In fact, love, like food, also has an expiration date.
When feelings lack freshness and excitement, they become bland.
Everyone's choice is different, so the direction of the relationship will also be different.
Some people are able to adapt to this blandness and live in harmony;Others, over time, begin to develop resentment towards their significant other.
In the following 3 time periods, men are particularly prone to cheating, and they are very accurate, and women should know it.
When the wife is pregnant
A survey found that when a wife is pregnant, men are most likely to have an affair.
When pregnant, for the sake of the baby's health, you can't make love often, and men's desires come and are difficult to be satisfied.
Moreover, my wife's pregnancy is very hard, she can't eat or sleep well, and she loses her temper easily, which makes the relationship between the two tense.
In addition, having a baby, men are under a lot of pressure, and sometimes they want to escape.
Therefore, you should pay special attention to your husband during pregnancy and don't let him mess around.
As a wife, care more about your husband, be gentle with him, and keep yourself happy.
As a husband, you must know how hard your wife is, how grateful she is, and don't forget how much she has suffered and how many sins she has suffered for giving birth to a child.
Giving birth to a child is not a matter for the wife alone, and the husband should also care more and accompany more.
Go for a prenatal check-up together and think about the baby's name together, so that the husband will have a greater sense of responsibility and will not regret doing something wrong for the rest of his life.
When life gets better
I often hear people say it"When a man is rich, he becomes bad".Although it may sound like a joke, there is actually some truth to it.
Most men love face, and they especially like to pursue novelty and excitement.
When they don't have money, they may be quite honest because their desires are not so strong at that time.
But when they have money and status, they may feel that the wife around them is not worthy of them, or they feel that they have the ability to get a better woman.
At this time, if a woman with better conditions is slightly nicer to him, the man will take the bait.
But in the end, this kind of relationship often doesn't end well, and it goes to jail.
In fact, whether a man cheats or not, it is essentially a matter of character, and money may just be their excuse.
Therefore, women still have to see the true face of men and don't be deceived by their rhetoric.
When feelings are flat
Two people who love each other again, after getting along for a long time, the relationship will gradually become dull, just like drinking boiled water every day, which has no taste.
That's what people often say"The Seven Year Itch".
When people reach middle age, their own careers, their parents' pensions, and children's education, these problems are becoming more and more obvious.
Life is stressful, and the wife doesn't understand, and marriage becomes a responsibility and a burden.
Some men are unwilling to face these conflicts at home and always want to find something fresh.
If you are under great psychological pressure and cannot be comforted in your marriage, you may go outside to have fun.
Therefore, husband and wife should communicate more, find some new topics, new interests, and add some material to life.
It's also a good idea to keep a little distance and don't rely too much on the other person.
Then surprise each other from time to time to make life a little fresh.
There are only zero and ten thousand cheating.
Extramarital affairs are really not a good way out, you may feel new and exciting at first, but in the end, it is definitely yourself who suffers.
Don't think that lust can save you from misery, that's just self-deception.
Therefore, men should know how to be kind to themselves, to their partners, to their marriages, to manage themselves, and not to let themselves regret it.