Accept everything that happens, and be grateful for everything that happens.
As the saying goes: "The heart is in turmoil, everything is in chaos, and the heart is at peace." ”
The external circumstances are the inner manifestations, and the bitterness and joy of life are the projections of the soul.
The heart is the root of everything, the heart is quiet, the attitude is positive, everything is good, and everything you see is the scenery;
And the heart is flustered, the mentality is pessimistic, everything is an obstacle, and there are ups and downs everywhere.
What you are in your heart, life is what you are!In this life, people are paying for their mentality!
Pessimistic mentality, everything is difficult
In the Analects, it is said: "The villain is poor. ”
People who are not cultivated enough, who are fragile and incompetent, who encounter bad things and face difficult situations, will look at them with a negative attitude.
As a result, pessimism grew, flooding like a tidal wave, eventually drowning people and completely losing hope.
I've seen a story:
In ancient times, there was a scholar named Li Shou, who was unfortunately robbed by robbers on the way to Beijing to catch the exam.
He thought depressedly: "It's not going well when I just go out, I'm afraid there is no hope for this exam." ”
As a result, he really failed, so he sighed and went home, and his father persuaded him to continue to study hard and take the exam again in three years.
But when he thought of what had happened before, he said in frustration: "I am really a useless person, and I have no hope of thinking about it."
After that, he was depressed and depressed all day long, and over time he was bedridden, and it was difficult to even walk normally.
One day, he heard the sound of someone playing at the funeral, and said sadly, "It seems that I will die soon!"With that, he died soon.
There is a saying in "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace": "Those who are happy and easy are always long-lived, and those who are in danger often die." ”
Happiness is the antidote to life, and worry is the poison of life.
The heart is like a magnet, the more negative and pessimistic it is, the more it will attract unfortunate things to happen, poison life, and destroy people.
Therefore, know how to understand your own thoughts, observe your own state, and think more about the lucky side when things are not going well;
When things don't go well, look at the scenery in front of you and adjust your mentality in time, you can change the magnetic field and change your fate.
Optimistic mentality, everything is calm
In the Analects, it is said: "Those who know are happy with water, and those who are benevolent are happy with mountains." ”
Wise and wise people, affection for the landscape, but also nourished by the landscape;A broad-minded person has the sun and the moon in his heart, and he is also surrounded by the sun and the moon**.
The world is a mirror, and people with a positive attitude look at everything optimistically, so things will be good.
Yuan Mei, a poet of the Qing Dynasty, became famous and talented at a young age, but because he was not suitable for writing articles on the "Four Books", his scientific ranking was not ideal, but he was not discouraged, but worked hard to study the "Four Books".
Later, when he entered the Hanlin Temple, he was sent to a place because he couldn't write a full text.
At that time, his classmates were all prosperous, and he only became a "seven-grade petty official", but he did not complain, but governed the local area very well, made remarkable political achievements, and was respected.
Later, he decided to return to the mountains and forests, and some people said that he was uninhibited, but he didn't explain much and laughed it off.
Until the age of eighty, he was still in good spirits, and he could still hike and climb the mountain, and later generations wrote poems to praise "the spirit of eighty is better than the youth, and the mountaineering foot is strong and walks on the clouds".
The ancients said: "Plants and trees flourish and wither from time to time, and all things are calm and content." ”
Plants and trees will flourish and bloom, but they will also wither and wither, and so will life, where there are smooth and smooth roads, there will be muddy and difficult paths.
When the road is wide, move forward steadily, and walk and sing;When the road is narrow, walk slowly and realize as you go. When you have a good attitude, everything is happy and everything is calm!
Accept everything that happens, and be grateful for everything that happens.
Mencius said: "Heaven will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skins ......."”
As human beings, everyone has different energies, different missions, and different experiences.
The greater a person's energy and the more he can carry, the more difficult the test given by God will be.
All happening is for you, and all experiences are for you.
I've seen a story:
Once upon a time, there was a soldier who followed the team to the border, and on the way he was infected with the plague, and many of his companions were also infected, and they complained: "It's too unlucky." ”
The soldier said, "Thank God, it was only infected on the way, and there was a doctor to treat it!"”
Because of his active cooperation**, he quickly recovered, while most of the others lost their lives.
After arriving at the border, just in time for a small enemy invasion, the commander randomly selected some people to fight with him, including soldiers.
Some were indignant: "It's so unlucky." ”
The soldier secretly rejoiced: "Thanks to the few enemies, it is an opportunity to exercise." ”
Later, the soldier survived, and the battlefield experience became more and more abundant, and he was valued by the commander, and his official fortune was smooth all the way.
As the old saying goes, "Heaven has the virtue of a good life." ”
Heaven is always kind and loving, and will care for all beings equally and selflessly.
It's just that personal vision is limited, and it is difficult to comprehend the deep meaning and feel the truth in the meantime.
So, if you haven't gotten what you want, please believe that there must be other arrangements!If you are in a difficult situation at this time, please believe that it will not be the end!▽
"The Ballad of Relief Heart" says: "The sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain, and there is a day of sorrow and a day of joy;If you don't drill the horns of the bull in case of trouble, people are also comfortable, and your heart is also comfortable. ”
The trajectory of life comes out by oneself, and the joy of the days is tasted by oneself.
With a calm attitude, taking every step is the greatest respect for life;Living every day with an optimistic attitude is the greatest sincerity to life.
For the rest of our lives, may we change our negative mindset in times of adversity;In good times, maintain an optimistic attitude, only be grateful and have no complaints, only joy and no sorrow.
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