it is not the only condition for a happy marriage. When you're busy with your career, remember to stop and hug your significant other. Emotions are to be managed, but also to be taken care of with heart.