What kind of pit will a man dig for the original partner to jump after cheating?
You have to prick up your ears to listen to these things.
Once a man betrays, he is no longer your lover, but an enemy, a betrayer, then you have to speculate on him with the greatest malice, otherwise you must be the one who suffers. After a man cheats, more than 95% of them will dig a pit for the original partner, because he wants to achieve his unknown purpose, such as threesomes, property transfers, forcing you to leave the house, and splashing dirty water on you, which are all common things.
So what the hell will he do?
First of all, the first one is to dig a hole for you emotionally, for example, as soon as you mention his, or you want to talk to him about these things, he yells like a tiger with his tail stepped on, or all kinds of belittling you, accusing you, saying that you didn't do a good job here, not doing a good job there, and some play cold violence with you, this is a means of emotional manipulation of you by a cheating man, trying to overwhelm you in momentum. Or snub you, make you feel scared, so that you keep compromising and listen to him.
There is a second one, that is, a pit dug in cognition, for example, he will use all kinds of strong words to reason for you**, what is wrong with me cheating, who is not cheating in this society, do you see who is not cheating?Other people's wives can accept you, why are you making trouble here?What's wrong with me looking for the third sister?Your bucket waist is so strong, I am annoyed when I see you, this is ridiculous, this is some cognitive trap set by men for you, once you agree with his point of view and compromise his point of view, then you will doubt yourself and have cognitive biases.
Thirdly, he's going to dig some big holes for you in terms of promises, so I'm going to say one of the most common pitfalls, like what agreement you ask him to sign, right?It seems that he compensated you in terms of material, but as long as you are not divorced, won't the family's money still belong to the two of you?He doesn't really have anything to lose. For another example, he swore that he would cut off the relationship with the third sister, but behind his back, he seemed to be full of true feelings and returns, but in fact, he just wanted to draw a big pie for you.
And the fourth, he will dig a sinkhole for you materially, and the transfer of property is actually a trivial matter. The most heartless man, he will give you fictitious debts and even transfer the risks of the company to you.
The above are some of the big pits that cheating men often dig for their original partners. You must remember that as long as a man betrays you, his heart has changed, then you can't be defenseless, so don't talk to him anymore, you know?