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After Chen Changyu got the death sentence of his father Chen Jiwei, he smiled very happily.
Last year, he said on Weibo: "I hope the law will execute Chen Jiwei and execute it immediately." ”
Now, he says, "I finally got what I wanted." ”
Who is Chen Changyu?Why did he send his biological father to the "guillotine"?
Don't you have any feelings in your heart about your father being sentenced to death?”
Very happy!Chen Changyu paused for a second before squeezing these three words out of his throat, gritting his teeth, a little trembling but extremely firm.
When Chen Changyu was one year old, his father, Chen Jiwei, was sentenced to 10 years in prison for robbery.
He was dependent on his mother and was displaced. Fortunately, my mother was hardworking, and she gradually had a home to live in.
Although life is hard, Chen Changyu's childhood is still colorful at this time.
The nightmare began in 2007, when Chen Jiwei was released from prison ahead of schedule.
Only then did Chen Changyu know that his father would be violent.
His cruel father beat their mother and son like cattle.
Wine bottles, cigarette tubes, wires, anything in the house with a liner will become a tool for Chen Jiwei to beat them.
Chen Changyu didn't want to live such a dark life anymore, when he was 9 years old, he drank pesticides, but his mother found out and rescued him.
In 2013, Chen Jiwei was imprisoned again, this time sentenced to 3 years.
But for Chen Changyu, there is no short-term peace, it is more like crossing his fingers and waiting for fear to return.
It is unimaginable that after Chen Jiwei was released from prison, he was brutally beaten again. Chen Changyu committed suicide again, but his mother also rescued him again.
Growing up in the mountains, my mother always believed that there would be an end to hard life.
After Chen Jiwei was released from prison, he intensified. Once, Chen Changyu couldn't bear it anymore and chose to call the police.
He is your biological father, and after your mother is gone, he will be in this family, is it okay to live a good life?"This is the advice of the villagers and the uncle.
Yes, there was no result of the alarm. Everyone thinks that "it's normal for a man to not beat a woman." ”
Chen Changyu dropped out of school early to go out to work and fled the family. But he couldn't rest assured of his mother.
Her mother also escaped three times, but each time Chen Jiwei would threaten her against her grandparents, and then she would return to that home.
She knew that she was forced to be helpless, and made excuses for herself:
I want to give my children a complete home, but I also worry that my parents will be harmed, and I want my children to inherit the house built on the homestead. ”
The last domestic violence occurred during the Spring Festival in 2021, when his mother, who was working outside with Chen Changyu, insisted on going home, but he couldn't stop it.
After Chen Jiwei found out, he took his brother to the door to confess and cry, and asked his mother to go home and live a good life with her.
Chen Changyu's uncle agreed. Because her mother had a heart condition, her uncle couldn't afford the surgery, so he persuaded her to go home.
The tragedy struck in March, when Chen Jiwei locked his mother in the house, poured gasoline on it, and did not hesitate to light a fire.
Chen Changyu, who hurried home, couldn't believe that the person on the hospital bed was his mother.
Her face was swollen and blackened. Chen Changyu screamed anxiously, and finally could only cry loudly.
Then, he called the police.
Faced with the facts of the crime, Chen Jiwei did not admit it, he said that it was his mother who poured gasoline, and he did not know how the fire burned.
In the end, Chen Changyu began a long road of litigation.
He asked for help**, many institutions, and constantly posted on Weibo to ask for legal aid.
Finally, on December 16, 2022, he got the verdict and sentenced Chen Jiwei to death.
Chen Changyu is brave, he carries the shadow of his childhood, seems to have violated secular morality, and finally seeks justice for his mother.
His mother can only rest in the ground.
She had a chance to live, but let's see what happened:
First, it was the Spring Festival, and she insisted on going back to her parents' house despite the obstacles;
Second, Chen Jiwei came to the door to confess and cry;
Third, her brother was afraid of bearing the cost of her heart disease, so he persuaded her to go home with Chen Jiwei.
Here I saw a traditional, kind, and filial daughter who insisted on reuniting with her elderly parents during the traditional Chinese New Year.
But when the demonic Chen Jiwei came to the door, she was persuaded to go home by her "mother's family".
* It doesn't say what the attitude of Chen Changyu's grandparents is.
However, as long as there is a hardened mother's family to protect her, she doesn't have to go back with the devil that day.
Perhaps, in the heart of the hard-working mother, she knows that the daughter who marries out and spills the water is an "outsider" in her mother's family.
Therefore, she could only follow Chen Jiwei back.
After all, that home has all the things she bought with her own hands, and it is a home that she has built bit by bit.
Perhaps because of this, she also wants to give her children and belong to his home.
So, she risked being abused again and put herself in danger, or perhaps, she had fantasies:
"What if Chen Jiwei really repents and reforms?”
Only this time, she sacrificed her life and verified:
Once domestic violence is turned on, it will never be finished.
A reporter once interviewed 50 women of domestic violence, and 29 victims all said:
"Once the domestic violence is divorced, the child will be unhappy without a father. ”
The domestic violence wife of a Shaanxi executive who was once on the hot search is a living case.
In the ** picture circulating, the man frantically hit his wife on the head and even jumped to his feet.
I don't care that there is a child in my wife's arms.
The wife could not resist, so she could only endure the man's beatings while comforting the child in her arms.
Maybe the man couldn't enjoy the fight, and then he pressed her directly into the sofa, and his fists fell on his wife like raindrops.
Another older child in the family wanted to rush forward to protect his mother, but was kicked away by the man.
In the end, he could only cry miserably, "Mom"...
It's not that the beaten wife didn't think about divorce, but her parents asked her to endure it for the sake of having a complete home for her children.
For the sake of children?Because it is necessary to give the child a complete home.
However, a complete family does not mean that children will be happy.
You think you're keeping your family intact, but you may actually be hurting him.
For children who have witnessed the unhappiness of their families, it is difficult to live happily for the rest of the year.
In the TV series "I Passed Through the Storm", the male protagonist Chen Jun is the unfortunate child.
When she was a child, Chen Jun's mother was also a victim of domestic violence, but she did not escape from the environment at that time, but chose to "endure it and pass".
However, in fact, she has left traces after being beaten, and she has also changed from a victim to a perpetrator.
So, after getting married, Chen Jun, when faced with the same situation, chose the way he was most familiar with.
As soon as he didn't agree with him, he began to get angry, and he would drag Xu Min into the bedroom and beat him up at any time.
Once, accidentally seen by a young child, he arrogantly said to his son, ".The son learns a little, and the disobedience of a woman is a lesson. ”
It's like when his father beat his mother when he was a childDomestic violence taught by words and deeds is the most deeply rooted in children's hearts.
In the end, he harmed himself and cast a shadow of fear on his son.
The first impression of domestic violence is the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers", the male protagonist An Jiahe can always have various excuses to punch and kick his wife.
At the beginning, after beating his wife, he would confess, slap himself, beg for forgiveness, and say that he loved only his wife the most.
As a result, when I wanted to fight, I still grabbed it and beat it up.
However, beating is not the only form of domestic violence.
In this drama, the wife is restricted in her personal freedom at the end, which is also a manifestation of domestic violence.
In addition, economic control, PUA, and threats are also in the category of domestic violence.
Also, some hidden quotations should also be noted:
If you dare to leave me, you will pay the price. ”
You think it's "the overbearing president falls in love with me", but it's possible, there will really be a price;
Am I not enough?What more friends. ”
You think he's swearing sovereignty and being coquettish to you, but in fact, it may really make you lose friends.
If you've ever heard something like that, it makes you feel sick and you've really had an argument about it.
Then, you have to be careful whether it is a sweet trap before domestic violence.
Leave decisively before the damage spreads further.
The people have spoken: ".Once domestic violence occurs, it is no longer a domestic matter, but an illegal act. ”
Therefore, for women, it is necessary to see clearly that domestic violence is that criminals are wearing the cloak of "home", and the core is to carry out harmful acts.
Today, you think that for the sake of the child's good, you are wronged and living under the magic melon of "him".
Tomorrow, your child may be reduced to a fist-waving prop just like you.
In the end, it hurts you and your children.
So, don't let marriage become a talisman for domestic violence, if you encounter it, please be brave enough to take up the law and maintain your safety.
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Author: Lin Meimei.
Editor: Ichiyigi.