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"Golden Wedding" has a full 50 episodes, and the high-quality dramas are still unsatisfied. How many women are like Wen Li before marriage and become sister-in-law after marriage?
The word "marriage" is not frivolous, but don't look too heavy either. It is the only way for most people to go through life.
Just think about it, many women live as beautiful and intellectual, cute and coquettish Wen Li before marriage, and live as a rough and hard-working sister-in-law after marriage.
Marriage is not the end of love, but a new starting point in life, and it is also a great turning point.
A golden wedding monument has witnessed the vicissitudes of time and the process of two people from youth to maturity.
is the two living treasure couples depicted in "Golden Wedding" - Tong Zhi and Wen Li, Da Zhuang and Zhuang's sister-in-law.
The first turning point for a woman is the child.
Every child is the hope of the family, but how to take care of the child is a subject that mothers and fathers must continue to learn throughout their lives. Wen Li and Zhuang's sister-in-law, one is a princess in the city, and the other is a bitter child in the countryside.
Her world has since become small and ordinary. Fortunately, she and Tong Zhi were united because of love, and on a cold night, thinking about love, they could more or less resist the loneliness in marriage.
And Sister-in-law Zhuang, she does not have the background, appearance and taste of Wen Li, but she has a good personality, good popularity, and three positive views, and Sister-in-law Zhuang, who only gave birth to one son in her life, uses her own way to make a family of three still live a very nourishing life in that era of lack of food and clothing.
Because Wen Li gave birth to a child, the way she spent money changed from extravagance to frugality. Fortunately, she is naturally beautiful, and her figure is not out of shape.
The second twist is hobbies. I remember one episode, the teenage second daughter Tong Nanfang loves to read very much, and her hobby is actually inherited from Wen Li.
It can be seen that after getting married, with the growth of age and the number of children, Wen Li loves the hobby of reading, and it is estimated that she has forgotten all about herself.
There's no way, just a little time and energy, to take care of the family, how can I have the spare heart to stick to my hobbies.
Sister-in-law Zhuang doesn't know a few words, so she is like this from before marriage to after marriage, she can do housework very well, and can cook meals very deliciously, but in terms of hobbies, Sister-in-law Zhuang doesn't.
Maybe Sister-in-law Zhuang's hobby revolves around Da Zhuang and her son, at this point, Wen Li has more and more common language with Sister-in-law Zhuang after marriage.
The third twist is the lack of trust in the husband.
Sister-in-law Zhuang's wedding is a regret of her life, because Dazhuang had fallen in love with Wenli's cousin Meimei before, and the two had a good relationship.
Da Zhuang likes Mei Mei, but because he has already made a marriage with Zhuang's sister-in-law in his hometown, if he doesn't marry Zhuang's sister-in-law, he will be poked in the backbone by his hometown. For the sake of face and morality, he didn't marry Zhuang's sister-in-law, so he couldn't say anything.
Dazhuang has no love for Zhuang's sister-in-law, no gorgeous vows, no earth-shattering romance, only a plain life like water, of course, Dazhuang also likes to condescendingly instruct Zhuang's sister-in-law, and Zhuang's sister-in-law has not trusted her husband since she got married. When she was old and inflexible, she refused to hire a nurse, because she was afraid that Dazhuang would still be attentive.
Wen Li has been cared for by Tong Zhi in the palm of her hand for several years from falling in love to getting married, and Tong Zhi is rushing to do any dirty work at home.
Tong Zhi also had an ambiguous object, that is, Yao Ailun, who pursued him relentlessly, and even Wen Li knew that Yao Ailun was very popular with Tong Zhi and his mother. But because of love, Wen Li never had to take this rival in her eyes.
Until Li Tianjiao's appearance, Tong Zhiyuan was on the third line, and Li Tianjiao's appearance made him a little tempted. After Wen Li gave birth to her fourth son, Dabao, she took her son fully armed, and even forgot Tong Zhi's birthday.
Li Tianjiao gave Wen Li a sense of crisis for the first time, she became as suspicious as Sister-in-law Zhuang, and she began to no longer trust Tong Zhi as before, and was very defensive, always worried that he would fall in love with other women.
Time is silent, but it can change many people and many things.
Many women have had beautiful dreams and pursued romantic love, but in the end they chose a plain life. Their choice may not be enviable, but it is the truest happiness.
It's not that she is called an independent woman if she is not married or childless, like Wen Li's cousin Meimei, who never married for the rest of her life, and when she got old, Zhuang's sister-in-law died, and some people asked her if she wanted to marry Da Zhuang, but fortunately she was sober enough to refuse.
Because, true happiness does not lie in how much wealth you have, not in how high your status is, but in the fact that you can find someone who understands you, loves you, and accompanies you.
Wen Li and Tong Zhi's 50 years of companionship have been happier than many people, and their golden wedding monument is engraved with traces of time and the ups and downs they have walked together.
Modern female friends are more kind to themselves than Wen Li, they take care of their families, exercise and exercise, learn all kinds of talents, pay attention to body management and inner abundance, and will not be like Zhuang's sister-in-law who wronged herself, which is a gratifying progress. List of high-quality authors